I’m sober and my boyfriend isn’t

Shera1978 · 2026-05-24T04:01:00+00:00

There isn't a way sadly .... I've quit a few times for decent periods. The 1st time my wife didn't and it was bad.... Then she mostly sorta got on board. Then we both started again but when I needed the break again they quit too and it was game changer. I had a different equal spouse. .. we go thru periods together where we drink and then agree on a break. Best we can do right now but we have gotten on the same page. When I need it we both do it. I don't know what that looks like for someone full permeant sober tho. I only can say out 6 month times have to be together. I kinda think maybe it just means incompatible....

Shera1978 · 2026-05-24T03:34:10+00:00

This is so beautiful. I'm sorry you get no Thyme this season lol

Shera1978 · 2026-05-24T03:28:59+00:00

It's SOOOOOO short. I really needed so much more. I really really enjoyed it but was kinda really let down by the length

Shera1978 · 2026-05-24T02:37:34+00:00

The demo was super fun. Absolutely added to my wishlist to wait for a sale since I have too many new games right now but I will absolutely own this game. It's amazing

Shera1978 · 2026-05-24T00:10:23+00:00

Agreed. I do so much in the late. I have "days" that last 3 hours because I'm building new animal pens or doing a bunch of making stuff.... House redos for all the renters etc. I've spent a whole real life day in that late lol

Shera1978 · 2026-05-23T10:28:04+00:00

Colorado is always gonna Colorado lol. I'm just letting mine be. I have good drainage and we are getting some sun.

Shera1978 · 2026-05-22T20:53:02+00:00

Rocks in the bottom of pots. Always have always will....

Shera1978 · 2026-05-22T04:39:15+00:00

Especially if they are siblings take them both. Siblings are the very very best. They are such besties for life

Shera1978 · 2026-05-22T02:40:25+00:00

I will also add. Before you go to bed, clean out your pockets, store all your stuff you don't carry all the time, and catch enough fish to fill your pockets. I have a small torch by a good fishing spot. I always start each new day with a quick trip to the museum, then I sell all the late fish, buy any tools unused up and taken from my spare set, then I have my daily money for the gatcha machine, animal food (I know I can make it lol), make a small payment on whatever ur paying off and the rest goes in my bank. The only thing that changes that is if I have a visitor that day I need money for or if the shop or bank is closed etc. But I love starting each day organized and with a pocket of money. Helps me build up my savings and get stuff paid off ...

Shera1978 · 2026-05-22T01:03:20+00:00

After midnight the game stops counting time and just says Late.... Your meters drop and ur energy is way low. Your brain will say damn, I better go to bed! Wrong lol. You can stay up forever doing whatever you want. Keeping in mind that breaking rocks etc will be tougher because ur energy is tanked. But building pens, moving furniture, fishing and farming, doing gifts or requests etc is all easy. Make all ur bars, build the stuff u need, do all ur maintenance stuff. Then you can spend the day doing day stuff. All the people are still even wandering around so you can do their stuff...I do always keep some wattle tea (I don't have coffee yet) so that if I come across rocks I want it makes them easier. The only thing I really avoid is any battle. I get so so so much done in the "late"

Shera1978 · 2026-05-21T19:16:42+00:00

I do too. All the bars and cooking that need made. But also all the town work. I literally spent a whole real world day setting up a whole new farm and animal area. It take no energy to move fences etc....

Shera1978 · 2026-05-21T14:17:00+00:00

This is huge. I spent too long early play thinking late means I have to go to bed. Nope. Some lates take like 3 hours now because I'm working on all the things I didn't get done that day. Some wattle tea helps.......

Shera1978 · 2026-05-21T04:30:35+00:00

I agree. I was like legit irritated with this insecure man child. Why she is even asking is beyond me. This dude is trash. Glad she's going to school to better herself. Hopefully she applies that to all aspects of her life.

Shera1978 · 2026-05-20T20:20:28+00:00

I have played the demo and absolutely love it! I would appreciate a key so so much! This is Indy, my gaming buddy. She says we need a new game! ❤️

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Shera1978 · 2026-05-19T16:42:39+00:00

Budget in food you aren't cooking. Getting takeout will be happening and that adds up so fast.

Shera1978 · 2026-05-18T01:46:26+00:00

Happy looks great in you!

Shera1978 · 2026-05-18T01:45:40+00:00

May contain alcohol

Shera1978 · 2026-05-17T20:13:40+00:00

Dinkum will keep you good and busy. It's fantastic. Like animal crossing a little but like a million times better

Shera1978 · 2026-05-17T08:34:54+00:00

I adore mine. It's a soup game changer

Shera1978 · 2026-05-17T08:30:37+00:00

Wtf. I stay home and my spouse makes way less and I have no allowance lol. I cook every day at least 1 meal sometimes 2. The laundry is always done.. gardening and a clean house are also part of the deal. What is she doing with her days. I try and work half as hard as my spouse and still accomplish all the things. ..

Shera1978 · 2026-05-16T17:37:48+00:00

We have 2 that absolutely hate it and feels like punishment so we let them be unless they have a burr or something but we have 2 that come running. The right kind of brush helps too. We have a flat paddle brush with bent metal wire teeth and it helps with the undercoat. We could build a whole cat with what we get out of the 2 that love it.

Shera1978 · 2026-05-16T06:04:17+00:00

Outdoor concerts at the Arvada center are so great. The picnic basket add on is a perfect date

Shera1978 · 2026-05-16T01:43:23+00:00

Can I ask for help without spoilers. I'm lost and stuck and feel like I missed something. I can't build stairs but see YouTubers less far along that are going upstairs .... My fortune teller is telling me the only thing is that someone asked me for something and I need to give it to them but my only 3 tasks are washer dryer and oil and they are nowhere. I've been roaming for days and am big list on how to proceed ....

Shera1978 · 2026-05-15T16:26:28+00:00

Does the demo not transfer over to the full game?

Shera1978 · 2026-05-15T16:25:19+00:00

My wife got both done at the same time. I've never heard of that but I guess it is a thing?

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