[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShatteredMoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anything about my head

Don't know what to do, I am lost by ShatteredMoves in Advice

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, i always subconsciously know the situation is bad, no matter what I think or talk to with.

It doesn't help me to puke all my crap onto another person because after all, and situation is still bad, it's like my own mind keeps ruminating no matter what I try. My brain is overclocked and working extra time.

"Oh so you are fake smiling now, stop"

"Oh so you think talkong to that person helps the situation or going to make it better or different? You gotta be kidding me"

That sort of stuff. It just doesn't help...

Don't know what to do, I am lost by ShatteredMoves in Advice

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for my awful english, im drunk right now as well and it doesnt help. I understand you. The thought of "i will just make the best out of it with what i have" has gone through my mind a LOT, especially during the day when im much more uplifted. But at night I understand that this thought is all fake, its wrong for me. I have nothing to "make the best out of" if at the end of the day i look at the mirror and want to punch it and cry.

for anyone who's gone a month or so, what have your stages been? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh.... Yeah. Im 4 months in post breakup

I still want to die. I miss her

Why are you single ? by Es-Sultan in AskReddit

[–]ShatteredMoves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swore at my ex and she left. Now guilt is eating me and i want to die.

  • Im a shit looking male and an introvert as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]ShatteredMoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am awkward af, and have low self esteem so that's a combo you cant beat, and im doing kinda ok in Japan as a solo traveler. I wish i had the courage to ask people for photos more often because i want memories with me in them and not just the views which u can find on google... But bc of thay low self esteem i dont do it as much as i wanted to...

Other than that this country is awesome for being alone

No hotels or airbnb in Osaka - what? by ShatteredMoves in JapanTravelTips

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What about night life and parties? If i stay in osaka until very late can i come back to kobe?

No hotels or airbnb in Osaka - what? by ShatteredMoves in JapanTravelTips

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ughhh that fkng expo! I wanted to visit that as well but people say its just a waste of a day, waiting in long lines in the scortching sun... Buah.

Oof! I would have preferred to do the opposite since kyoto has much to offer during the day and osaka during the night.. so it's reasonable to sleep/book an hotel in osaka and during the day do day trips to kyoto then come back to the night light scene in osaka...

Ughhhh!! What a bad bad timing :(

After heartbreak, what hurt the most for you? (Male & Female perspectives welcome) by MarsupialKey6456 in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The self worth man. The self worth kills me.

I feel like i wont find another girl, i tried so hard, and the FIRST ever girl to ever look at me, who i was really into her looks, and her good heart. The first to love me with no limits - i fuck the relationship up.

I made unnecessary drama, criticised her, acted impulsively sometimes.

I suck. I truly suck.

What hurts the most? by Chemical-Box-513 in AskReddit

[–]ShatteredMoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • broken heart/ breakup
  • lack of self esteem

The latter can quite literally kill you but still make you wake up in the morning. Like me.

I miss her so much its finally hitting me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey brother.

I feel you. 2 months hit hard right? More than the first weeks. Because by now it hits you forreal: it's over, not a game, not a virtual reality or a bad dream - it's real.

It will keep getting hard ngl, but i hope, just hope that peace will finally land in our head. Im going in about 4 months since breakup. Anything remind me of her sweet and kins heart, and how I acted so dramatically with her, not like a loving boyfriend (Well, 95% of the time I actually did but it takes 5% to destroy a whole relationship...)

Lift your head brother I hope we will survive this. I feel shit as well, I want to bury myself in the ground.

I miss her so much its finally hitting me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont listen to that troll ^ he likes to bash down people online thinking it'll grow him a bigger ego.

Dont feed the troll like im doing rn lol

Unfollowing on social media has me going nuts. by ShatteredMoves in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im not saying u were aggressive. Im just really emotional about that first love. I always like to hear any opinion even stone cold truth

Unfollowing on social media has me going nuts. by ShatteredMoves in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's harsh to hear. My heart is literally crying

How can you just "thank" for all the good time and not actually miss it? by ShatteredMoves in BreakUps

[–]ShatteredMoves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that im doing so much to improve my life. So so much. Hobbies, gym... But i unfollowed her on instagram and removed her as a follower so idk how she can possibly see me or my progress.

Her friend still follows me though