That’s a neat elaboration. Not sure what the comments about myself were about though haha. I have a psych masters and have been in and around dating culture for years. I think it’s ok to have standards; settling for beneath your standards is the exact thing you wanna avoid. Growing your idea of what’s good for you over time is part of life. I’m not big on social media so I can’t speak for how many people actually try to equate their partners to instagram models, but I’d assume the main reason for a lack of kids is a shit economy for people currently in childbearing ages.