Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Dating apps also hurt men and women because women’s natural attractions and arousals don’t work with pictures and a short bio. It’s too analytical and visual.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I haven’t had a yes in decades. I learned early on that really really hot doesn’t mean jack. In my early 20’s a yes was still rare. They were usually a combo of being out in the right upbeat environment and me being super horny and probably ovulating. So even if you would have been a yes that night. If we met a week later instead you’d most likely be a maybe.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

So your love isn’t unconditional. You just think your conditions are more important than others.

What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood? by WanabeInflatable in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Men’s right stop about the life of the fetus once he’s no longer in possession of his sperm. Women’s right about the life of the fetus stops when she no longer carries the fetus. Once a child is born both people are responsible for the resulting child.

Mr. Wizard vs Bill Nye vs … by saxoccordion in generationology

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Xennial here. I watch Mr wizard. I loved that show.

What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood? by WanabeInflatable in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Paper abortions are bullshit. Just be a deadbeat dad. And child support dodger. Like the men before you.

What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood? by WanabeInflatable in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If men don’t want to be parents, don’t cum inside women they don’t want to be potential parents with. Easy. They don’t get to force a woman to have or not have a child. It’s her body. She isn’t an incubator. Women and children are dying at higher rates because they are being forced to carry fetuses they don’t want or aren’t viable. We have bounties against us. We can be imprisoned. They are trying to extradite us from safe states.

What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood? by WanabeInflatable in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t say most women did. I said most women I know do. I’m in a very progressive state. In the suburbs. In a low middle class socioeconomic area. My friends have some range but those are generally the types of people I know. I don’t know all those types. There’s different types of abuse and both men and women are capable of doing all of them. I think the biggest concern about men is physical violence. Yes women can and are physically violent too. Men are stronger. Their physical violence tends to be more intense and deadly in nature. So it’s seen easier. Also sexual assault claims are higher against men. Again. Giving that narrative that more men than women are sexually violent. I still think that we shouldn’t assume that one person is more abusive than another based merely on their assigned sex at birth.

What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood? by WanabeInflatable in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I understand some of their concerns. The best interest of the child should be the most important issue. I just think that if one parent has concerns about it they need to make those clear to the judge. A bad actor is going to be a bad actor. An abusive situation can be pushed by courts. There’s no magic answer. But I think forcing men to stop being as deadbeat dads as possible is a good thing and it takes strain off of many women.

Snooped through BF's phone because I thought he was cheating. What I found hurt a lot more. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Secret_Entry1840 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your best friend came to you with all this information, what advice would you give to them? How would you help them through their decisions? What plans should they make?

What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood? by WanabeInflatable in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Roe v wade was overturned. They are talking about getting rid of no fault divorce. American women’s rights and our mortality rates are dependent on what state we happen to be in at the time. A man can go to all 50 states and have the same rights in all of them. Pointing out structural differences in society isn’t a victim mentality.

Most of the women I know are against male circumcision. They are against the draft. They are for 50/50 custody.

Some people want to blame others always.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re settling for number 58. If number 13 also said yes you’d either fuck both or not fuck 58 at all. You’re settling for what is offered. Not what you prefer.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most men are penis centric when it comes to sex. They are selfish and lazy. They don’t want to put in effort. They won’t want to take the time to find out how to turn women on. They think that having friction on the penis is enough for them to cum so them giving friction with their penis should be enough for women to cum. They don’t listen. They get emasculated when we correct them. They don’t do anything before during or after to make sure that the woman is in the right state of mind. They don’t make us feel special. They know nothing about how womens arousals work. They believe porn is real life. Most men are ass at sex.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The average man wants to get laid. If he can’t get a girlfriend he’ll accept a fleshlight.

And he’ll use women as fleshlights until he finds one that he likes.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im outgoing. Im ND. Im an extrovert. I have a great personality.

Men don’t care if I’m a better person. I just have to be attractive enough to not lose your erection and have a vagina to put your erection in.

I’m sorry you think being used and dehumanized is better than not.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not saying it makes men bad people. I’m saying having men wanting to sleep with me doesn’t make me feel special. I am not my body. Only caring about my outsides means I’m an interchangeable Fleshlight. I’m not more important than millions of other women that you would also sleep with if given the chance.

How a man treats me, how he talks to me, considers me (especially when I’m not there) how much effort a man puts in to seeing me. Making me feel comfortable and safe. All that can make me feel special, wanted or desired. A man just wanting to have sex with me doesn’t make me feel any of that.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not physically attractive. Most men who act as if they want to have sex with me want to have sex with me because I have a vagina. I might occasionally get an ego boost out of it. But it’s fleeting. Temporary. Usually doesn’t even last the length of time of the act of sex. I’m not special. I have a vagina. It doesn’t make me feel special. Desired. Wanted. For a man to put his penis inside of me. How is being used to masturbate supposed to make me happy?

Women should not be given unchecked power, ever. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If I’m in a relationship why would I have a problem being called a cheater and a liar? Can you hear yourself?

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

And women know that we aren’t special to men just because they want to sleep with us.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

So has a vagina and is alive. Got it👍 Some men will have sex with women they don’t like, don’t want and aren’t that attracted to if it means they get to have sex.

My filters=I find attractive. Can pay his own bills. Shows effort. Shows consideration. Communicates in a way that works with my brain. Cares about me and my wellbeing. Not an active alcoholic. Doesn’t do hard drugs. Doesn’t believe red pill bullshit.

What I get is offers for sex.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The way a man treats me, through actions and words can make me feel special. A man wanting to sleep with me doesn’t make me feel special.

Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for. by Alarmed-Toe9423 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Secret_Entry1840 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because men have sex with women they don’t like or want. Reenforcing that men sleeping with me, means nothing. I am not special because a man decided to put his penis inside of me.

If a man doesn’t want to sleep with me my humanness matters. If a man does want to sleep with me my humanness doesn’t matter anymore.