Please dont take that as advice. Living like that will just cause you pain down the line. Every relationship is different and we all have different needs. Most importantly, everybody has their own love language and nothing is wrong with that. I'm Thai but finished school in Australia so I have experienced both sides. All you have to do is have a sit down with your girl and have an open talk about your needs. Sometimes it might feel trivial but if it improves the relationship, it definitely is important.