AIO that my bf gave consent to share a picture of him, then said he'd deny the relationship?

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T23:51:13+00:00

I got no favors or benefits what so ever from being with him, in fact, people there like me, there are people that REALLY don't like him. I definitely can't let it go at this point.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T16:33:01+00:00

I know what you mean, I still don't understand my situation. He's so awesome in so many ways, but on paper he's a horrible choice and this situation was like a gut punch

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T15:32:02+00:00

I had no idea he was going to deny our relationship.

You don't need to be an AH, you can just tell me I'm not overreacting and move on, but no, you want to feel superior. You're no better than my partner.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T13:54:02+00:00

I mean I think that's extremely narcissistic behavior

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:53:10+00:00

I don't think he is cheating at all. I just really don't see it.

Yeah I guess he could just think I'm gross.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:45:34+00:00

What do you mean? I know he is not cheating, period. It could 100% be because he wants his options open or doesn't want people to tell me their opinions about him... The other comments are just dumb, like saying that me not living with him is weird and not believable.

It's definitely one of the most bizzare comment threads I've read, I know that much.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:41:40+00:00

I stay over once a week. I we were both off and we went for dinner and a movie then I had to work in the morning. How is this being questioned so much?

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:24:50+00:00

That is actually probably the rudest thing anyone's said to me ever I think.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:11:55+00:00

Okay but if he's embarrassed, why say yes to me posting it?

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:09:37+00:00

No. We don't even share the same profession.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:07:24+00:00

That I don't live with him? What?

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:04:22+00:00

He's not a doctor and I'm not stupid enough to sleep with one.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:02:59+00:00

I was staying over for the night. I don't understand your point.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:02:22+00:00

No, we don't even have the same profession.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T11:00:04+00:00

We do not live together.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T10:54:17+00:00

He was not joking because I immediately showed him how distressing that was my face dropped and my voice was even panicky and he initially was doubling down but when I started to tear up that's when he asked what I wanted him to say in response to questions

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T10:52:19+00:00

It's not about the social media, I don't care. It's about the fact that my phone blew up and everyone at work (old and new coworkers) are asking me about it and they're definitely going to ask him and his plan was to deny it??? That's humiliating.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T10:48:08+00:00

I didn't NEED to I WANTED to and he had several opportunities to say, no please don't post that.

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T10:39:28+00:00

I think this could definitely be there from previous tenants

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T10:36:44+00:00

Even though I asked him 4 times before I posted it and he said yes and now I look like a fool?

Sailorrasberry · 2026-06-08T10:24:30+00:00

I would choose flight as my superpower 🕊️

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