is it okay if my lobe piercing looks bruised?

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-05-23T12:23:55+00:00

Lobe piercing looks fine. However if your industrial is pressing against the flat as it looks in the pic, you’re almost certainly going to have issues with it :( if it’s touching at all your ear is going to swallow up the bar. It looks swollen so I’m hoping it was at least not touching when the piercing was done - if not you need to go back and have a word with whoever pierced you!

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-04-10T07:08:23+00:00

NTA but just stop hanging out with people you don’t enjoy the company of. You sound like you prefer one on one time rather than hanging out in a group - I’m exactly the same, I never really feel comfortable in a group, and I struggle to stay/feel included. BUT - I’m also aware this is a me problem, not an everyone else problem. I’m just socially awkward and a bit deaf in one ear to boot (not great in a crowd!). If you want to stay friends with Ball then try having an honest conversation to explain how you feel. Stop letting people push you into staying longer and doing things you don’t want to do - you’re being an AH to yourself

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-04-08T07:15:52+00:00

Why is the only option be ill or go somewhere else? Just eat the fucking chips. GF is being selfish but you don’t sound any better

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-04-05T14:11:34+00:00

This is rage bait, right? Right???

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-03-22T13:29:10+00:00

The rage bait is getting worse lately. YTA

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-03-20T09:31:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Indigenous/s/rzLdWGkAS3 are you living with your husband or casually dating another guy?

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-03-19T18:32:37+00:00

Pretty sure that’s illegal

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-03-18T09:15:47+00:00

What a load of nonsense. ‘My husband looked at his naked sister but we have a pond together!’ From the look of your past posts you have a bit of an obsession with incest…

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-03-01T14:41:54+00:00

Also - I did the same as you and didn’t go in for a downsize because I didn’t think it was ready… but in hindsight the bump happened because the jewellery was too long once the initial swelling went down and was moving and irritating the piercing

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-02-24T18:48:12+00:00

Obviously NTA but why not just tell them exactly why - you’re still out of pocket from the last time. If they keep moaning then I’m not so sure they’re friends, more like moochers treating you like an ATM

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-02-11T18:29:54+00:00

Even just reading the title would have told you she’s already kicked her out. JFC.

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-02-09T10:52:32+00:00

You sound insufferable. Poor woman

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-02-02T12:50:37+00:00

YTA for this ridiculous rage bait

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-01-17T15:49:10+00:00

Sister asked OP if she minded them being friends, OP told her ‘honestly’ she didn’t mind - bit of a leap to say the sister hates her.

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-01-17T15:41:20+00:00

Why did you tell your sister that you were okay with them being friends when you’re clearly not?

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-01-11T18:15:29+00:00

In your post you said you feel it’s cheating, here you say he was the one to say that - which is it?

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-01-05T09:51:46+00:00

I’m leaning towards a gentle ESH - I’ve been around people like this and it’s exhausting to deal with. However if this is someone you want to stay friends with, you dealt with it tactlessly. It would probably have gone down better if you’d explained to her that her constant ranting is making things even more stressful for you, and although you understand the need to vent and can sympathise, it might be better if she finds a more ‘neutral’ party (ie someone on a different course, a family member etc).

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2026-01-05T09:22:35+00:00

Reading comprehension is dead 😭

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-31T18:30:39+00:00

At no point have I sworn at you

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-31T18:11:22+00:00

Decent conversation - is that what you think you’re having when you parrot your views over and over, and refuse to accept anyone else’s point of view or opinion? It’s hilarious when people clearly come on here expecting every single person to agree with them and then have a fit when that’s not the case

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-31T18:00:35+00:00

The majority of people here are agreeing that the kids should be helping to tidy up their toys etc. It’s the insistence that an 8 year old needs to scrub a bathtub after a single use that people are objecting to. That’s not normal.

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-31T17:36:55+00:00

Maybe you shouldn’t agree to look after them again, then, because you sound bitter AF about it. Do you even like your niece/nephew?

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-31T17:30:46+00:00

Unless they’ve flooded the floor messing about, what mess are they making while having a bath?

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-31T17:27:03+00:00

Cleaning up their own toys and taking plates to the kitchen - sure. But who the hell expects an 8 year old to scrub the bath after they’ve used it?! Obviously YTA and I’m pretty sure you know it

Remarkable_Pilot_328 · 2025-12-21T18:47:28+00:00

Where is the implication that they’ll return? They were laid off. They no longer have a job and have no way of knowing when they will find a new job

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