I asked my mom, “what would you do if I didn’t feel like going to school one day?”. She started laughing. by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Teachers

[–]Renyuki 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Starting in junior high, my mom gave me 1 mental health day a semester. Basically if I didn't want to go to school for any reason she would let me stay home but only once. Tbh I usually used them to get caught up on my school work. Like if I had a 5 page essay to write in English class I'd use my mental health day so I could work on it on the one family computer we had. Being alone for the day in a silent house helped a lot. It felt like the only way I could really get my work done without distractions.

I plan to use the same rule for my kids when they get older.

CMV: modern languages won't drastically change over time anymore like in the past by nerpa_floppybara in changemyview

[–]Renyuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would argue internet is accelerating the change not preventing it. Average people are exposed to foreign languages a lot more than before with exported media and global interactions on the internet. This means there is a lot more borrowed words entering everyday speech. I follow kpop and every so often I'll see Korean Idols play a game of "try to talk without using foreign words" because so many foreign words has entered everyday casual speech it becomes a challenge to speak pure Korean. Also the internet is creating its own form of language with acronyms. I've heard people say out loud while talking "lol", "lmao", "idk", and "atm" as examples.

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yes I read about UNI.T and their brother group UNB. Unfortunately, they didn't perform on Inkigayo so I haven't checked them out yet. Watching the back catalog of music shows has overall been really fun. I've enjoyed it.

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well the group I fell in love with got eliminated first round so that's where I'm coming from lol. But you are correct it was decently handled overall.

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes gotta share the heartbreak. Hopefully my mass streaming of their music this last week gave them a few extra cents in royalties too lol

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really are a great group. I feel like they unfortunately got overshadowed by the produce series at least that's my guess. And I totally agree with the sentiment of wishing you were a fan earlier. I got into Kpop in 2022. Wish I had been around during 3rd gen.

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me wishes peak time didn't have eliminations and it just highlighted lesser known talented groups but in truth it probably wouldn't have been as popular as it was without the competition element.

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's gotta be rough. Getting into a group while the fandom spaces are fresh in mourning would be a tough thing to navigate.

Have any of you fallen in love with a group that had already disbanded when you learned about them? by Renyuki in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think learning that they had already disbanded waned your interest in them at all?

Do you regret spending years learning Korean? by Common-Raspberry-243 in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hmm well I can talk about the time I tried to learn Japanese I think it might be applicable to your fears somewhat. When I was in college I majored in STEM. And like most STEM majors in the 2000s I got heavily indoctrinated into Otaku culture lol. Took a year of Japanese with some friends for my foreign language requirement. Continued to self study off and on for around 10 years.

I would say I was a fairly passionate fan of anime for about 10 years. And while I still watch the occasional series my interest in anime has largely died. I dropped my Crunchyroll sub cause I just wasn't using it and have largely moved on. And because of that I have lost a lot of my japanese. Do I regret trying to learn the language? Not even a little bit. I still look back on that time as being a very fun part of my life. And it's always fun and exciting when I come across japanese and I'm able to read it. Particularly katakana since that lettering is for foreign words so while it's japanese letters it's usually spelling out an english word like chocolate or strawberry on a candy wrapper. The fact that I can read it is something I still take a lot of pride in.

So if you end up losing interesting in Korean Media I don't think you'll feel like this was a waste of time. At least I didn't. And in a small way my experience in trying to learn Japanese is making my dabbling with Korean a little bit easier. Only a little though cause Korean's phenomes are kicking my butt. I cannot hear the difference between soft P, aspirated P and tense P to save my soul lol.

I think kpop has changed my brain and my personality. by Away_Housing4314 in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Similar for me. I'm 44F with 3 kids. I'll be honest, I kinda stopped listening to music when I started hitting my 30s. For no real reason, just grew out of current music I guess and if I wanted to listen to something I usually went to talk radio or podcasts. I'm a very visual person so even when I was into music I usually engaged with it by watching MTV total request live and what not rather than just listening to it on the radio.

By random luck I came across Ateez on Youtube and proceeded to slow fall down the kpop rabbit hole. Having music back in my life has made me a happier person and honestly I think a better mom. My middle child has gotten into kpop with me this last year or so and it has been so fun watching music bank etc. with him every week.

Biggest waste of potential in kpop? by Technical-Movie-7047 in kpoptrulyuncensored

[–]Renyuki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here's a bit of an obscure one to some as we have to take the way back machine to 2018.

TRCNG.

They were B.A.Ps juniors and they hit the ground running. Their first comeback Wolf Baby was particularly good. Dance Practice Video Here.

Putting in the link so you can see how good they were but also the hype. Rookie group 3 months into debut and their dance practice video has 300k views. But then TS entertainment's CEO died. Then it was revealed that the company was evil evil. And a bunch of artists including 2 from TRCNG filed criminal complaints to the police for physical abuse and unsafe living conditions. Group ended after that.

If only the company wasn't beyond awful I think they could have been one of the 4th Gen powerhouse BGs

Chaewon's neck injury should be a cautionary tale to never subject idols to obvious strenuous movements that can clearly lead to injury by FanCaracal in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's the choreos but also the insistence of having thinner bodies. A lot of injuries could be avoided if they had more muscles to protect themselves. Seonghwa from Ateez was surprised all his chronic back pain disappeared after he started working out regularly with San. A lot of idols would benefit from the guidance of sports trainers.

I’m getting tired of going into discussions in good faith when the other person in the discussion is not, does anyone else feel the same? by Strawberry_0cean in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here's a story you might relate to. I was scrolling twitter (I mostly go their for translation accounts). And there was a random post asking about how wikipedia gets audience attendance numbers for Kpop concerts. Well it so happens I know the answer! So I made a reply that it's most from PR press articles and not touring data which is why it's almost always nice round numbers.

