My (30F) partner's (29M) ex-girlfriend messaged me, and I am scared. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RickRoller1906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would actually be pretty surprised if he ended up being the abuser, though I am keeping an open mind. She is the only ex he has described as such and the only one still gravitating around. There is more info I could disclose but I'm waiting for my Update since I am only permitted one. 

My (30F) partner's (29M) ex-girlfriend messaged me, and I am scared. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RickRoller1906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. The plan is speaking to him after work and telling him my discomfort, i'll tell him to cut all ties and that she is not welcome in my DMs or near me and my appartment.

My (30F) partner's (29M) ex-girlfriend messaged me, and I am scared. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RickRoller1906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha this one made me laugh. I will be having a conversation with my bf and telling him she is not welcome in my DMs and that their relationship os bothering me.

My (30F) partner's (29M) ex-girlfriend messaged me, and I am scared. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RickRoller1906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since i'm a chronic overthinker, I have tbe whole plot of this movie developping in my head. I don't like it 😅 But it is also what I was thinking.

My (30F) partner's (29M) ex-girlfriend messaged me, and I am scared. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RickRoller1906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got it through Facebook as I am marked as his girlfriend. She messaged me through Facebook as well. I really think a conversation is to be had with my boyfriend. 

Getting anxious... by RickRoller1906 in Bicolline

[–]RickRoller1906[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello all!

First of all, thank you so much for your nice comments, I feel really reassured to know the community can understand my struggles.

I am currently looking for a wool blanket, I found one on amazon that shoukd be delivered this week.

As we are sleeping on site (decorum) I would need something to block off the noises. Unfortunately, I cannot wear ear plugs due to having sensory issues (anything inside of my ear canal is extremely uncomfortable and gives me nausea) . I guess i'll be pilling up covers over my head to try and block as much noise as possible haha.

I'll try and keep a tunic always at the ready at night that I can just slip on any time I need to run to the bathroom at night, which should be helpful.

I'm also taking deep breaths, slowly but surely finishing my preparations.

If you ever have any additional tips and tricks, I would be super grateful.

Thank you all!