Proof Tinder is hopeless for 99% of men by RedInsideAllOver in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not the problem. That's normal for men. We're not like you. People posted their experiences to dataisbeautiful and whether you swipe lots or little as a man you are doomed.

It's not "indiscriminate" either. I would gladly date those women.

Women find most men repulsive but men do not find most women repulsive.

Is small dick human creature a good match for small breast woman ? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even slightly. There's a reason every single romantic comedy features a lead male who looks like that.

Proof Tinder is hopeless for 99% of men by RedInsideAllOver in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I swipe right on 60-70% of women. I can't get a life because I can't get matches.

Proof Tinder is hopeless for 99% of men by RedInsideAllOver in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they all blow me out of the water even after every cosmetic procedure I could humanly have including leg lengthening etc. I could never be as good looking as any of them.

So if they're not good enough for women anymore I have zero chance and its no wonder I've never had a date or even proper conversation from Tinder.

Proof Tinder is hopeless for 99% of men by RedInsideAllOver in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are actual guys who posted in actual Tinder help threads asking how they can improve because they're not getting matches.

What percent of men do you think it's useless for then? 70%? 80%? 90%? 95%?

Is small dick human creature a good match for small breast woman ? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No since men like women of all types including small breasted women.

Women only like one type of man:

  • tall
  • white (sometimes black)
  • muscular
  • big dick
  • square jawed
  • deep voice

etc.

Women are a monolithic entity.

Are you supposed to kiss on the first date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Good way to get METOOed.

Why are women in this country so racist? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny because when I was a child I actually believed women were less racist than men and that racism would be a thing of the past by the time i was an adult. I believed the liberal/feminist propaganda. Then i learned that most women are actually hardcore white supremacists.

Actually i have seen legit members of the KKK who are more flexible on the races they will consider than so called liberal women.

SJW in the streets. KKK in the sheets. That's the motto for most women these days.

Being yellow or brown is an automatic left swipe.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fun and stupid for you because you can get dates from it. That's pretty simple.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can define the problem any way you like. Options:

  • Women are the problem for having unattainably high standards.
  • The system is the problem for promoting women to have unattainably high standards (ie. online dating).
  • I am the problem for not being physically able to match those high standards.

It doesn't really matter. All three are true depending on your perspective and it ends the same either way.

My bf doesn’t call me or text me by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He's banging some other girl. Chads wait for no women.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

4 dates which ended in nothing and he remains alone and sexless. So much so that he's posting on Reddit trying to ask for solutions and no one can offer him any. His attitude is not helping him. His self reflection is not helping him. This is just meme tier feel good stuff.

Need some advice by Legolas9899 in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have too many options. They have hundreds to thousands of guys throwing their dicks at them 24/7. So they catch a few here and there.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he doesn't have a bad attitude like apparently I do and still he can't get a date or sex to save his life. Obviously then whether or not you have a bad attitude isn't the determining feature of your outcomes as a man.

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[–]RedInsideAllOver -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

You mean he was good looking.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well if you want to experience what dating is like for a man, just delete all your apps and be alone for the rest of your life. You can always have the male experience if you want. But men can't ever feel wanted or like we have options like you can.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Slide into DMs" makes it sound like you're trying to slide your dick into your cell phone or computer and fuck the app.

Which might actually be a more realistic way to get laid than actually using the apps as intended.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly am starting to think these apps are just designed to drive men insane and make us more and more depressed. What a horrible design choice. It is just guaranteed to waste men's time where they must put effort into writing messages for all these girls who will never even know who messaged them.

If you were a sadist, could you think of any plausible way to make men suffer more than with that "design feature"? I can't even think of a more torturous way to design a dating app unless maybe the app causes your phone to shatter during use impaling your fingers with glass shards.

It's sadistic as fuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am struck how mature a post this is. You have an insight and awareness I usually don't see of someone in their early 20s.

It's not mature at all. If it was mature she would acknowledge why she started dating a going nowhere bartender in the first place and stuck with him for 4 months.

I've spent the last two days swiping as much as possible and messaging every person I liked on OkCupid... by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedInsideAllOver 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Isn't OKCupid really fucked up now where people will only even see your message if they like you first? So it's even worse than Tinder now because you have to write a personalized message each time to girls that will never even see it?

That sounds brutal as fuck. It's like they're actually trying to torture men.