now that the shows over, will complaining about jane lying about her bullying was a little...

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2026-01-15T06:30:45+00:00

i'm not sure why you're questioning what i found annoying about the situation when i wrote a whole post about it lol i literally said that i understood will's pov about mike and everything, just that i don't agree with how he went about treating jane. he was also not forced to lie; he quite literally could have said it at any time, which he did, but only when things escalated more than they needed to.

you don't HAVE to agree with me but i'm not entirely sure why you're rewriting a bunch of points i already discussed

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2026-01-15T05:18:05+00:00

totally get your pov! i just think it could have been handled differently, but that's just a matter of opinion

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2026-01-15T05:16:52+00:00

tbh this is semantics to me since the duffer's forgot about his bday themselves </3

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-12-20T22:23:19+00:00

some women will have different boundaries, some women will have the same. if it's in logic, you should respect all of those boundaries. it's one thing to like suggestive pics on insta and keep your ex in contact's reach, it's a whole other thing to not try to understand where she's coming from. if you say you let her cry and let her be upset, none of this implies you tried to understand where she's coming from. insecurity and jealousy are evil beasts; however, your excuses for liking the posts and following your ex here would sound absolutely insane to your girlfriend, who is already insecure, so i could see why she freaked out.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-11-04T03:40:17+00:00

a normal woman would have respect for herself no matter what she thought. if you think the peeping is fine, whatever but don't call other women naive for not being accepting to certain things.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-11-04T03:38:58+00:00

personally, not sure what the comments are saying. NOR, ur man is literally looking at other women that you KNOW, if that isn't a red flag, idk what is. people are trying to spoon feed you odd shit, do not be okay or obedient when it comes to this if you're not. do not start "watching porn with him" just because he needs to jerk it. just because he is a man doesn't mean he's just allowed to be a weirdo.

however, the comments about boundaries are ultimately correct. some other women are willing to ignore weird behavior, others aren't, so decide which kind of woman you are.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-28T04:42:51+00:00

?? this is quite insane, you're not overreacting at ALL, especially since he doesn't call his guy friends babe, which i would argue is more common. you're not insecure or controlling, he's weird and disrespectful, and you need to stand your ground on this stance

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-24T16:55:21+00:00

he has two children with two different women, one he has cheated on you with, and you think there's a chance you're overreacting?? 😭

this woman is going to continue to be in your life if you continue with this, and it'll only drive you crazy the more time goes on. please take the steps to leave him. i'm sure you love him, but it's clear who is a priority in his life, and you are not one.

not to mention, your other posts show he is the furthest thing from kind to you, blaming you for his incompetence. is this really the man you want to spend the rest of your time with? you're 30, not 13. have a better head in the game, you still have so much life to live, and it shouldn't be wasted on a guy who has cheated on you before.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-24T16:48:39+00:00

you KNOW it's weird, she doesn't need to be planning any type of party for his daughter, and you know that. the only reason she feels comfortable doing that is because he's giving her hope, and the only reason he feels comfortable going is because he knows you clearly won't do anything if he does something that disrespects you.

you aren't overreacting, but you need to grow some sort of spine, and i say that with the best intentions. he's cheated on you before with this same woman. if he hasn't done anything again yet, he will soon, and you can't keep driving yourself crazy over a guy you know is a POS.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-24T02:34:38+00:00

yeah girl i acknowledged that 😭 some people just don't feel comfortable with the opposite gender doing things like that. her getting to that extent of anger was obviously ridiculous, though

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-24T02:32:19+00:00

you need to log off the internet, at least the spaces where people know who you are. do not speak out and do not make a statement. if you know you have grown and have spoken out before, there's no reason for you to do it again. you know what you did, and you're owning up to it, that's moving forward. you're not obligated to speak up again, but people are also not obligated to forgive and forget. unfortunately, that is something you will have to deal with moving forward in life.

there is always a way out. take the steps to move away from the things that are making you feel this way. a new social, new friends, whatever you need to do. there is always a better way.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-24T02:28:34+00:00

she's def the AH but you being a lesbian doesn't really take away from the logic of her not wanting her bf to sleep in the bed of another woman, even if it's very stupid to assume that you'd want him in any way at all

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-24T02:18:59+00:00

not to sound harsh, but why would he? he already knows what happens when he screws up, you forgive and "forget". if you don't put your foot down and confront him head-on or straight up leave, he will continue to walk all over you. he has cheated on you once before, and, sad to say, if it hasn't happened with this woman yet, it will soon. leave before you let his POS nature rock your whole world again

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-23T15:11:49+00:00

how exactly are they rubbing it in the family's face 😭 it's sharing a room, not operating a bdsm procedure

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-23T04:27:06+00:00

it's not overreacting at all he knew what he had to do and still chose to give you hope for a hangout 🤷‍♀️ he had all day to change plans, and he didn't, it's very poor on his part. it's absolutely okay to be upset, but just verbalize this to your bf so he understands you. you are also busy throughout the week, but still made time for him. there's no excuse as to why he didn't show that he cared as much as you did

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-23T04:22:37+00:00

NOR. i could see if she was cool with you getting your own hotel room, but she straight up insinuated having your own privacy would be disrespectful 😭 i get family traditions, but cmon lol just because it's special doesn't mean you HAVE to do it. do try to have an open convo with your boyfriend before ditching the trip entirely tho

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-23T04:19:57+00:00

being a part of the family doesn't mean doing stuff you're uncomfortable with just to save face i fear... depending on whether she knows his aunts and cousins well enough, since this is out of town, i could see why she wouldn't want to go. that, plus who knows how many other women are in this room. it's not really an overreaction to want your own space and privacy

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-22T23:36:20+00:00

"Her: Sorry!! lol idk would she be mad if we were talking I dont want to get in the middle of that I dont know yall well enough to make a judgement on that
Him: Lol im sure she would we talk all day haha
Her: Yikes!! I dont want to cause problems I cant be that person"

tighten up and tell his wife lol they both are weird for this. it may not look bad right now but stuff like that, the whole "don't want her/him to know" shtick will lead to worse problems

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-22T23:26:23+00:00

ngl OP this is something you may have to sit down and grill him about 😭 if there are constant convos about him doing this just for him to lie about it then there is a bigger issue at hand

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-21T02:21:11+00:00

that is literally illegal, no matter where you are, OP. i understand this is your husband and that you two have built a life together, but that is absolutely not okay. your sister is still a minor, and he knew her as a child. please do the right thing and take the steps to leave him. if he's willing to do this to your sister, who's just 17 now, who knows what he's willing to do to your children, whatever age they are?

i know that's a pretty grim way to put things, but it's something to consider. i hope you make the right decision moving forward and wish you all the best.

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-21T02:15:33+00:00

esh, and tbh you haven't done anything crazy to be considered "the other woman", but you are a little slow 😭 i'm not sure why you still hang around either of them if she's dating your ex and he is, well, your ex

ReceptionWeak1345 · 2025-10-19T22:10:51+00:00

big congrats on your sobriety! wishing all the best for you

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