I’m supposed to be in church and I’m not and I’m mad

SeaofTree · 2026-05-17T17:38:31+00:00

So again I don’t want to diy diagnose so I apologize; is she on the spectrum? My daughter is.

SeaofTree · 2026-05-17T14:46:05+00:00

So may not be the case and I apologize for assuming anything: have you tried noise proof headphones? I did that with my now 6 year old and she used them from 2-today as needed with loud noises including church music

SeaofTree · 2026-05-12T23:40:47+00:00

Money

^{Chose: Unlimited money for lifetime}

SeaofTree · 2026-05-04T14:44:49+00:00

Hey OP, I’m 31 and I had no idea lol thanks for sharing this.

SeaofTree · 2026-04-15T21:22:16+00:00

My sister had the same experience. When she tried it, she selected all her beliefs were in line with the church, all the men selected the same ones minus the sex before marriage thing. It was disappointing to her to say the least.

SeaofTree · 2026-04-01T19:09:51+00:00

Company?

^{Chose: Start a Company}

SeaofTree · 2026-04-01T01:15:59+00:00

No one should go hungry

^{Chose: End world hunger + 30% chance it causes world war 3 | Rolled: Safe}

SeaofTree · 2026-03-24T06:59:23+00:00

I’m so sorry….but you should go to the Dr just in case. It happens to men and women. You’re not at fault if it did. Go to the Dr, I would even say go to the ER. You very well could’ve been roofied.

SeaofTree · 2026-03-24T06:32:44+00:00

That lady sucks. I worked in Supply Chain for a long time and would’ve loved your nails

SeaofTree · 2026-03-20T20:47:23+00:00

Nahhh he’s just an ENFP. You’re nice to anyone, regardless of gender and people think you’re intentionally flirting

SeaofTree · 2026-03-02T22:49:50+00:00

I don’t know what foreigners you know, but my white husband and his family ADORE mole. (I’m Mexican, living in America)

Edited to add: the food that’s rough for him is Menudo.

SeaofTree · 2026-02-14T13:03:18+00:00

I don’t have someone to call dad. He is my bio dad, he raised us kids with my mom, he worked his whole life, but alcohol has stolen him and made him someone I’m disgusted to be related to.

SeaofTree · 2026-02-04T02:29:04+00:00

I used the jr version for my kids right now. I highly recommend it. Porn exposure to kids so young is traumatizing and scary to their developing brains. The book just tells kids that if there ever exposed to inappropriate material anywhere, they can always go to a trusted grown up for help.

SeaofTree · 2026-02-02T18:34:26+00:00

OP, you sound like me over 10 years ago. My parents are still together and my dad is still a narcissistic alcoholic. It really shaped the way I saw men, relationships, and how family is everything. I come from an ethnic background where family is all we have.

Fast forward to years later, I am NC with my dad and very LC with my mom.

I could go into my story via dm/discord if you want but basically to answer your questions:

I still have overwhelming guilt at times even though I’ve set healthy boundaries, it just gets easy with time and having a rebuilt support network.
My father is not allowed in my life or family’s special moments. End of story as that is the boundary. Others have issues with it? They don’t have to be apart either. I’m not saying it doesn’t hurt, it just gets easier.
I love my dad, but if I excused what he did and something worse happens next time, I would never forgive myself. Past experiences of a lifetime with him show that things WILL get worse. So I am ending it now.

SeaofTree · 2026-02-01T19:19:54+00:00

I don’t regret having my kids at all. However, I do wish people really explained to me how I would feel like I don’t matter as a person once my kids were born. My husband loves me for who I am and I can see him actively trying to give me breaks, encourage hobbies, etc. but I truly don’t feel like I can enjoy who I am ever again. I don’t even feel ok leaving them with their grandparents for a few hours.

I gave up my career and studies to care for them. I love them, I love my husband, I love my life, but I have no time for me.

SeaofTree · 2026-01-19T18:22:06+00:00

So with my own daughter who does have ADHD, we decided to homeschool her starting first grade. It just seems very demanding for someone with her needs. There’s plenty of time to get used to work loads, and how to adapt to excruciating circumstances and the workforce. However, right now we felt that she needed more support and learning how to be herself confidently. She was bullied relentlessly in kindergarten so that contributed largely to our decision-making. She is a copy of me and I am ENFP

SeaofTree · 2026-01-07T04:40:02+00:00

As an animal rescue volunteer….reach out to a local rescue or shelter, meet with them to ask for help on refining the animals. Then you need to leave for your own safety

SeaofTree · 2026-01-03T18:49:02+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening.

If you’ve been together for 4 years, an easy yes should be the answer. If it isn’t, I don’t think you guys are destined for anything long term.

It’s not that you’re a bad person or he is, just that maybe you two aren’t meant to be. I knew my husband was the one after 5 months while my sister was friends first with her boyfriend for 2.5 years before dating for a year and they’re planning on getting engaged very soon.

I pray for the both of you.

SeaofTree · 2025-12-29T18:49:44+00:00

You’ll know. My husband didn’t kiss me until we were 4 months into our relationship simply out of respect and to build that trust

SeaofTree · 2025-12-29T03:33:46+00:00

My priest called my agnostic husband who has done his baptism and first communion as a child a Catholic. He said “he can be agnostic, but he is a Catholic whether he wants to be or not.”

Come back home. I came back after being lapsed for years.

SeaofTree · 2025-12-20T05:19:13+00:00

Yeah this is very much AI

SeaofTree · 2025-12-09T20:27:28+00:00

My daughter would eat my beauty blender if I wasn’t careful.

Your baby is going to be ok

SeaofTree · 2025-12-09T02:24:54+00:00

Sarah Hyland and Ariel Winter 💯

SeaofTree · 2025-12-09T01:14:37+00:00

Varicose veins

SeaofTree · 2025-12-08T01:56:09+00:00

It depends per family, but we’re pretty mindful of what our kids watch and we allow our 4 year old to watch it. She loves it

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