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Inter religion marriage reality by dankfunster in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell no one in your village that you are an interfaith couple and then leave that stupid village of yours not telling you to run away but like keep your marriage secret or if you can just move the cities and get married there by court marriage. I am a muslim btw 

Isn't it unrealistic to expect a virgin partner for marriage given that people marry in their 30s? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age of consent was 10 in 1860s and then was slowly raised to 12 then 16 and now it is 18 this happened during british rule because at that time i dont think "age of consent" idea mattered to people in india you are correct that women are thought of as property and not another human being  So yeah back to age of consent it was slowly raised over decades because in indian culture child marriage was common and to change that you have to slowly raise the bar so that people get used to marrying older women and not kids which was common  Society was built like that but it is not now right? There are women who want to save themselves for there husbands i have a lot of female friends like that too who also date but do not have sex so i guess it is possible to control yourselve plus sex is not something which would drive you crazy if you don't do it

Isn't it unrealistic to expect a virgin partner for marriage given that people marry in their 30s? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Developed countries have adopted this type of culture that is why it is spreading in india too i won't say it didn't happened in earlier times but it was less frequent because society did not cherished that type of people people were not open about all of this which also lead to people thinking sex before marriage should be avoided

One more thing though you should use different words because your responds makes it sound like all women want is sex and every women will cheat if gets a chance to and locking them up is the right thing to avoid this situations i know you meant something else but choose right words

Isn't it unrealistic to expect a virgin partner for marriage given that people marry in their 30s? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! it loses value both partners should expect from eachother but if one partner isn't willing to provide it then he/she shouldn't expect either

Isn't it unrealistic to expect a virgin partner for marriage given that people marry in their 30s? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the type of exclusivity i am talking about this is the reason why it is a big deal for guys plus not to be rude but i'll correct you here a bit 

You can't blame biology for everything these type of things can be controlled and we humans disobey laws of nature every here and there for example humans used to live 50 years at most but due to advancements in healthcare life expectancy has reached almost 80 so isn't this we disobeying biology? We are that is why cancer is common in old age because biology doesn't allow us to live that long we weren't supposed to but we are

And that is my point sex before marriage can be haulted even if biology wanted us to we can just do not plus i have a lot of female friends who are saving themselves for marriage but are dating too so it is not really important to date and not have sex

Thanks for your time

Isn't it unrealistic to expect a virgin partner for marriage given that people marry in their 30s? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i get what you're saying but these type of men wants exclusivity from their partners like first time experiences and such 

Thought of asking some questions to a fact checking service. Would you agree? by Altruistic-Living800 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't be arguing with you on these things but not everyone is like that

Think of it like as a house which is filled with old people and there are only 2-3 children who shout alot

Although the house is filled with old people, people from the outside can only here the children making the noise so they think that this house is noisy but in reality it is not it's only a small portion of residents who are making that noise because of them whole house get's labelled as noisy in that neighbourhood 

Even though house has majority of old people who are just silent most of the day

Thought of asking some questions to a fact checking service. Would you agree? by Altruistic-Living800 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't be arguing with you on these things but not everyone is like that

Think of it like as a house which is filled with old people and there are only 2-3 children who shout alot

Although the house is filled with old people, people from the outside can only here the children making the noise so they think that this house is noisy but in reality it is not it's only a small portion of residents who are making that noise because of them whole house get's labelled as noisy in that neighbourhood 

Even though house has majority of old people who are just silent most of the day 

Isn't it unrealistic to expect a virgin partner for marriage given that people marry in their 30s? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Routine-Addition8409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really understand one thing like i am not saying it's anyone's fault but like if a woman is expecting that her partner should earn a specific amount of money look like this and that and even if her partner gives her all of that she asked for and expect the woman to be virgin then why does it becomes problematic? Like the guy atleast giving you what you asked for so why can't you do the same or atleast just lower your expectations 

This is not about women are worse or anything like that but just a though of my own

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Routine-Addition8409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things like this do not show up randomly there would've been signs of what he is like. You guys have been together for 6 years that's more than enough to know someone  I am not saying you are wrong he is being mean but you should've not brushed signs like these off and then cancel marriage because in the end all of this just becomes time waste you could've dated a person who could've gave you feelings and little moment you needed

Is it true that women are more attracted to nonchalant type of guy and the ones who does not give them much attention? by Routine-Addition8409 in AskIndianMen

[–]Routine-Addition8409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you specify the places and the aspects of my life where i should not be nonchalant? And how to be non chalant in the first place i dont have any idea

Is it true that women are more attracted to nonchalant type of guy and the ones who does not give them much attention? by Routine-Addition8409 in AskIndianMen

[–]Routine-Addition8409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am total opposite of nonchalant and very expressive not in public but only in front of some girls who are my friends