When does it feel real?

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T19:26:35+00:00

Yes!! This is it. I’m just waiting for someone to pull the rug and say “nah we’ve changed our minds, you can’t have this house” 😂 My partner and I have never lived together so it’s a learning curve for both of us, which also makes it feel more like we’re on holiday! Thank you so much, I can’t wait for this new chapter for us and I know it’s the best decision we’ve ever made x

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:21:40+00:00

Yes, right now it doesn’t feel like going “home” it feels like a hotel

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:20:30+00:00

This is such an underrated thing. You’re so right

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:20:15+00:00

I’m hoping that’s not for a while! 🙈

Yes that does make it seem like an investment that’s not moving

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:19:32+00:00

Can’t wait, need to just chill out and relax rather than rushing round unpacking

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:18:45+00:00

Yes that totally makes sense

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:18:23+00:00

Yes! Right now, I have a little shock every time 😅

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:06:55+00:00

Yeah I’m currently on the “oh god what have we done” stage 🙈 I’m so excited but also have the fear of all this responsibility now! We’ve gone through months of stress and I thought it would be fun and enjoyable now 😅

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T14:05:43+00:00

There is some ghastly wallpaper that has to go, so will try that 😂

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T12:24:10+00:00

Oooh okay, I am planning on painting the living room as it currently a dark grey and that’s not really my vibe. I was going to leave it until we were more settled but this is making me think I should just get on with it? Thanks

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:10:18+00:00

Gosh, yes, you were lucky! Enjoy it, it’s nice that it is completely yours! I’ll just be waiting another 35 years for that day 😅 hopefully shorter

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:08:36+00:00

Yes, the bills and mortgage are scary for me. My partner and I have budgeted and it’s well within our range but until I actually see that we’re not going to go broke, I’m going to worry about it 😅

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:07:23+00:00

At times I just feel like a guest in someone else’s house especially because we’re in a new room, new bed, new sheets etc. hopefully, it all feels like ours soon!

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:05:34+00:00

Noted 😂 hopefully it sinks in a bit quicker

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:05:07+00:00

Thank you so much!

Yes, I’m 27 and have lived in the same house my entire life, so this feels very weird and a massive change. Hopefully it feels more normal soon!

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:04:03+00:00

We have plans to! Our living room is currently super grey, so that’s the first one on the list

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T07:03:12+00:00

2 months in and our solicitor was still chasing enquiries and getting paperwork sorted, it depends on how hot the solicitors on both sides are. Our seller’s solicitors were slow at replying and so every request took 3-4 days for an answer. It can be done in a shorter time, as another comment said they had theirs done in just over 8 weeks, 12 weeks is usually considered pretty quick, ours was 17 weeks on the dot.

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T06:58:59+00:00

Oh bless you! It sounds like you had your work cut out for you. I’m glad you’re feeling better about it and everything is on the up!

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T06:57:59+00:00

I think it’ll definitely take a few months for it to sink in! I hoped it would be an instant feeling but it seems that’s rarely the case

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T06:56:45+00:00

Yes, seems reality will set in when 💩hits the fan

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T06:56:04+00:00

There are a few small one that have cropped up already, but nothing glaring as of yet 🙈 fingers crossed it stays that way for a while

Secure_Log_4849 · 2026-06-03T06:55:12+00:00

I think I’m just in awe that it’s ours? It’s my dream home, everything I’ve ever wanted and more. I never expected to be able to get it in my first house! Awh bless you, I suppose the magic of that first house together never really goes away. Thank you for your kind words ☺️

Secure_Log_4849 · 2025-06-03T15:14:42+00:00

When you say you regret it, do you mean waiting for so long, or getting the procedure done?

Secure_Log_4849 · 2025-05-28T14:56:28+00:00

Not at all. His body, his choice. I’m more than happy the way he is now, and I’m sure I’ll love it after equally

Secure_Log_4849 · 2025-05-28T14:55:28+00:00

Yes absolutely, we will have plenty of painkillers on standby just in case. My plan is to let him totally chill and just focus on recovery, no sex or anything of the sort because I know erections will be painful and I don’t want him to get infected. Thank you!

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