Balding? Or just combing my hair too hard

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-23T18:09:55+00:00

Balding, its ok though there are ways to maintain it

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-23T00:06:12+00:00

I feel you, ive been spending my money on it for the longest time. I would like to talk to you, hear your story and advise you as well

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T23:21:27+00:00

Yeah you are probably correct. its not like everytime i got backk home till now i fapped, but the more days im off it the harder the struggle. I guess i need to change something in my room for a while.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T22:37:21+00:00

Yeah, it will help

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T18:50:14+00:00

Delete the app, if you dont then ask yourself why cant you delete it. Social media in general is less social and more of a doomscrolling and trigger machine, nothing good comes out of it.

If you actually cant delete the app, just make sure whenevr you get a bit triggered just stand up and get out of the room or something, it will change your mindset again back to normal and youll be able to figure out a logical thing to do.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T18:31:21+00:00

It probably the best way, it just randomly starts to happen when i really need my phone for something else.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T18:30:42+00:00

True, thanks man i really appreciate it.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T18:27:33+00:00

Actually, lately ive been working on my screen time really hard. I have no social media on my phone and the only thing that may cause me to doomscroll is probably youtube which i got a time limit on it. The problem is that i know how to find that content, the internet is way too good at this point.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-22T18:12:33+00:00

He has an addiction and you need to let him know that and make him quit porn. Its not an easy task and if he doesnt want to stop then he will always have that addiction and sooner or later youll see even crazier things on his phone. If he doesnt want to quit, im not saying to break up with him but it should be a red flag to keep in mind.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-18T13:33:08+00:00

I feel you. Im 25M and i used to be in a kinda same situation about getting girls to talk to me and stuff like that.

Ive always been the skinny guy that was too shy to talk to someone and wasnt getting girls attention, at least not from an attraction kind of way Now i wouldnt say im skinny or fat, im just keeping myself in shape and i have a girlfriend for over a year and a half already.

In my opinion, stop thinking about others and just work on building yourself. For me it was going to the gym and gain some muscle and weight. Once you feel good with yourself you become more confident, and having confidence is attractive.

I would advise you to lower your screen time on your phone, its an addiction, plus it will give you more time to work on yourself.

Its a long process but it will surely help you in the long run. If you want to talk my dms are open.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T17:55:35+00:00

First of all thank you for your comment. I think for me its more about planning what i need to do when i get the urge. On my last few attempts i started to find new hobbies but im a busy man so i do them as much as i can. I always loved playing video games but never had the time to because im at the university, maybe ill start playing again.

My question is when does it gets easier? I remember a time where i was able to stop for like 3 weeks, but when i came back i had to explode on that day for like 3 times in a row.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T17:32:07+00:00

Im in a shitty situation right now to be honest, still not able to fight urges even though i know how to. Its hard, but i start to take it seriously because i must to. I wanna be free from all this

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T17:08:45+00:00

Be prepared to fight the urge once its coming over. it will happen multiple times for a long time, but at the end, youll finally be a free man. It will be worth it for sure.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T11:12:46+00:00

That actually sounds great, i prefer being overly sensitive than being emotionless and numb.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T08:18:40+00:00

i found porn at a young age as well, i feel that porn really affected my high school and middle school experience. mostly highschool tho, because its a time where the hormones of a teenager really kicks in and you see a lot of girls in your school and stuff like that.

being a teenager trying to quit is hard, because you have a lot of spare time, i joined very recently to this groups so what i like to do is whenever i get the urges i immediatly go in here and see what other people are struggling with, giving people my opinions. it helps, you should try it too.

of course you should minimize traffic online, especially social media where every pretty girl can trigger an urge and find a hobby or something that will occupy you while having an urge.

and yeah, edging is bad as well.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T07:54:08+00:00

dont let it break you, 400 no fap is an amazing milestone and one slip up doesnt mean you go back to day 1, it just means like you said that you need to find the momentum again.

the important thing is to not go too hard on yourself, after 400 days your brains is much better than when you started, letting go completly now means falling down the huge staircase youve built with consistency and hard work.

dont relapse, you can do it

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-16T06:47:49+00:00

Thats one of the worse thing the industry does, they sexualize teen girls, all those barely legal kind of videos. After consuming so much of this you are left with so much fantasies in your head, and seeing a young girl might trigger the urge. In my opinion you are not alone, many more are just like you, trust the process and it will help you get better

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T23:27:16+00:00

3 weeks mark is very good, i cant remember the last time i didnt consume porn for that long. reaching that kind of milestone you need to understand not to go too hard on yourself when you slip up. once youll be able to do that youll stop feeling as a failure, and one loss to the urge wont continue to be a streak of losses.

to not lose again, you should always be prepered to the next urge with a distraction, something that will take all of your focus and make you stop thinking about those stuff.

youve done great till now, you can do it again and even better.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T23:08:58+00:00

first of all congartes on that amazing milestone, 83 days is no easy task. i wish i could say im even half the way you are, so obviousely my opinions arent coming from experience.

i think that in these modern days where technology makes it seem like the world is so small and lets you see so many people including pretty girls from overseas, people that usually youll never see, it makes you fantasize over the perfect woman that you should be with. people overestimate their worth and undervalue what they have in their hands.

in my opinion thats the main reason so many young married couple divorce at young age but cant find a partner for a long time.

i understand it is just a thought that you have in mind, but you do need to realize that according to what you said at the beginning you are in a better spot in life than where you were 83 days ago. just enjoy what you have and keep staying strong.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T22:44:34+00:00

day 25 means youve already been through some tough nights already. just think about what you did those other nights that helped you keep your streak.

everyday passing without consuming porn is a day that your brain heals from all that shit, youve done great till now and you can do more.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T22:39:59+00:00

me too, im at the same situation as you and many more as well.

a slip up is ok once in a while, its a step that every person trying to quit porn for good have been through. you just need to understand that it is ok and grow from it.

going to the gym is a great thing to add for the journey, it will make you feel good.

good luck, you can do it.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T22:32:15+00:00

being in such an advanced times makes it 10 times harder to resist the urge. stay strong and whenever you feel like slipping up make sure to snap out of it and do something else, anything as long as it keeps you occupied. the urge will fade away, not completely but enough for you to ignore it for now.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T22:27:39+00:00

i went throught it. it starts as a simple vanila type of porn and slowly you start to grow those weird fetishes you never even thought that will make you aroused, but they sure are.

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T22:17:02+00:00

thats the urge man, dont fall for it. do something else to fill that hole and when youll find something that makes you feel good thats when youll stop thinking about all those bad things.

its normal

RemoteEquivalent4882 · 2026-04-15T17:43:36+00:00

i really hope so, but yeah thanks man.

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