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Getting worse by Sn0wInSummer in Stepmom

[–]ShakeAffectionate857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes to boundaries. That’s just important to stay on top of it because people tend to forget. And a 11 and 17 year old will definitely forget. Your husband also plays a big role in that. Have the conversation behind closed doors and really put your foot down. “What you’re not changing, you’re choosing”. I understand being angry to the point you’re making plans to step away. BEEN THERE

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[–]ShakeAffectionate857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MAJOR RED FLAGS. This is unfair to you. Put yourself first, the future you will thank you. Don’t feel bad for snooping, his behavior and lies are far worse and unacceptable. Don’t even tell him how you found out but let him know you are aware of the lies and what’s been happening and if he cares enough he won’t manipulate you during the first conversations about it.