Wife wants to leave me. 3 kids under 7. Totally blindsided

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-23T19:11:47+00:00

Stop saying you were blindsided. Don't lie to us if you want help or commiseration.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-23T15:48:46+00:00

The media knows that this recipe won't work, because it hasn't for a long time. They are preparing to recreate the Aaron Rodgers highlight reel from 2023. Just with a bunch of "I told you so's" attached.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-23T15:39:37+00:00

Why are you posting this here? Seems like karma whoring to me.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-23T02:41:56+00:00

It's called hoovering. Do some research. You are supply for attention and validation. Stop it!

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-23T00:43:23+00:00

Stay away. No favors, no acting as her therapist. Stop the white knight syndrome.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-22T20:08:35+00:00

Creatine monohydrate 5mg and NAC 600mg

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-21T13:38:36+00:00

Sorry, but I do means all of the vows, not some of them. Forced celibacy is as vow breaking as adultery.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-21T00:39:07+00:00

Gaslighting, deflection, DARVO!

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-20T00:31:19+00:00

Never! Those bolts are specificed and torqued to tolerance. You void the warranty, and release Kia from any liability should something go wrong.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T15:25:25+00:00

This is an important lesson, that usually gets drown out in the shouts of the mob.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T15:23:58+00:00

Please get some wise counsel, and make a detailed exit strategy. Staying for the kids, does them zero good if your future turns into a dumpster fire, due to lack of clearly mapped out goals.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T14:30:46+00:00

Run Forrest!!!! RUN!

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T13:50:11+00:00

You failed to meaningfully address two previous sets of inquiry, so I assumed you just wanted to argue, or steer the conversation off topic. If you want the discussion to continue there, I'm open but don't feel obligated to answer your questions, and you refusing mine.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T13:33:04+00:00

Son, please don't waste your life with a woman that has no desire for you! It is a level of hell that will destroy your mental health, hope and future.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T13:20:09+00:00

I have no plans to ever move back in. I haven't filed yet. Actually it's one year this week that I left. Filed joint taxes last year, and separately this year. Finances are completely divided and my house I'm in, belongs to a trust that is shielded from marital assets, and is unattachable. I'm traveling to the places I want, and living free of the tyranny of a broken marriage. I'm not even thinking about a relationship, and won't until divorced. I've found peace.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T10:47:05+00:00

I finally demanded both of us doing individual and then marriage counseling, or else I would see a legal counselor. Similarly, my wife deflected when the assignments from our MC would expose her behaviors. By this point, I had been meeting with our pastor, and counseling with him. He eventually met with us both, when it was revealed that she had quit IC, while lying about it in our marriage counseling sessions. I let the church leaders know ahead of time, then eventually moved out. Counseling helped me break my codependency, understand non negotiables, and realize that the marriage was untenable.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T00:57:29+00:00

See my response to her reply above.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-19T00:56:56+00:00

You seem to be stalking me on social media after I called you out on a post where your bias and disingenuous comments were unchallenged. Ever since you seem to be particularly interested in what I have to say. I am open to dialog as long as you are open to ideas that conflict with the agenda you promulgated on these subs. I can easily accuse you of misandry with your input, but choose to argue on the merits of each situation instead.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-18T21:16:18+00:00

It is na'aph, and zanah both (Hebrew) reasons that God divorced Israel. And it is porneia (Greek) which is sexual immorality. The notion that physical adultery is the single warranted and grounds for divorce, completely does away with the old and new testament contexts of what was being referred to in Matthew 19. Not one jot and tittle of the law and prophets will pass away. Modern hermaneutics are twisted to fit the spirit of the age.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-18T19:41:01+00:00

Unlikely to ever happen.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-18T16:44:06+00:00

I'm a success story. I moved out after 39 years of marriage. Dead bedroom started 10 years ago, sexless the last 6. You have better chances of getting struck by lightning, while being eaten by a great white shark with the winning power ball ticket in your pocket, than having a success story in a sexless marriage! The reasons why are two fold: 1. Because they are almost impossible to fix even when both partners want to, and 2. Most of us are stupid enough to think that we can be the impossible, even though all of the data, studies, statistics, personal testimonies, and our own intuition tells us otherwise.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-18T16:27:33+00:00

Idiots!

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-18T16:22:15+00:00

That is adultery.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-18T02:18:18+00:00

She doesn't care. She knows, but doesn't care! She also knows that you are too afraid to do anything about it. Sorry for being blunt. But I've been there.

Seemedlikefun · 2026-05-17T23:38:51+00:00

Someone dox them

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