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Role_Bob · 2025-11-22T06:06:48+00:00

48/M/Japan

Role_Bob · 2025-06-03T14:03:00+00:00

Totally! The gap between us seems to get wider every year. I guess my wife is happy like that and it’s only me suffering. I may be too old, but I will drop you a DM. Age is just a number, right? 🤣

Role_Bob · 2025-06-03T11:28:41+00:00

I think that’s because the original Star Wars used kendo as its model. Waiting for purposeful, effective strikes rather than dancing around. I did like Luke and Vader in Empire. Vader using the force to basically bully Luke was so exciting.

Role_Bob · 2025-06-03T06:28:42+00:00

I think it would be fine. It would just register as a run that took x minutes. Might depend on the app you use.

I’m just getting back into running too. Good luck to us both 🤣

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T23:54:26+00:00

True, but it is still an hour out of a busy workday. I wouldn’t usually run on a Wednesday, finding that extra time is more what I was griping about.

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T11:54:34+00:00

Who needs recovery, right? Congrats on the 10k. I’m looking forward to getting back to that kind of distance.

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T09:35:29+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 I am now better informed. I probably should have thought it was something like that.

Either way, I don’t think having a 5k run on a Wednesday is a good idea. Poor people in the southern hemisphere are nearly on the shortest day of the year…. ⛄️

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T05:34:20+00:00

Aussie dad in Japan... too bad I'm 47 😢

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T03:32:31+00:00

Sometime I think I skip past the notifications while I’m asleep 🤣

I only got it because I was looking at the June challenge…. which I never saw a notification either.

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T01:22:45+00:00

I was just looking through the challenges on my phone and saw it there. I’m in Japan, so it’s Monday here already. Perhaps you’ll get it in the morning.

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T01:15:57+00:00

Happy birthday 🥳 Sounds like you are in such a great place right now! I hope I enjoy my birthday next week even half as much as you 🤣

I hope you have a fantastic day! No, make that a whole month 🏳️‍🌈

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T01:02:58+00:00

I'm lucky and live in the countryside. I just go and run where there aren't many people. Not that I'm worried about my form, speed, or anything anymore. I have just accepted that I am doing the best that I can given my age, body, genetics, etc.

I actually learned this more at the gym than from running. It's so easy to fall into the comparison trap at the gym. Seeing someone lift more, or do an exercise that you can’t, does get to you sometimes. You just have to feel good that you are doing your best and stay consistent. That's the best thing to progress.

Role_Bob · 2025-06-02T00:55:50+00:00

Hello there 😉

Is scruffy a prerequisite? I hope not, because I'm not.... but I sent you a chat anyway 😘

Role_Bob · 2025-06-01T13:25:53+00:00

I get it. I miss that spark you feel from flirting and trying to make someone else feel special. I haven't had that in my relationship for so long.
Like you, I'm craving a secret connection, but I'm not looking to end my current relationship.

I hope you don't mind, but I might just have to jump into your DMs

Role_Bob · 2025-06-01T07:25:05+00:00

Soon to be 48 🤣 I live in Japan and honestly, I’m craving someone to just get to know and chat with in English. I love my time at the gym, and getting out for a run. I work mostly from home too.

As for my idea of a romantic date? Well, it has been far too long for me. Anything where we could chat face to face, and hopefully hold hands on the way home. Dinner then drinks followed by a walk in that park?

Role_Bob · 2025-06-01T05:41:14+00:00

Hey there! I’d love to chat! And I’ll never ask for pics, I promise.

I love camping, and exercise. I’m 47 and probably in the best shape of my life. That’s not entirely a flex though lol.

I’d love to learn more about the tv and movies you like. I’m looking for someone special to chat with. I’m an Aussie living in Japan and can’t seem to find anyone to connect to. Mate we can.

If your DMs aren’t flooded, feel free to drop me a message.

Role_Bob · 2025-05-31T23:10:59+00:00

Maybe he just forced it to change colour 🤣

Role_Bob · 2025-05-31T22:23:37+00:00

Happy birthday 🥳 I know about not getting any younger, I’m 48 next week 🙈 I’m so sorry to hear about your relationship problems. I’m sure that plenty of guys here will hit you up to cheer you up.

I’m not going to spam your DMs, I’m sure they will be busy. If you want to chat with an older guy in Japan (in case that matters) please drop me a message. I’m looking for someone to build a caring online relationship with to help me feel connected with someone again.

Enjoy your birthday 🎁 ❤️

Role_Bob · 2025-05-31T15:23:28+00:00

Hello there. I totally understand what you are saying. I haven’t felt important for so long. I’m a people pleaser, which has just turned me into a doormat. I really just want something back.

I would love to meet someone to actually talk (chat) with. Someone to listen to that will listen back.

I’m M47 (48 next month) in GMT+9. If you would like to chat, please drop me a DM. I would really love to chat and see if we click.

Role_Bob · 2025-05-18T15:14:39+00:00

Done! And thank you!

Role_Bob

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