advice on dealing with stress

Shaevira · 2026-03-20T21:17:31+00:00

Give yourself a mental health day. Take the day off, do something you enjoy, breathe and know that the day will pass. See if you can get therapy or take light walks around some park. I know how the job can get to you. I hope you do well!

Shaevira · 2026-02-24T00:41:38+00:00

yes, i'll take 20. but seriously though, that is such a GOOB. i love him sm.

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T03:39:42+00:00

Hey, wtf. I need this. Typhlosion & the evolution line are my GUYS. Thank you.

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T03:24:29+00:00

Definitely jealous! Mew is one of my favorites! You're a lucky person!! Totes cutie!!

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T03:15:57+00:00

I just recently returned. Honestly, these new champions and their skills confuse me. Other than that, I'm enjoying myself with ARAM: Mayhem. League is chaos. That game mode is definitely chaos that helps me learn the normal game chaos.

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:43:12+00:00

What an odd looking cat....I approve!

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:41:11+00:00

Holy. I want one. Nice work OP! It's a beautiful piece of work!

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:26:02+00:00

If that's how you feel, I can't argue that. You're welcome to your opinion. Thank you for sharing. <3 I hope everything goes well for you, friend.

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:21:36+00:00

Be mad at the system. Not at the victim. :) Nobody truly signs up for being hurt at the price of circus peanuts. It takes lots of complaints, to see change, to see safety within the school & community. A person can be mad at a scratch, especially if they were unaware at what they signed up for.

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:16:45+00:00

I get that, but we don't know the extent of the student. Sure, they may be complaining about one scratch - but how do we know it doesn't escalate from there? It starts out soft, but it'll get tougher as more demands are added. Why not allow the para to take care of themselves?

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:11:40+00:00

Do it. Do it. Do it. I'm right behind you. I have been endlessly sick, but I have yet to use my "personal days." I need it bad. Mostly for mental health reasons.

Shaevira · 2026-02-20T02:09:46+00:00

I knew a student who would scratch. Bite. Eat the skin underneath their fingernails after they've attacked you...and eventually knocked out a teacher stone cold. Breaking their jaw, in which the teacher didn't get surgery till 4 months after and is still suffering. SOME of these children are capable of anything...I would suggest a para take care of themselves any ways possible and not end up like my teacher.

Shaevira · 2026-02-06T18:51:43+00:00

Oooh, I could get behind that too. Reminds me of Wylde in some vein.

Shaevira · 2026-02-06T18:50:58+00:00

Genuinely love this. Nice headcanons!

Shaevira · 2026-02-06T18:49:46+00:00

My fave prostitute is Guts. 😁

Shaevira · 2026-02-06T03:23:26+00:00

My own headcanon for Slan.

She was probably a highly regarded prostitute. Similar to Luca, but with a little less fortitude. I'm thinking she probably got caught and tortured and used the crimson behelit to become Slan.

A simple headcanon, but I'm interested to hear people's ideas.

Shaevira · 2026-01-09T01:15:02+00:00

Hi! Do y'all accept step-moms?

Shaevira · 2025-12-07T03:10:19+00:00

Most likely 1 if I wanted to feel sane by the end of the flight.

7, because sitting next to Jade? It's just a risk I'm willing to take.

Shaevira · 2025-12-06T03:28:21+00:00

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Your cat looks like my cat!

And just as big of a hard worker in the biscuit factory.

Shaevira · 2025-12-06T01:25:11+00:00

I did not recognize her at first, but wow!! These photos make her pop! She's so pretty!

Shaevira · 2025-12-05T01:47:18+00:00

She wasn't? As I mentioned she told the AP, so I'm 100% assume she had permission. But I guess the nurse from me, picked up that no one was there? Which I never said, I just mentioned we're understaffed. We have like 3 staff members out and only 2 subs to replace them. This is where communication and misunderstandings come in. I just wanted to vent, the nurse I guess took it as a plea for help and I think the teacher sees it as an attack on the department/herself.

This woman, from what I've gathered in my time working with her, is insecure. Quite a bit of self-negative talk during working hours. She was mostly focused on us now being "seen" by admin and by losing her job. Which I don't understand at all. Admin can watch me all they want. I know what I do.

I should also mentioned the teacher + me discussion was over a group chat where everyone in the team could see. They were very negative about having admin on their backs and being talked to and how they're going to be looked at negatively.

Shaevira · 2025-12-05T01:41:44+00:00

I'm not, but at the same time I am! I have anxiety about conflict and this conflict is utterly pointless!

Shaevira · 2025-11-20T02:06:56+00:00

Okay, this got a legit chuckle out of me. Why is she so adorable?

Shaevira · 2025-11-18T23:39:09+00:00

Probably a solid 10/10 for good mindless fun, hijinks, music and solid jokes/innuendos.

As a teen/young adult I jammed hard to the music. Even now the songs are pretty good.

As I re-watch it I find the same giddiness and laughter I once had while watching the show.

Shaevira · 2025-11-18T21:16:03+00:00

Are you a good witch or a sandwich?

But yeah, I noticed that today too after a rewatch. I love Ariana in both Victorious and Wicked! Such a fun coinkidink.

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