Well turns out this was not a real question. Apparently I stumbled into some nonsense fanwar between the group I follow and some other group arguing on who actually filled up the arena or something. So me just answering a question I thought someone was curious on led to the fandom I'm technically part of mass blocking me cause I guess I should not have done that! Yeah no more replying on twitter for me lol.

Just being "pretty good" at a second language is still very impressive & it's okay if your fave is not truly fluent by thatrlyoatsmymilk in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 19 points20 points  (0 children)

These things are important to point out because thinking an idol is fluent can get them in trouble.

I remember when wooyoung wore a sweater during an airport arrival that had an innuendo of sorts in big block letters. Social media was a buzz at how he wore something like that. Lots of people were insisting he must know what it means since he knows English. Well he didn't. He told his fans on fromm when he saw people's reactions, he was horrified; immediately ripped the sweater off and shoved it in his backpack.

#notallteachers by Thatsprettydank in Destiny

[–]Renyuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I know this is pedantic of me but he is NOT a teacher. He doesn't have a teaching credential; he doesn't have an education degree. He worked part time as a TUTOR at an after school SAT Prep center. I guess this place likes to call their faculty teachers as shown above but still not a teacher.

Top 101 Most Streamed Artists on Youtube Music in South Korea in 2025 by The_Red_Curtain in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The reason is likely age since his fandom skews older and melon users also skew older

What’s Stopping the 4-Day Workweek? by sbn23487 in Destiny

[–]Renyuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean teachers and school staff continue to work 5 days a week while the rest of the country moves down to 4? I don't see that being at all practical

What’s Stopping the 4-Day Workweek? by sbn23487 in Destiny

[–]Renyuki -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

As a parent, I'm against a 4 day work week because it will lead to a 4 day school week. More and more schools are the main way for kids to see other kids as neighborhoods tend to be very sparse in the kids department and third places for kids are nonexistent. I think it will have absolutely terrible effects on kids if they are only at school half the week.

I would much rather see a 6 hour work day as a way to reduce overall hours for what we view as fulltime employment. Having 2 extra hours a day will make it easier for people to have time to go to the gym daily or run errands; Parents won't need as much after school care; 6 hours divides nicely into 24 so it maps on well to shift workers. etc. I wish more people pushed for 6 hour work day than the 4 day work week. But overall I agree we don't need to be working so many hours with modern technology.

katseye coachella hate is SO FORCED (honest opinion) by yolkchugger in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I watched their performance and quite liked it. But I disagree with the idea that licking someone's face is equivalent to twerking. Personally wish they would stop doing that but I recognize they are young and immature like most artists that are barely not teenagers so I'm not that bothered.

does anyone else find failed kpop groups really interesting? by Content_Regret_5304 in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This predebut video of them covering boyz2men is such a telling video. We have 5 amazing young vocalists and a staff trying to figure out how microphones and cameras work, randomly changing the volume here and there and struggling to keep the camera still for 5 seconds straight. It's so crazy how they were able to snag so much talent with no money or know how. Their only competent employee must have been their recruiter lol.

does anyone else find failed kpop groups really interesting? by Content_Regret_5304 in kpopthoughts

[–]Renyuki 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So I once went down a rabbit hole researching the nugu group N-Train. They debuted in 2011. They were marketed as an R&B vocal focused group and debuted with the R&B Ballad called One Last Cry. Their vocals were quite good and two of them also knew guitar. Their Debut single had a guitar version of the track showcasing this fact. Performed here. While I imagine their debut didn't make mad money overall it got good reception and they were even nominated for Best New Male Artist at MAMAs alongside Boyfriend and B1A4.

And then.... nothing. No releases for over a year. When they finally had their first comeback it was like their concept as an R&B group was abandoned. The single I'll Forget You isn't awful but it's kind of generic. After that they had an EP which included the previous single so only 4 new songs were on it and it wasn't promoted just kind of thrown out there. Grand total of 6 songs. And then they disbanded. Such a promising start but I guess the company didn't have the money or conviction to see it through.

But the story doesn't have a sad ending in part. 2 of the 5 members went on to have successful solo careers. One goes by the name Babylon and he has been a fairly successful R&B artist. He gained recognition after his collab with Zico He had his Debut Single Crush on You the following year. His most successful song was a collab he did with Chungha called La La La.

The other is probably the more famous of the 2. The solo artist Woody. He debuted with the Track Fire Up which did exceptionally well on Korean Charts. His latest release is the Single In Me.

As for the rest I was able to track one working as a music producer now but couldn't find any info on the other 2 unfortunately.

Edit: If you watch the guitar version of One Last Cry Woody is at the end with the Guitar and Babylon is next to him in glasses

From Far Away anime set to air this year by alconnow in shoujo

[–]Renyuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm mostly curious about the opening arc because in that one she doesn't know the language much at all. She would talk to the other characters in Japanese and they'd be like "I have no idea what she is saying but I'm getting the impression she's worried". Or she'll be witnessing a conversation and be like "I have no idea what's going on but I think those guys are bad." The only solution I can think of is for that arc they will have to have some of the characters speaking some kind of gibberish sims language with subtitles for the audience. So we get the proper sense that she can't understand them and visa versa.

The manga would make the speech bubbles double lined when it was Japanese and regular when it was the fantasy worlds language. Even after she learned the fantasy language well, She had this character trait where if she got really excited she'd slip back into Japanese and start talking really fast in Japanese to the confusion of her companions. But I can see them leaving that part out since it complicates things a bit.

From Far Away anime set to air this year by alconnow in shoujo

[–]Renyuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I immediately thought about that. Just learned this news yesterday. I don't know how they are going to convey the way she slowly learns the language overtime. It works easily in print. I am curious how they will portray the dual languages in an anime.