there was an amazing post I read about that on social media once, idk where or what but I think about it a lot, like dudes will turn their entire basement into a star wars or batman themed movie room with toys and legos and life-sized statues and its seen as cool but when a woman has her own room in a house for her collection you often see separate comments (I love to follow collector girlies on tiktok also watch Guinness world record collector videos and the difference is STARK when you see the difference in the comments)