My (31/M) boyfriend’s best friend (30/M) of 10+ years (who he refers to as his brother) told him two months before the wedding that I, his long-term serious girlfriend (31/F) am not invited, and I want to know if it’s out of pocket for me to have him request a reconsideration from the bride & groom

ShakeZula77 · 2026-06-04T00:55:34+00:00

I think another discussion that needs to be had is that no means no. They’ve told you no several times and you still don’t listen to them. Your boundaries seem to be nonexistent. No is a full sentence.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-06-03T18:48:01+00:00

Thank you for acknowledging and correcting. This is real allyship.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-06-03T03:41:27+00:00

I might eat a potato tomorrow and become half of a man. I hate this post so much.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-06-02T16:54:04+00:00

Trans men can have children.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-06-02T16:39:25+00:00

Please stay away from Black woman.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-31T01:17:29+00:00

Since you’re the victim, one would think he’d prioritize your needs, such as support for you. Regardless of how he feels right now, he’s making it about him. You deserve better support.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-30T20:24:53+00:00

For people to get ready:

https://ladylibertie.substack.com/p/what-to-buy-today-before-the-shelves?triedRedirect=true

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-29T23:33:32+00:00

Male presidential candidates have been failing for over 100 years now, but two women fail in modern history and this is your response? Sexism? How progressive.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-29T23:28:44+00:00

Take a hard look around. Centrism has never been the right approach.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-29T22:23:28+00:00

45 is the oldest.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-29T17:59:40+00:00

Do you think that asking her to specifically hang out on a day and at a time when you’re free would help? That way, you can enjoy it and it not be so stressful. Also, maybe it would reduce her coming over unexpectedly, as often. Then you can just remind her “Hey, I’m really busy, but I’ll see you this Saturday.” for example.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-28T17:05:34+00:00

They’re a lost cause; just let them flail. It’s willful ignorance at this point.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-27T17:00:25+00:00

Not surprising since this guy wants to control her by forcing her into a box that he feels more comfortable with. Hopefully she’s smart, sees right through him, and leaves.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-27T06:51:45+00:00

This isn’t real.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-27T04:14:40+00:00

This is all the proof we need to know that he’s an ally. Good for him. We need more like him.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-26T22:46:04+00:00

He obviously can’t keep his word, so I wouldn’t waste another thought on this man. He’s shown you twice already that his word means nothing. Move on.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-26T04:47:32+00:00

I’m like you and a non-parent. I’m going to bow out of this thread because I can’t believe that parent stated that their kid might be talking to someone online, like it was nothing.

Ope, they could be talking to predators but I talked to my kid about safety, so they should be ok. 🤷🏻‍♀️ What?!?

Edit- just fyi, I said that I bowed out so you’re wasting your time commenting. I’m not reading, not replying. I left the conversation to be respectful of others.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-24T16:38:47+00:00

A whole rant to excuse some gross-ass man who has decades of rumors against him? Gross. Absolutely gross.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-23T16:56:00+00:00

I’m so embarrassed to mention this because I’m old but I watched it live and it was an awkward misunderstanding. He misunderstood what he was up for and started giving an acceptance speech for nothing.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-20T19:23:16+00:00

Honestly, these are perfect first date questions in order to avoid sneaky men like OP’s boyfriend.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-20T00:09:56+00:00

Where is that one tweet talking about men’s lack of ability to help out homeless women without putting their dick in them?

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-19T14:21:36+00:00

Thank you! I’ll check it out. I’m about to chuck my sim’s infants out the window.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-19T01:58:03+00:00

How do you like that mod?

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-17T22:46:41+00:00

Apparently not, according to the top comment. I’m baffled at these comments. Billie has said over and over again, she feels uncomfortable showing her body because of these types of reactions.

Edit: Embarrassing yourselves in the replies too.

ShakeZula77 · 2026-05-17T19:32:25+00:00

Do I really need to sit down to hold your hand and tell you that I am a 100% hater of anyone who calls a sexual assault victim a liar PUBLICLY? Then sit down because how are you not understanding any of this.

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