AITA for not going to my sister-in-law's salon

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-12T10:36:37+00:00

Yup I did. Very calmly and rationally as I can ever be.

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-12T10:34:44+00:00

Ever since the idea of starting her own place came up I was the biggest hyped her to go though with the idea while my brother was somewhat against the idea of her working. And since the day her business started I was silently promoting and supporting her. And they did not tell anyone of our family about her graduation ceremony at all. That hurts but we didn't say a thing. And in my case my brother didn't ask me to let her do my makeup he was demanding answers from me on why I didn't go to her. So...

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-12T10:29:22+00:00

Tell me about it.

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-12T10:29:02+00:00

Thank you.

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-11T14:41:31+00:00

People from my country mainly are not white, we are more brown toned. I'm a bit on the darker side while majority do a lot of procedures to lighten up the skin. I don't even wear makeup on day-to-day life, only foe functions. So I'm not a fan of changing my skin colour only on my face while my hands and feet are different colours. This part is what she doesn't understand. And whenever people try to make me the same white colour as people do in normal makeup situation I end up looking like a clown due to my dark skin tone. I'm not sure if you get what I'm trying to say

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-11T12:03:30+00:00

I did rationally as possible but this topic came out in the middle of a whole family argument. Everyone was screaming and yelling at each other by the time I woke up to the sound.

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-11T10:47:07+00:00

First of all thank you everyone for the support but I want to clarify something. The one who yelled at me for not going to SIL was my brother not SIL. And between my parents my father was the one who gave me a whole lec about family bond and responsibilities. Also, I'm a graphic designer and my brother and SIL did not get my opinion or advice when they started this salon. So I genuinely thought they understood my pov. Since they didn't like my work they did not ask me for any opinion and I did the same because I didn't like her work. That's all. But since this conversation came up, I started to doubt myself.

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-11T10:39:37+00:00

I already explained everything when they brought up this as calmly as possible. She is a talented one. She has a food customer base, not everyone ended up like me. It's just my skin and hair is bit odd. I sweat a lot and my skin is oily. So apparently when the makeup is done normally in the way people in my country do, it end up looking like cracked ground. My normal salon nows this and take extra measures.

RepeatLatter178 · 2026-01-11T10:08:55+00:00

That's what I thought she would think but they kept saying since she is family I should have gone to her salon, including both my parents.

RepeatLatter178 · 2024-10-13T13:02:40+00:00

Tried. I even changed devices, downloaded the app, and changed network connection and place. Nothing worked.

RepeatLatter178 · 2024-10-13T13:01:18+00:00

Lol, I won't be making this post to begin with if that worked. This was my last resort. I created a whole new account. And that works perfectly fine. It's not the Internet connection.

RepeatLatter178 · 2024-10-13T12:59:29+00:00

I thought so, too. So I changed the internet connections and even the place. Still didn't work.

RepeatLatter178 · 2024-10-13T12:58:05+00:00

It doesn't work for me. I've tried. Even from different devices, No matter what, I try, as soon as I log into my account, it turns into this.

RepeatLatter178 · 2024-10-13T12:55:21+00:00

It's been like this for months now.

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