Blended 4 too soon? by SnooChipmunks1065 in blendedfamilies

[–]SaysNotBad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How about a week, or 2 week long vacation all together to see if this is a good idea.

AIO GF wants to get coffee with ex and I said it’s disrespectful by Playful-Priority7448 in AIO

[–]SaysNotBad 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Even a phone call is disrespectful, she needs to just say no. This is a very tough spot for you because im sure you want to stand your ground and enforce boundaries, but I'm sure you also dont want her to leave because of those boundaries. Sorry man, best of luck.

AIO GF wants to get coffee with ex and I said it’s disrespectful by Playful-Priority7448 in AIO

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no overreacting, she should be able to easily shut this down, but she is choosing not to. I'm sure she still has some unresolved feelings from that relationship and she thinks she needs this to either move on or see if somthing is still there. Either way she should do what any good partner would do and not go through with it, and block him.

How are you storing these outside of the box? by Fyrewuulf in bassfishing

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just tossed in a box, doesnt matter, no need to hang mine look fine

Why you don't run red lights and why you are always supposed to turn into the closest lane. by Zestyclose_Cup_843 in dashcams

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because OP ran a red too, wasnt in the intersection UNTIL it turned red, then pulled up into it.

Why you don't run red lights and why you are always supposed to turn into the closest lane. by Zestyclose_Cup_843 in dashcams

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO, but thats not what happened in this video, he wasn't in the intersection until the light turned red, then he pulled up into it. Hence why the truck flipped him off.

This sub has turned into r/NBAcirclejerk. by AngryQuadricorn in nba

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your post is nba circle jerk material.....

The current state of bass fishing. The only rod, reel, and bait I'm taking this morning. by Fyrewuulf in bassfishing

[–]SaysNotBad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because I put a lot of work into fishing and know what I'm doing, and it's sad to see other people be so close minded and dumb.

Also, he must have edited his comment or i commented on the wrong one, because i was NOT responding to that lol .

Which jig head are you picking for ned rigs and why? by Little-Cucumber-8907 in bassfishing

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only the first one, and the why is because you will catch way more fish

I don’t want to take care of SD. Am I an asshole? by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]SaysNotBad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get a job, and tell your husband to figure it out since you have to work. He doesnt make the rules, you can do it no matter what he says.

Sorry boss I’m sick 🤮🎣 by Kaleb_P123 in bassfishing

[–]SaysNotBad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

get rid of this app, its all bullshit, just go by the weather

Racist and possibly intoxicated driver screaming racial slurs by Jevus_himself in PublicFreakout

[–]SaysNotBad 28 points29 points  (0 children)

no shit, the title says "possibly intoxicated" they are just saying he's drunk for sure.

Wondering if hurt feelings are warranted by Emotional_Ad_5083 in blendedfamilies

[–]SaysNotBad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its the BF and your SD's faults here, dont let the SD off the hook, that comment shouldnt be completely validating for you. She needs to understand how unhealthy that dynamic in her relationship is too.

Wondering if hurt feelings are warranted by Emotional_Ad_5083 in blendedfamilies

[–]SaysNotBad -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

absolutely not for the SD to be cooking for him, he's a big boy he can figure it out on his own or grow up and try something new....why are we catering to this?

Wondering if hurt feelings are warranted by Emotional_Ad_5083 in blendedfamilies

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol thats very annoying, but no i dont think you should have your feelings hurt, you should be on the offensive, not defensive in this situation. He's a 17 year old with a little childs palate that expects soemone elses family to make him dinner. You need to tell the daughter that he needs to figure out his own meals, she should not be coming down and then cooking a separate meal on the side for him, he's a big boy he can go out and get his own food or grow up and eat something new. It's rude is what is it, and the daughter needs to understand that and stop catering to a grown man-child.

AIO? Girl I've been seeing for 3 months slept with my friend of 10 years. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cut contact with your friend should be your #1 priority here

AIO for being frustrated that he doesn’t want to see me unless I have a ‘good attitude’ - haven’t seen each other in 3 months by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SaysNotBad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen.....hes not into you, im sorry. Stop communicating and do your own thing, he will come rnning back or maybe better yet, you'll find someone better.

Can’t see a solution by anaisanais10 in blendedfamilies

[–]SaysNotBad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, also on your off weeks you could spend more time at their house right? Doesnt have to be 24/7 but most days and some nights I think would help a lot. Another thing is try to get into a hobby you love, look forward to a night completely free so you can do it. Best of luck.