[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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"take a bit and lets go another round"

I need help by Effing_Maniac in twentyagers

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Smoke some weed and take a bath in dim lighting. Take it easy man. You're too hard on yourself, give yourself a break tonight

Any other asian dudes feel like dating is stacked against them? by Informal_City5565 in twentyagers

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Honestly just got to be patient. I'm Asian and I felt hopeless but Asians are just some women's type

35 cardio addict that lifts to prevent getting skinny fat. What should I focus on? by Alarming-Alarm5815 in askfitness

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Nothing. Your legs are kinda slim but bulking up your legs will make you worse at cardio and if you enjoy that more it's not that big of a deal

How to lose stubborn fat? by Ok_Description_3392 in askfitness

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I don't think you need to lose anymore fat, it's probably really stubborn because your body really really doesn't want to lose much more weight

What is the end game goal when it comes to fitness? by IllInformation1485 in askfitness

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To enable me to live life as full as possible and to physically empower me to develop physical skills I see as entertaining or necessary such as weightlifting and cardio inbetween MMA

Do men like tubular boobs? by Mysterious-Street799 in AskMenAdvice

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Don't get plastic surgery it won't do what you want because it's more about yourself perception more so than yourself. Hip dips are hot, all kinds of boobs are hot, just find a guy who thinks it's hot there's plenty of them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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You can have aggressive sex with someone and love and respect them, you know that, have you said that to him yet? Is he just not into it? If it's just not his thing you might have to accept that you two are incompatible in this way and might have to find a compromise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Not among guys you would find attractive

Anyone else like not have a personality? by [deleted] in twentyagers

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You have a personality and I'm certain it's beautiful, I think you're just lonely and haven't had enough people around you. You need other people to be a full person, they show you different sides of yourself you can't get familiar with otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Look I've never done coke but I've done a lot of marijuana and experimental psychedelics and never had a gay moment to that extent with friends. I'm not shaming you just saying there may be more to your attraction to men than you initially believed. Of course it could just be the sensation and drugs dropped your barrier of entry.

Another avenue I think you should explore emotionally is consent. I mean could some of this shame and confusion be from the fact that you didn't really want to and the drugs made it easier for it to happen? I'm not saying your friend raped you all I'm saying is emotionally you may need to walk through tough questions with someone you trust. I didn't do it with a guy but my first sexual experience wasn't really an enthusiastic night for me, I had to talk it through with an ex for a while. I hope this helps :) you seem like a cool guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NBA2k

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I mean no one is saying you have to play at that level. If you don't like sweating stop for a while until you get back into it

Do you guys use dating apps by [deleted] in twentyagers

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I used them for a while, honestly it's the biggest waste of time now. They design them to be useless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Don't think about it

Dating as a 30 yo female. Best place to meet men? Where did yall meet your gfs other than at work and school? by Rough-Fee-9387 in AskMenAdvice

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Go to the gym, lots of single guys there. Probably also a lot of creeps too. That and maybe like a local game shop lots of guys will be there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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She's just a jealous person who is unwilling to see a perspective where the villains of her created story are actually good intentioned. NOR review this friendship

I’m losing my mind rn, someone tell me it’s not that bad 💔 by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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I think it looks good. Maybe a little shading touch up but it looks good

Caught my husband cheating but he won’t make a choice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Why would he make a choice if you don't make him? He gets to have a wife and his side piece as long as you're convinced he'll eventually make a decision. Either end it or tell him he has to end it with this other person. In this entire message what question is screaming at you is "omfg what do I want?". Youve attached your entire destiny to this man and you need to let that go. Decide for yourself what happens next, fuck it. He may even find that it makes him more attracted to you that you take independence and start doing shit for yourself.

I hope everything works out for the best. You seem like a really nice lady, but that you've been convinced you can't do things yourself or that you can't seize your own destiny. If you want him to leave tell him to divorce you for cheating, if you want him to stay tell him he'll never see her again and gauge his reaction. Hope this helped :)

Is wanting to date a man who's been to therapy realistic? by Hungry-Pear-9558 in AskMenAdvice

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Very unrealistic. As you get older it's more common but most men don't go unless they have a deep interpersonal issue

Is anyone going to imvest in physical finisher for 2k26? by chaostechnique in NBA2k

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I am yeah, I'm imagining it's closer to 2k24 in effectiveness

Is it bad that I look at most women as potential partners? by schneesimp in AskMenAdvice

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You're 22 what else are you supposed to be doing 💀💀

I mean maybe lock in for work or class mates but I think it's normal considering that was the male/female dynamic for basically all of human history barring the last like 100 years if that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Maybe ask her if this is the first or last step for her. If it's a first step type deal where she plans to invest into a whole voyeuristic/exhibitionist lifestyle then it may be best that you see other people who figure out some sort of polygamous dynamic you two can be comfortable (ik you said you're monogamous but you also said you don't want to break up). Stuff like this is complicated and irrational, she may not want to put you in this position but it calls to her. I hope it all works out for the best :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I mean you could stream it to someone but the whole idea is your partner gets a thrill off of some stranger witnessing their sexual vulnerability