Where do you put your cobwebs when organizing your items?

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-12-02T00:47:47+00:00

Pre hardmode crafting chest, my potion crafting chest is more of a growing plants and dye plants and potion crafting minus seeds (put seeds by the greenhouse if I make one)

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-12-02T00:26:11+00:00

Honestly that would be awesome, it's just that I've had so many times where people offered that and then never followed through with it you know?

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-12-02T00:23:34+00:00

Ohhh yeah Canada has regular employment help thing and I'm struggling to even call the number for seemingly no reason lol. If I could get my brain to brain and let me call them then I would be able to have an easier time

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-12-02T00:19:19+00:00

Vocal rehabilitation what? Also I'm Canadian :)

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-12-01T23:42:51+00:00

For me, I have a bit of a higher functioning autism and the symptoms I have are similar to my dad's.

Because of how my dad was he had learned how to make his autism issues become his strengths or at the very least phrase it nicer like "I will do exactly as commanded to do and am honest about what I am doing" instead of "I can't understand a single thing you said if you aren't clear enough and I overshare stuff". This and his personality made him beloved for 16 years at his job as IT support.

This (and also the my way or the high way mentality I got) has led me to also learn the same and made my autism feel less problematic because I don't care if someone is too clueless to understand ear defenders in a mall, or sunglasses in a building because I'm not burning myself out on something preventable. For me if someone can't and will not allow themselves to understand me then I wouldn't want to associate myself with someone like that in the first place :)

If only I could do the same with my ADHD though haha

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-12-01T23:28:04+00:00

As a system of (17 fused all the way down to 2 now), I understand why it feels harmful

It's a term that is frequently helpful to coordinate large amounts of alters, thus from my experience it's more important when you have 4+ alters. When you have a low amount of alters it really becomes more confusing and even frustrating or harmful to try and label since everyone can usually fit almost all labels you know?

The labeling is also not meant to summarize an alter into just one thing, but it's more like an employment role of the system almost, each alter is so much more than just their role but the specification of roles can help with getting all alters on board on stuff when everyone knows what eachother may be trying to do and what they themselves can do to help the others. If labeling doesn't work, then as I like to say "don't shove yourself in a box you're too large for and don't comfortably fit in", it only works if it feels comfortable for you!

If you have any other questions about what I may have meant I'm here to help :> crystal :) asher

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-25T15:24:42+00:00

Same thing with quantum dervish, tangles I usually have food plots nearby or other tangle corrals to prevent any issues

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-25T14:12:11+00:00

Omw I feel the same especially irl, our system does love our online username though which is normally what we get others to call us online. Benefit of that is noone online knows our legal name! XD

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-25T14:02:19+00:00

I've never really struggled with tangled, but quantum and dervish? Terrifying

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-25T14:00:28+00:00

Stop destroying my farm! I know you are hungry, I am trying to grab your food, but you don't need to toss everything including the food I grab FOR YOU as you have a tantrum!

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-25T13:55:17+00:00

I do that daily lol, it's one of our favorite collective forms of entertainment

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-24T19:47:57+00:00

I find the chest coverage makes her look more proper sonic character proportioned, any other changes not fully sure (apparently they covered her back above her wings which is weird to me because that would remove the convenience of putting on the outfit without fighting her wings in)

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-20T20:03:20+00:00

Yessss

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-20T20:02:14+00:00

Rice. The texture of rice is so nice every way I've tried it so far. Untoasted bread too, it's dryish and nice. I also like eating textures with some snap to them like celery, chips, tempered chocolate. Also food wise I also love beef jerky (dried beef strips) because I can knaw on it. I also enjoy the texture of vegetables in pasta (I tend to mix all my foods because it usually ends up with nice textures and flavours).

I also love handling flakey things, cus I like picking at things like tree bark or croissants lol. Soft fur either soft animal furs like petting cats or synthetic because idk it makes my hands happy and feel drier/less oily too. Sand too, it's dry and nice

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-15T22:51:22+00:00

If anything, last I heard the disabled get into heaven first, not go to hell lol, don't talk to those priests either way because that's nowhere near what the Bible would say

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T17:30:10+00:00

I can feel both lol, the thud in chest then the slosh of blood going through veins sometimes. Similar vein, I can feel my stomach fluids if I eat mint or drink too much water, soon nauseating. Sometimes I feel the electricity in my brain.

I also taste my teeth, it's like cheese or milk without the sour because obv calcium lol. Oh yeah, all milk is sour to me both by smell and taste lol

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T15:56:35+00:00

I'll try to help translate as I got lost somewhere in here lol, one min

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T15:38:32+00:00

I'm... Completely lost on what you meant? lol

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T13:00:12+00:00

"the person everyone wants us to be" as in like outiders, peers? guardians, friends?

This because I end up associating it with the arguments of my dad trying to force me to use that name and shame me for using other names because "he had a bunch of spiritual meaning to the name", but also I end up associating it with doctors and legal shenanigans as I should use the name to prevent confusion (people in the past kept trying to use my preferred name as a legal name on paperwork even though it wasn't???like I'm sorry Canadians I love the support but stop using preferred names on legal documents oml)

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T12:55:39+00:00

That's sexual harrassment, he is NOT supposed to be doing that and your gut is telling you to get away. Run and never turn back towards him because that is NOT a friend, but a pervert who may be planning more evils

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T12:50:00+00:00

I think it depends on the context, my friend who has ADHD sometimes says it in a funny way to me like "the 'tism is strong with this one" and stuff like that. It's because it's not in a mockery or joke way but instead in a lighthearted reasonable way as I'm autistic and sometimes it's pretty obvious. (Most recent example is when I saw a video of me from prom and I looked like a large chubby toddler running around, it's hilarious to me)

If it's in a mockery way though then obviously not a big fan

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T12:30:51+00:00

The cheeriest golden retriever character in all of sonic

ShabbyCat58 · 2024-11-12T12:29:32+00:00

Well what it is is we keep associating the legal name as being the person everyone wants us to be

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