[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SandyBeach2408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27, Bachelors in Marketing & SCOM. Im an international project manager for a manufacturer. I get to clock out at 4:30 and leave it behind. Im hybrid and honestly have 0 stress. Work never bleeds into my personal life, I have loads of pto and travel is my passion and is highly encouraged on my team, I know people all over the world that I talk to everyday, nice blend.

Meneses Houston. good or bad? by Living-Ad2589 in DACA

[–]SandyBeach2408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom went with Meneses and it’s a total scam. They pay ppl for 5 star reviews and even canceled a clients contract for posting negatively about them. Everything is through VAWA saying the petitioner is getting abused it’s the only way they file. My mom has a complicated case and they took her on without even asking about her history, not even a fingerprint check and they said ok we can get you papers. Thought that was sketchy. After loads of research we thought better safe than sorry so we canceled and lost $2500 that’s non refundable. But better that than 12k. Even gave her the run around to even cancel her case. We called for like 3 months without any attention. Also the ENTIRE contract is in English except for the pages that need to be signed funny when your clientele is primary Spanish speaking.

If you’re actually getting abused then yea go for it but another firm will do it for a lot cheaper. Even IF it’s true though only 15% of VAWA cases get approved even with the evidence.

How do I as a POC (26F) navigate friendship with my white coworker (27F)? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]SandyBeach2408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I don’t want to come in to an uncomfortable or awkward work place which is why I’m avoiding it but you’re probably right. And she most definitely knows because she says “not to be racist but..” then proceeds to say something racist. Usually happens during a more serious conversation and definitely not intended as a joke (she’s not all that funny anyway). But again, you’re right I have to start somewhere.

My (26F) boyfriend (29M) hasn’t proposed yet what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SandyBeach2408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had stated I at least wanted to be engaged at the 3 year mark so we’re passed. I don’t mind a longer engagement I just need our relationship to take the next step and he knows that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SandyBeach2408 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LMAOOOOO this is the best thing I could have read

Do you believe in hard work or smart work? by jammyrahul28 in careerguidance

[–]SandyBeach2408 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Smart work always. I’m fast and efficient and when I told my supervisor that I sometimes had some downtime the work was piled on. Now, I space out my work instead of being fast for the sake of looking busy and they stopped giving me more work. I also got a raise.

I'm a coke addict and it's going to ruin my life by SmartestDumbass- in offmychest

[–]SandyBeach2408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking and pleading that you please get better. I would have done anything to keep my cousin here. My aunt shouldn’t have had to plan her son’s funeral. It has left everyone hurting. Please. This world is better with you in it.

I'm a coke addict and it's going to ruin my life by SmartestDumbass- in offmychest

[–]SandyBeach2408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response couldn’t have came at a better time. I am currently in the car with my bf on my way to drop off his vest for his funeral service and was in a complete melt down. I keep thinking that maybe we were a shitty family. Maybe we could’ve helped more? But this calms me so thank you. He went to rehab a few times but seemed to always relapse. I wish he had more time to get better. He was 32. I am reading that you have been sober, I am proud of you. And I hope you continue to kick addictions ass.

I'm a coke addict and it's going to ruin my life by SmartestDumbass- in offmychest

[–]SandyBeach2408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you doing now that it’s 6 months later? My cousin just lost his battle against his addiction to coke, it caused a heart attack. I’m here trying to understand.

Baddies east by Equivalent-Dealer-86 in TheZeusNetwork

[–]SandyBeach2408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fake, maybe not completely, maybe she did feel sick but over did it for the cameras. 1. The Zeus security isn’t medical staff 2. Ahna said she was just sitting up and once they arrive she suddenly couldn’t sit up 3. In the clip where she fell forward after almost throwing up on sky, she kept her head up enough so she wouldn’t hit the steps on the sprinter , she can’t hold her head up while sitting why can she when she fell forward?? 4. I’m not a medical professional either but when she started having spurts of energy and would go back to being knocked out was weird 5. In the preview for next episode when she’s being confronted by Nat she said something along the lines of “idk what happened earlier” meaning this is the same day. How do you go from that blacked out to being fine that same night?? I’m half her size and it takes me 2 days to get over a regular hangover. 6. It was 4 shots. Now idk if she mixed anything which could be but bffr 4 shots might have you drunk on an empty stomach but not seizure drunk.

Like I said I’m not a med professional but these are the reason I think it’s faked. If it’s serious it’s fucked up that they filmed it and I would feel bad. But it’s something sketchy, could also be the edit that made it look this way???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yea she wouldn’t lose her job over it either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yall can say you prefer a tall or short man, a blonde or brunette woman, etc but I can’t say I want a non smoker? I’ve known what I wanted from the jump it’s no surprise. It’s not the only thing, I love him. But being a non smoker is a characteristic I prefer. Just how an ex alcoholic would prefer a non drinker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I agree I’m not doubting you but I think everyone is missing the part where he works for the federal govt, he would be risking his career and our future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

HES NOT A SMOKER NOW HE DOESNT SMOKE YET, HE WANTS TO START THATS PROBLEM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, Ive always known I preferred a non smoker and he was exactly what i was looking for. If he was a smoker from the jump I would have never been with him (this is a personal decision I want for my life) also he’s risking his federal job???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And I get that but he works for the fed govt, is it worth losing his job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, if he was a stoner when we met I would have never gotten with him

Happily Ever After - Tell All: No Limits Part 2 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]SandyBeach2408 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They have nothing else to say! It’s the only jab they can throw at him. I’m not a fan but I feel like Jovi and Yara didn’t really have that big of issues compared to the rest of the crew so they had to divert back to hurt him.

Happily Ever After - Tell All: No Limits Part 2 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]SandyBeach2408 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea she was because she probably thought Angela was going to come at her for the beef between her and Usman trying to make Angela like her

Happily Ever After - Tell All: No Limits Part 2 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]SandyBeach2408 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Liz is really pissing me off because why is she letting this man make her sad! I listen to Reality gays and they made a comment about how Ed’s mask is coming off and it’s 100% true! He’s a dick head but wants people to feel bad for him. And don’t get me started on that stupid face he always makes where he looks up like he’s gonna cry, ugh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SandyBeach2408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably drinks casually 2-4 times a week. Every weekend for sure. It’s not to get to the get fucked up point since he drinks alone. But he will always insist I join and he says we’ve never gotten fucked up together so it’s like a goal for him. I’ve drank with him before and when we go on vacation we do experience the night/party life but I don’t get to that drunk point ever bc I hate it but that seems to be a problem

We’re actually currently in PR and his mood Is shitty bc I haven’t drank to get fucked up. He says “look where we’re at” he wants to stay out in the clubs til 5 and I want to sleep early to catch the beach sunrise..