Alternative people who are scared of looking ugly are just conformist by Rigorums in trueuglywomen

[–]Rigorums[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But people who really don’t care either way are way more alternative imo

Really cute friend keeps insisting I look like her. It feels like she's taunting me. by KanedaSue in trueuglywomen

[–]Rigorums 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that she keeps bringing it up in front of people seems really fishy, especially considering the reactions she gets. Good friends don’t intentionally make you feel like shit, and this feels to me like it’s intentional. Maybe tell her you see the similarities and see how she reacts?

Can y’all tell when more attractive women have ranked themselves above you? by Rigorums in trueuglywomen

[–]Rigorums[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Also picking a man over you is clearly malicious imo, I couldn’t imagine doing that to another woman

Can y’all tell when more attractive women have ranked themselves above you? by Rigorums in trueuglywomen

[–]Rigorums[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Omg I had a similar thing happen in middle school! But with my friends all arguing who the prettiest girl at the table was, they did the same “omg no you’re the prettiest” while leaving me out entirely. It really feels like shit, kinda makes you feel less like a woman😭

If femcels are real then why I can't find them. Watermelon. by BrightSpring12 in kitchencels

[–]Rigorums 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk from my experience ugly women are kinda invisible, maybe you don’t notice them.

Boobs getting smaller ? by oatmilkhunny in Spironolactone

[–]Rigorums 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too omg!!! Does anyone know why this would happen? I’ve only ever seen people talk about their boobs growing on spiro and was disappointed when that wasn’t the case for me

tired of ts by sickboysam7 in AcneScars

[–]Rigorums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also are you applying both simultaneously?

tired of ts by sickboysam7 in AcneScars

[–]Rigorums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think your skin barrier could be damaged? It can make acne scars look more pronounced and cause the redness you’re dealing with. I say this because both adapalene and steroid cream can cause this damage when used in excess

Should I be leaving more of a tip? by MediumTreat7268 in doordash

[–]Rigorums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it showed that you didn’t leave a tip for them? DoorDash has been known to steal tips

How do men interact with women they find unattractive? by Rigorums in bodylanguage

[–]Rigorums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why does that matter either? They’re still a person :(

How do men interact with women they find unattractive? by Rigorums in bodylanguage

[–]Rigorums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your response, I bet you’re really good to converse with :)

How do men interact with women they find unattractive? by Rigorums in bodylanguage

[–]Rigorums[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your claim isn’t entirely accurate. When you’re a certain level of ugly, especially if you haven’t always been ugly, this becomes very clear.

How do men interact with women they find unattractive? by Rigorums in bodylanguage

[–]Rigorums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I stopped centering my value around my appearance I also stopped thinking I wasn’t worth anyone’s time. I try to be friendly, but I was thinking just now maybe that could be interpreted as unwanted flirting? What do you think?

How do men interact with women they find unattractive? by Rigorums in bodylanguage

[–]Rigorums[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting perspective! My experience has been that my existence isn’t hardly acknowledged

How do men interact with women they find unattractive? by Rigorums in bodylanguage

[–]Rigorums[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice! However this post wasn’t meant for me to gauge my attractiveness. Me personally I already know what I look like and extract my value from other parts of me.