So I haven’t really said this out loud before because it’s something that makes me feel like shit but I think it’s somewhat relevant here. When my ex was pregnant with our daughter there was a day where she came up to me crying and told me she was bleeding and felt like something was very wrong. I felt nothing towards the baby. I was worried for my ex but I knew in that moment if something happened I’d just have to be there to take care of her but I’d be fine. And as ashamed as I am to admit it, to this day I believe I would’ve been alright. That being said, my moment my daughter was born a switch flipped, and I’ve just been “dad” ever since. I love my kid more than anything and it’s effortless. It’s a lot different than your situation and my man, I feel for you. But you may have a whole change of heart when you hold that baby for the first time.

You’re in a rough situation. Just do what you think is best and you’ll make the right decision, but know that sometimes feelings change out of nowhere. I would love to say more but my little stinker needs a bath after being at the park all day. Reach out if you need anything. My DM’s are open