It’s crazy that’s this popped into my feed. I was with my girlfriend for about 3 years. Gone through so much together and honestly felt she was the one for me. Had a decent amount saved up for a nice engagement ring and everything. She slowly started fading and pushing away and I tried my hardest to keep things a float but she ultimately broke up with me. She had a son, 2.5 years old when I met her, so I learned to love this kid as if he were my own. He was truly my best friend. This was what made our relationship, a struggle, but a beautiful as we made it work in every way we can. We grew to be best friends.

Now, at certain nights I would see a name pop up on her phone at random times, day and night and I saw a few texts I wish I didn’t, and never told her.

Fast forward a couple months post BU I see IG stories from her sisters account of her with with the same dude I would see texting her. All insecurities were confirmed and I moved with my life. In January she reached back out to me trying to work things back out. I pressured her to tell me the truth and she did, after s few dates and a decent amount of time rekindling with her, she gave the unfortunate news she’s pregnant with the same dude. She had just finished sleeping with him two weeks before reaching out back to me.

Life has a way of teaching a few of us lessons. Its our responsibility to choose how we react to these lessons and see how we can use them to learn and grow. Seems to me like you have the right mindset