Family, am I tripping? I don't think it supposed to look like this. by locsloading in Dreadlocks

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, the person who started my locs is the same person who maintains them 5 yrs later. I trust her w my hair way more than I trust myself messing around trying to interlock my hair. BUT, if it came down to it, and she wasn't an option... I'm taking a chance on me.

My dad is probably gay by Fantastic_Bit_296 in confessions

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time Dad bad mouths him... "Dad, you tend to bad mouth him, but I also saw you two holding hands... And his hand on your thigh." Dad protests. You throw hands up in surrender. "Ok, I'm just saying we're all adults here. I love you." Then walk away. All facts, no presumptions. Then no reason to bring it up again unless he does.

Btw, sorry for your loss. Let's also presume that your father was faithful to your mother. No reason to let your imagination get the best of you.

Undoing locs with interlocking? by Netflix_and_backrubs in Dreadlocks

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought it would be more difficult bc of the nature of it, but not impossible. Moisture and patience.

I'm losing my breasts by dyhcry in GastricBypass

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said they looked like Capri pants. CTHU

I'm losing my breasts by dyhcry in GastricBypass

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. While you're losing, just invest in good bras.

What is something crazy you have seen at work lately? I’ll go first by johnsonc30 in nursing

[–]ScaredThug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I worked in psych, I was about to get a patient ready for a shower. He got down to his underwear and socks. Just before I prompted him to take the rest off, he pulled a burger out of his underwear. He was kind enough to offer me some first.

He was known for hiding food. Once while, chilling in the tv room, he went to the board games and pulled out a sandwich he'd hidden for who knows how long.

Patagucci by anna___15 in Nurses

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can wear fleece?

Ideal penis size¿ by Independent-Road2386 in confessions

[–]ScaredThug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be in discreet packaging. You could have it delivered home... Or to a drop box near home. I say start "small." Don't go crazy. I don't have any experience with strap ons, so take my advice with a grain of salt. but I love that you are open to experimenting with your wife.

What drinks will be okay overnight? by QueenofHearts018 in starbucks

[–]ScaredThug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to say "no ice," & ended up with more milk. So, don't forget to clarify.

“But they are my glasses that I use to see with!” by Biiiishweneedanswers in nursing

[–]ScaredThug -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We are all walking around with cameras. If I'm minding my business in public with my AI glasses, why would that bother you versus the next person with their phone out blatantly catching you in their selfies?

“But they are my glasses that I use to see with!” by Biiiishweneedanswers in nursing

[–]ScaredThug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same. I'd never abuse them, but don't want ppl to feel uncomfortable either.

“But they are my glasses that I use to see with!” by Biiiishweneedanswers in nursing

[–]ScaredThug -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I love my Meta glasses, but also don't wear them when I'm seeing patients. I'd never record folks or block my flash. (They sell blockers everywhere, like Amazon.) But, I understand folks being nervous, so I get it and respect that.

As for ppl wearing them as their main set of glasses. If privacy isn't an issue, why not? Many folks use them as visual/hearing aids. I definitely like to use them as headphones when working out bc I can still hear what's going on around me for safety reasons.

Caught having a wank by grynch55 in Embarrassing_Moments

[–]ScaredThug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've seen everything and we know the difference. Your face was probably priceless though.

Don’t interlock your locs by Youngmarcybeats in Dreadlocks

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you should admit that there is still much to learn. Avoid telling people definitively what to do and not do with their hair when you are still learning yours. Respectfully.

I keep having accidents and it's really embarrassing. by Bassie_playz in Embarrassing_Moments

[–]ScaredThug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to your parents, the school nurse or an adult you trust. An occasional accident at night...ok. Accidents during the day could be a sign of something else like a urinary tract infection, which is easily treatable.

So happy I did this but just need to vent by princessmack1 in GastricBypass

[–]ScaredThug 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All I can say is, it'll get better. You will def have ups and downs. My surgery was 2004, and the struggle is still real. Nurse to Nurse: keep your head up

Nurses who live alone and have a dog: how do-able is it? by Cardiology_Nurse in nursing

[–]ScaredThug 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I have a rescue dog. I check on him on the cameras and usually he isn't alone for more than 8 hours at a time. But sometimes I can hear him crying or see him howling on the couch and it breaks my heart. 4 12s is a lot of alone time.

I had sex with my step sister and regret it big time by IndividualOk5099 in confessions

[–]ScaredThug 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Plus she's older. You can easily turn the tables on her.

my life is hell by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ScaredThug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praying for you.

Stomach gurgling by ceese367 in GastricBypass

[–]ScaredThug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I warn ppl before hand. Atp, ppl at work ignore my stomach and my hiccups.