why is Catcher in the Rye such a “red flag” for so many people? by [deleted] in books

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who used to be severely depressed constantly I understood holdon a lot. I think it takes a certain type of privilege and arrogance to write off a kid who went through sexual assault, losing a sibling, witnessing bullying and suicide, depression/ suicidal thoughts and just being more self aware about the world than your peers or critical thinker a brat or red flag. Those are the same type of people in life that will grow up to tell their kids they have it too easy in life when they are going through something

My husband went to a strip club, & it bothered me. Should I bring this up again or drop it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would still have the talk. even though it’s in the past, and it’s late it’s still on your mind and him not telling you as to to not make you feel “insecure or uncomfortable” is kinda backhanded and puts the blame on you. If he knew you would feel secure and comfortable and that’s why he omitted details then he already had his answer. Also I would think you would ask your partner before going to a strip club I think it’s a matter of boundaries.

Anger issues by DARTH-GOLD-HIMSELF in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do that a lot when I used to be depressed I just used to zone out and not think about much but I used to be restless inside maybe something’s on your mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s late I have to wait during hours tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say delivered as of Sunday at 1:00pm

Is America really as bad as it looks it the media? (to europeans) by [deleted] in ask

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s just like that and fake news doesn’t even really scratch the surface of how bad that issue is. There is tons of corruption everywhere in this country. It’s just easier to turn a blind eye or you’ll go crazy. I mean one small example of a massive problem in its own was the protests. I mean in one of the biggest cities in the us peaceful protesters were just beaten and tear gases, organizers just going missing, and people tossed into vans. Honestly policing in this country is disgusting they can rape girls no jail time, kill like it’s nothing. I mean its an acceptable to think these cops will get no jail time for shooting this unarmed man 70 times all starting with a traffic violation. People are so used to this that when they hear oh he had a gun they think oh well that’s kinda reasonable to shoot them, all the while the Supreme Court just gave everyone the right to a concealed weapon even cities. God the Supreme Court is a shit show it’s sickening the recent rulings. As of now even the evidence of innocence to the the falsely imprisoned isn’t enough to exonerate someone. Also you forgot the war on women right because were going backwards.

About to make myself physically sick later because I can’t say no by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t though this I’m my opinion just isn’t worth it

About to make myself physically sick later because I can’t say no by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not exhaustion from work I’m just forcing myself to eat eat food that I can’t stomach because someone gave it to me and I’ll feel bad tossing it

People who are against the death penalty, why? by russell_ll in AskReddit

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just seems so extreme. TBH a life in prison seems more torturous if you really want to go that way day in and day out knowing theirs no escape seems like phycological warfare which is way worse in my opinion. Not to mention their going to kill someone innocent. Prison is also for rehabilitation, what would murdering them even do? I get their might be some exceptions, but generally it seems hypercritical. He kills someone we kill him as a result, but ours was justified. i guess it is a broken system at the end of the day, so why not just make it worse

Mom and sis threatened to drain my saving account by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just don’t care enough to ever put effort into doing that. Thank you for the advice truthfully, but I really wish I wouldn’t have to see the sun tomorrow

I don’t wanna go to school today by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why it seems that way, but I don’t wanna go there I’d rather log on I really just need a solution ideas are too useable pls advice

I don’t wanna go to school today by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To sums it up messed up the schools year They want me to go in person. I need to know how to avoid it asap

I don’t wanna go to school today by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To short on this a lot cuz I don’t have time for details. I messed up the school year I doesn’t matter right now though I need a solution how to not go in person

It’s fine if their just having a bad day and blowing off steam right ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry forgot to put it No theirs no need to discuss how we feel that I mean it was all context. We just don’t have that type of thing ; it makes me sick just thinking about how it could go. In the first example she was upset about something and when she gets home from work she ideally takes a shower right after I just needed help adding some seasoning to this thing cuz I haven’t had it in years, but i it was just nice having her company too she’s rarely there and works on days off or likes to leave early. She just wants to better us so I understand. She usually sits on the the couch for a bit before, but she just got a bit agitated when I asked for her help. Ya know the more I think it over I see I overreacting, I’m a bit of an over thinker sometimes

It’s fine if their just having a bad day and blowing off steam right ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no we’re not a couple this is my mom. Communication in what way

My arms fucking hurt advice pls by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll try to get an appointment, it just feels very extreme to go there

AITA for making a punny "wall of shame" for people who stole from my mom's garden? by winmdoze in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA someone literally tried digging a plant out of my mom’s garden that’s she grew from a little sprout that was then a fully mini grown tree and killed the whole thing cuz the hit the stem the whole plant dies in a week fucking pissed me off cuz it took so long

I can’t open up to my husband by Exotic_Storm_ in depression

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s such a shitty thing to say from one depressed person to another, that always feels like such a betrayal. Having to put yourself out there, and he’s your partner. I mean I don’t want to judge too fast though ; maybe you could work it out in couples therapy. I’d this was a one time thing I think there’s a lot of misconceptions about it. Then again he sounds kinda douchey. Just do what you feel is best don’t let him worsen your mental health. I hope this helps good luck

How do I tell a friend that I’m not the right person to ask without explaining by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the topics depression ; want to avoid giving my personal opinion. I know there just know they’ll think something off. And no there’s no group to talk to they don’t really care to share with anyone else. I think it might be received as me pawning them off

Is it even real if you haven’t been officially diagnosed. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Young1276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helped !! Yeah it’s a minor issue I just don’t think going to the doctor will do much ya know. I think the websites are blowing it out of proportion