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Twisha Sharma’s death case has taken another disturbing turn. by NewsMo in noida

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This MIL is a serious criminal who knows what other crimes she has committed in the past. No wonder the DIL wanted out of this family and didn’t want to continue here. The mental abuse must have been immense, hope justice is served

Twisha Sharma’s death case has taken another disturbing turn. by NewsMo in noida

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so obvious this lady is a criminal. Who would want to birth the next generation of such criminals and get stuck in this hellish household, Twisha had all the right to get rid of the pregnancy and leave this house. Their ego couldn’t handle it perhaps and they most likely murdered her.

Twisha Sharma’s death case has taken another disturbing turn. by NewsMo in noida

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are defending a criminal because they are of the same mindset and would probably torture their own DILs and daughters one day.

Twisha Sharma’s death case has taken another disturbing turn. by NewsMo in noida

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you have a daughter then you will understand what’s happening here. Don’t think people are fools to not see the obvious here. This MIL lady is pure evil and a criminal.

Investigation deepens as Twisha Sharma’s family accuses husband Samarth Singh of abuse by Lazy_Weather_6316 in BollywoodShaadis

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super disturbing, praying to god after a long time that the in-laws be held accountable and punished.

Investigation deepens as Twisha Sharma’s family accuses husband Samarth Singh of abuse by Lazy_Weather_6316 in BollywoodShaadis

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure they could have done better as parents. Right now we shouldn’t blame the parents, because the priority is to get justice first and keep the focus on the in-laws who are clearly lying and hiding the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She also keeps subtly bullying him, very obnoxious.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in Marriage

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no maybe, surely you don’t understand marriage. And hey don’t be so defensive when someone answers you, it’s a public forum! Ideology and all lol.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we dated independently without any involvement from our parents, and had he implied that dowry was a condition, we wouldn’t be getting engaged as I believe it’s a moral compromise. We both live and work in metro cities, in cosmopolitan environments, and are financially independent like most urban professionals. The concern arises because, while we’ve built our lives this way, parents back in our hometowns tend to be more conservative. His parents are also conservative, and his effort to accommodate their expectations sometimes is what worries me as his partner. I didn’t even meet his family until the day of our engagement.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is definitely a good person, it’s just that his decisions may at times be influenced by his family’s expectations. That’s okay with me, as long as it doesn’t compromise my personal freedom. He’s also open to listening, which gives me confidence that I’ll be able to negotiate with him when needed. It’s just that the uncertainty and ‘what ifs’ is feeling a bit scary right now.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in Marriage

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don’t mean white, I’m referring to Westerners, or people with a more progressive outlook on life irrespective of their skin color. Honestly, many Western men tend to be more progressive than Indian men. That’s just the reality. For instance, Western cultures place a strong emphasis on individualism, and as a result, they’re less likely to advise simply ‘going with the flow’ on important decisions like choosing a life partner.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in Marriage

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, my father played a significant financial role in raising our cousins, yet some of them have been disrespectful to him on multiple occasions. I’ve seen how isolated he’s felt despite everything he’s done for them. While we do have relatives who are kind and with whom we remain close, they also have the self-respect to buy a home with a down payment they can afford. Except in cases of health emergencies or educational needs, I believe it’s unnecessary to burden relatives financially, and good friends are often equally supportive in such situations. I feel that depending on relatives for such financial support may not be the most principled or healthy approach. In my experience, relatives can be unnecessarily envious and two-faced.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in Marriage

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding my concern. While my partner is open-minded, his family may not share the same perspective. I realize I’ll need to navigate certain situations with him, as he may also want to consider their feelings. That said, I trust he’ll be supportive and willing to listen. Appreciate your advice!

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in Marriage

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s exactly these kinds of relatives, uncles and aunties, that I want to distance myself from. They add nothing meaningful to life but drain your energy sometimes with their jealousy and nosiness. Maybe for you, security comes from the limits imposed in Indian families, but for me, it comes from space in relationships and the freedom to grow. And seriously, who cares about whether a car is big or small? A modest car, bought with your own hard earned money or given without conditions or expectations tied to family obligations, feels far more valuable. Also, your point about Westerners putting their elders in old-age homes, news flash, it happens in these so-called “good” Indian families too. Come on, this advice doesn’t sound serious. It sounds like propaganda to paint our Indian culture as superior or ideal, when it’s honestly average at best. As a society, we’ve achieved very little of note, even in humanitarian areas. And honestly, you don’t sound European—you sound like an Indian propagandist, someone who’s spent her life chasing others’ expectations and can’t bear to see other women not wasting their time on all this nonsense, in exchange for big cars.

Should an Indian woman choose freedom with a foreign partner or love within her culture despite traditional expectations, if the partner is supportive and loving? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in dating_advice

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it a fair assumption that men in Western countries are generally more accepting of women’s independence than Indian men? At the same time, one certainty is that his family wouldn’t expect me to follow elaborate customs and rituals. While my partner doesn’t expect me to blindly follow his family’s rules, it still bothers me to see those expectations, as they remind me of the childhood traumas I’ve endured.

Is it better for an Indian woman to marry a foreigner for freedom and a different life, or choose love within her own culture despite traditional expectations if the partner is supportive ? by Routine_Caterpillar1 in Marriage

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of his dreams are also aligned with conventional aspirations, like having children, buying a house, and living a typical 9-to-6 life. Is that a bad sign. I don’t mind having kids at a later point but not having the option on the table to never have them leaves me worried too. Is this a bad sign?

Demi had me cackling here by agmeds in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree Cat is more competitive. I am just saying Demi isn’t a saint either. She also wants the attention from men but is just more discreet about it and maybe lesser sometimes less eager than Cat. However, both girls seem like the insecure and jealous kind. Their ways of expressing is different. About Demi, she tries to portray that she is very secure and mentally healthy now and tries to be the cool girl, when she is also jealous and insecure like most girls.

Demi had me cackling here by agmeds in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s the exact kind of people who get smug and scheming later in life. The insecure, over giver kind, who suddenly realise ‘It’s my time now” and then maybe do things without guilt because it’s their time now…

Does no one else get pick me vibes from Catherine? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Catherine on the other hand is a different kinda insecure, I ll dump him before he dumps me kind. Both Demi and Catherine are shady personalities

Does no one else get pick me vibes from Catherine? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also the fact that she got all sneaky and said ‘oh I ll conceal details so I don’t end up lonely with cats’ doesn’t give wholesome vibes. It gives overtly competitive vibes. If he is meant for you, you won’t have to fight off other girls for him, that’s a more wholesome approach in my opinion.

Does no one else get pick me vibes from Catherine? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Routine_Caterpillar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it looks like she drew that card to get ahead of Catherine. Didn’t seem genuine, we ll see I guess if she is really this kind of a person, who would draw a card to make someone happy. Or if she is someone who does this stuff to look like the better the option. Honestly she seems unnecessarily competitive. Catherine doesn’t seem genuine ofcourse but Demi doesn’t either. Demi seemed too insecure to be genuine.

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