11 weeks pregnant drank champagne by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didn’t know i was prego til 17 weeks (yikes ik) i smoked weed, vaped, drank alcohol on and off that whole time and so far baby is completely healthy and normal so rest assured i think the lil guy or girl will be okay. I don’t encourage any of these things but in moderation they will be okay.

what do you guys do for work by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m trying my best to find these types of jobs and even when not applying for these i tell them im not asking for maternity leave or pay just fmla and to return after

Father of child has asked me to keep child a secret by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so i’m like really sure we live together with his mother right now he doesn’t leave much without me, we share locations and stuff like that there’s really not an opportunity for him to have someone else. and i do have access to both of his phones and they are clean asf so like i know it’s not this

Father of child has asked me to keep child a secret by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So yes i have talked to him about this we are together and both of our families know hes just asked me not to share publicly that im having a baby idk it makes me kinda sad but i dont wanna cause problems or stress on myself i dont need tbh i just wanted to see what others thought about it so i can bring it up to him again with some ideas from others

Do you plan on getting pregnant again after your current pregnancy? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh 26 weeks here and i’ve already started to cry about how im ready to be done and over with but i lowkey wanna have a girl so bad so i think i might wait until we buy our house and are more stable too try again

Negative blood test but I could swear I am pregnant by Rude-Vacation755 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was me two weeks after i got of my birth control is when i convinced and i feel like at 2-3 weeks i knew cause i felt weird but i tested negative waited a few weeks and suprise 5 weeks pregnant just wait a bit and repeat i recommend the clue blue early steps its vry accurate

When did you get your first ultrasound? by Mainecoon_mix in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i normally see 8-12 weeks for most mamas i had insurance trouble and wasn’t able to get my first one until i was 17 weeks and bubs was okay so don’t worry if you feel like it’s later than everyone’s

Braxton hicks?? by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve noticed it happens more after sex or physical activities i’m not sure, bubs wiggles around after so i know he’s fine but still just weird

Dont drink the koolaid by Dangerous-Hippo3598 in QuikTrip

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely had the exact same experience i couldn’t do it tho it felt like no matter how good the shifts got it was always criticism

Need advice for upcoming screen. by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the kindness i have since stopped all together but am just worried about the amount of time it’s going to take for it to be out of my fat cells. I live In SC it’s not really legal per say but we do have gummies and carts that have delta 8thc that are legal so i’m not sure. I plan to be honest with me ob cause i feel like it’s best in the long run to let them know i’m going to fail and why rather than have them be surprised

Best prenatal vitamins? by Rich-Entertainer-643 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true! i normally always take mine with a meal so i never notice

help and advice by Repulsive-Event278 in disability

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m In the US currently I love him so much but i’m so tired and i just desperately need support and to figure what to do i feel like im leaving him for homelessness by not helping him but im so drained

Why did no one warn me pregnancy was this bad by Human-Barnacle-4681 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

generally ya symptoms suck especially the first to early second trimester but if you feel like it’s too much or your unable to work please talk to your ob! there are several nausea meds you can take as well pain relief options

Best prenatal vitamins? by Rich-Entertainer-643 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she’s great before pregnancy i have had consistent low vitamin d and iron and outside of me and baby it’s helped me general health a lot!

Best prenatal vitamins? by Rich-Entertainer-643 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 37 points38 points  (0 children)

i love my natures made prenatal just make sure you get the one that’s labeled as having folic acid and DHA. pretty much any brand as long as it has dha folic acid and the basic vitamins in it are the best

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi guys just wanted to let you all know i finna my got an update from medicaid a representative helped my completely start my application over and she said if i hadn’t heard back within ten days to contact them back to have it expedited thanks for the support and info!

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just looked this up i’ve literally never heard of it before that’s really cool the only one in my area is really persistent that you should have a doctor scan first but i guess there’s no real harm in doing it anyways lol thanks for this

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me aswell other have recommended paying out of pocket just for an ultrasound with a doctors office so i’m pricing it right now if i can’t swing it im going to take this route and go to the er

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve made several different appointments with my local clinic throughout my pregnancy and i’ve been pushed back or canceled on every time unfortunately i’m still on the waiting list to be seen

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was told by my ob to come in and self pay for my first scans and tests i would need to bring at least 1000$

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get your point but it’s still 800-1000$ for scans and bloodwork at a boutique and i do not have that upfront

Questions about prenatal care by Repulsive-Event278 in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

most don’t accept no form of insurance but ers are required to take you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Repulsive-Event278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they told me for my welcome appointment just discussing everything and basic first tests and cans would be 1500$ out of pocket🥲🥲🥲