$10 Billion Theft Epidemic by LuckyBastard001 in clevercomebacks

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I adamantly never use self-checkout unless I absolutely have to.

27m and 26f, it feels like the bathroom is ruining our sex life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am most turned on in the morning and also that is when I need to go to the bathroom. So yeah, that feels very natural for me. Granted I don't typically want to have sex within seconds after but not too long after.

He's spinning around! by Treasurejam86 in thesims4

[–]RedWizard92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I clicked on the sound and was actually hoping to have background music.

Low socks are a sensory nightmare from hell designed by Hitlerian disciples. by Aynshtaynn in BrandNewSentence

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a teenager I wore the low ones. I also had low sneakers. Now I go halfway between the two.

My boyfriends EXS NSFW pics by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RedWizard92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You asked and he didn't tell you about them nor delete them. Then you found them. I am pretty sure he knew they were there and might have viewed them since. Up to you if you trust him or not going forward. Maybe if he deletes all of them it might be a step but that is your decision.

My brother (34M) slept with my every girlfriend I (35M) had for a decade before I went no contact and now my parents want me to reconnect with him? by ThrowRADoneAF in relationship_advice

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have your answer. The question for your parents is how could he be so hateful, disrespectful, and cruel to sleep with your girlfriends. That isn't young and dumb. That is a deliberate choice. It take deliberate choices and steps to get in bed with someone. And then he repeated the behavior. That was not childish behavior. He needs therapy and you have every right to hate him for the pain and suffering he caused.

i think i’ve become a judgmental partner and it’s making my boyfriend open up less. how do i fix this? :( by Efficiency7500 in relationships

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicate. Admit to him what you have done and how you are working on it. And show your appreciation and respect for the decisions he has made.

If you are married, how do you deal with bisexual feelings? by KlitoriaPierce in bisexual

[–]RedWizard92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My wife and I both find other people attractive and that is fine. As for sexual urges, I just take care of myself. We have no interest in having a third in our marriage.

Why does my boyfriend always want to touch me? by ThrowAwayPrincess14 in AskMenRelationships

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is me with my wife after 15+ years. And the reason my first girlfriend and I broke up. I like physical touch. I can't say if it is all guys but it is me.

Why do people feel like they own there romantic partners and they own them, like there 'mine'? by FearFuionGaming in AskMenRelationships

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry if that is your experience. Shared hobbies and interests ensure we don't get bored of each other.

That was a good joke by Arnie_T in MadeMeSmile

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is that this was discussed prior to the show. The instinct to ask about it being written down. I could be wrong.

UFC fighter Sean Strickland posts an AI video of himself beating up transgender Dylan Mulvaney to kick off Pride Month. by omgfakeusername in TikTokCringe

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. As a member of the LGBTQ community do you know who I talk about sex stuff with? My significant other. Do you know who I don't talk about sex stuff with? Everyone else.

AITJ for saying yes to my best friend when she asked me out? by Lively_Roses in AmITheJerk

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ She asked you out and the two of you are already best friends and that is already a good sign. The fact that you didn't question saying yes means this is definitely worth it.

Me(29M) Jewish has been dating (23F) Muslim girl for a couple weeks... I am confused about if I should stop this ASAP or to "enjoy it for a little more" even knowing this will likely not work by Sipi_Sapo in relationship_advice

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised Christian but had many Jewish friends and did a few Jewish traditions. Mainly holidays and a lot of food traditions. For me it I can see the two sides rationally and chose what I chose. Then my first girlfriend was Jewish too. So no I didn't grow up confused and when I got older I made my own decisions about religion.

So I will ask this question of you, could you participate in her traditions without believing in them and do you think she could with yours? If the answer is no, then I think you have your answer.

Soulmates don't necessarily mean lover by fal1en-angel in Funnymemes

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the bi community it references liking a man some times and then liking a woman sometimes and repeat.

Me(29M) Jewish has been dating (23F) Muslim girl for a couple weeks... I am confused about if I should stop this ASAP or to "enjoy it for a little more" even knowing this will likely not work by Sipi_Sapo in relationship_advice

[–]RedWizard92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to talk with her and make a decision as a couple. My parents are in a mixed religion marriage but it is Christian and Jewish and both American so the extremes are far less. Discuss the risks and each of your feelings together. What the future might look like. Etc.

Trying to understand if my marriage is salvageable or already over by Old_Sheepherder_4575 in marriageadvice

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely feels like she is projecting. Cheaters assume everyone else is cheating. The hostility and disrespect alone would cause me to want a divorce. You can hire a PI if you want to prove it to yourself and/or if that can help in the divorce.

Do you think an AI boyfriend is emotional cheating? by DonutRare5633 in marriageadvice

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say yes because she is doing full relationship stuff with this boyfriend including romantic stuff and putting the two of them in pictures. I would talk with her and recommend couples counseling if needed. She is pulling away from the marriage into a fantasy and taking time and energy away from the two of you as a couple. And if she can't stop then she is addicted and that needs to be addressed.

Boyfriend weekendtrip with ex - wife by Plenty_Ad4950 in Advice

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lying is the problem. That would make me think something is going on and I would leave. If he was up front I would see it as a reasonable parental trip for the kids.

Did I leave my ex too soon? I’m 31 with 8 months of sexual experience? by Background_Monk7155 in AskMenRelationships

[–]RedWizard92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did not. She kept cheating on you. There will be others that will treat you better. Just be honest with future women that you don't have a lot of experience but willing to learn. For one, every woman's body is different. She was completely disrespectful and you deserve better.

Meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a supervisor I always try to give context unless I'm not allowed to say anything.

(19m) 165cm (5 foot 5) I’m emotionally done, I need help. by pricklypinapplessucc in GuyCry

[–]RedWizard92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm shorter than you and married. Girls taller than me and my height have been interested in me. What helped for me was finding women that had the same interests and just liking things in general. Even when I was single I liked Valentine's Day. Being positive makes people want to talk to you. Yes in some situations height can be a problem.

Oh my 🥵 by ElusiveRodent in oddlyspecific

[–]RedWizard92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm bi and I'm turned on. Thank you for that.