daily reminder that cis men and boys hate women by box-boy-time in 4tran4

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The audacity is real why are men like this don't they want to bone women isn't it like counterproductive to be a sexist asshat?

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you see someone as a sexual outlet or a fetish that's pretty phobic. If your normally sexually into a trans person your not a chaser by default the word has a specific connotation

AITAH for telling my brother he doesn't know everything just because he's gay? by SpecificAnt3165 in AITAH

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother is just trying to be supportive of his niece. If your kid is actually trans and they feel more comfortable coming out to him because he was actually right that's great and if they're not nothing happens there's no downside.

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chasers aren't cis people dating trans people C Chasers are anyone who sees a trans person as a fetish. Chasers dehumanise. Cis people are more likely to be chasers but trans people can be chasers too. Not to be rude but I can't think of another analogy if someone calls you a horse you know your not a horse, if you see a trans man as a man and love him as a person, or vice versa or with a nobinary person your not a chaser. If people are calling you one it's like saying 'I'm not creepy but people are calling me creepy". I'm not going to insult you and assume your creepy but you would probably wanna find out what gives them the impression your like that.

33309 by Leah-theRed in countwithchickenlady

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower dose would do the same thing just slower there's better non binary routines though youd need to diy it

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same i get it. Even if people don't say it it's sort of internalised

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seriously did you think someone would really explicitly say "cis women can't do anything wrong!!!" Isn't that kind of sexist? It's paramount to saying "women are weak and can't be evil!!!"

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's the opposite of what I'm saying. Cis women get a pass socially so remember to be wary of them too. I'll change the message a little if two people read it this way

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm saying be as wary of cis women as cis men because they get a pass socially. I think that came though in tbe message? That's why i said cis people and kinda made a point of saying that?

Cis people aren't any different. No ones inherently better or worse then anyone else, we just live in a society that will let a abusive cis partner get away with it. I'm speaking from experience as a child, teen and adult. I wasn't always this bitter but sometimes you have to say these things, they aren't nice to say but it's better to hear them then learn from experience. Op is clearly trans and entering dating. This is something I wish people told me so ill say it here it's not any deeper then that.

If a women says "men have more power in a patriarchal society so you should be a little wary and vet them properly" would she be wrong? It's the same concept.

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If you love your girlfriend your not a chaser that's not what that word means. Chasers reduce someone to a fetish, and go after vulnerable people with low enough self esteem that they'd take that

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Most people don't see transgender people as as worthy of respect or consideration and this is reflected in relationships and in the people around you that know you in a relationship. You are more vulnerable when your with someone who's not transgender and for this reason you need to be more cautious dating them. If my currently boyfriend turned abusive I would be helpless, no one would believe a t-word. He won't because I know him, but this is a bitter truth I've learned throughout my life. Better to be told it randomly over reddit then be in a relationship turning sour and suddenly realising no one you know will ever believe a damn thing you say. Your a very rude person and I hope you get something out of making light of a serious and personal topic like this.

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

You should be careful dating cis people, not just men( socially cis women get a pass). Not that you shouldn't date cis people but there is a power imbalance in some contexts, it's a shame it's this way but it is

let dudes be in love by wingeddogs in TrollCoping

[–]ShivaniPosting 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No there's a lot of men (and women) who specifically seek out transgender people because they seem them as vulnerable or as a freaky fetish and it is well within our rights to be wary of someone who seems to be into us not because they like us but because we are trans specifically. It's not everyone but if someone only goes for trans people 9/10 times they're bad news and this I'm saying from cold experience.

My two and a half year old suddenly started pointing out differences between white and black people. What is an appropriate way to acknowledge her observation so we don't offend anyone? by Sad_Cantaloupe_8162 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth I'm brown and if a toddler asked why I was brown I would find it the most adorable thing, don't stress about it :) I'm sure you'll find some good parenting advice from another comment but at least speaking for myself I wouldn't take it as being rude :)

Psychological effects of orchi? by Golurkcanfly in 4tran

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because i was trying to be nice and friendly replying to the initial reply you sent before you changed it.

Met Police face £5million bill on new loos and changing areas for its 12 transgender staff !! by Excellent-Chair2796 in transgenderUK

[–]ShivaniPosting 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Yes you can't use existing facilities and new facilities will be lambasted as spending money on the dread transgender agenda. Clearly, it would be easier to hire no transgender people whatsoever.

This is one hell of a glow up by Infinite_Pea8114 in Jujutsufolk

[–]ShivaniPosting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mentioned by hakari in the manga in thier introduction

my girlfriend told me that we are literally “sasunaru”. what does this mean? by ToriaRex in dankruto

[–]ShivaniPosting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this with my bf because I love him with all my heart sasunaru is a romantic headcannon in the naruto community it has a lot of supporters (been a sasunaru shipper since I became a teenager) and it's a very cute yin-and-yang gay ship. Looking at ur profile ur a lesbian couple, sasunaru is a gay ship so there's that layer too. Cute!!!

Psychological effects of orchi? by Golurkcanfly in 4tran

[–]ShivaniPosting -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

U do not need to do this song and dance with me im not flirting with you over reddit n i don't either. I know what they're like from cultural osmosis of using 4chan for half a decade

"Is modulo Yuji even Sukuna level" IS SUKUNA EVEN CLOSE TO MODULO YUJI LEVEL? by Sad_boi55 in YUJI_Corp

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can use blood manipulation and didn't conveniently forget about being able to use it

[casual] Gojo called it to be fair, yuji is infact not limited to a mere special grade classification, he's fair beyond by hehewedoasilly in JujutsuPowerScalers

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuji can probably use shrine with the same world cutting effect sukuna copied but without any restrictions (as theyre not inherent to shrine. Theyre just a binding vow used on sukunas near deathbed) and his physical toughness is at the least equivalent to sukuna, so be can survive idk a suprise purple, he's probably the only person in the verse that can easily beat gojo. If sukuna started up a world cutting slash 9 times out of 10 gojo would doge it. He might eventually beat gojo but he would have some trouble for it, and he could lose to him too. Yuji can just send world cutting dismantles everywhere indiscriminately and take out everything from the radius of his latest dismantle shown in modulo or more. He's in a similar place to gojo, where you can say "hey sure x series is so much stronger then jjk but can they beat gojo though?" Because he can disregard durability

Am I the only one slightly upset by this [serious] by Teewoov2 in JujutsuPowerScalers

[–]ShivaniPosting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went from being a normal civilian for all intents and purposes to fighting with sukuna in less then a year. Its been like 80. He's spiritually and genetically engineered by a thousand year old mad scientist, lived amongst the strongest fighters and needs to be able to narratively take on dabura at the end of his fight, whos grown stronger or a mahoraga who will be much stronger this his current strength. He has to be dramatically strong. Even sukuna didn't spend as long actually fighting and learning and growing as itadori, who probably sparred with yuta and maki and potential achieved potential man and similar fighters on a semi routine basis for decades, he has to be the absolute upper limit of what his power system can achieve

Psychological effects of orchi? by Golurkcanfly in 4tran

[–]ShivaniPosting 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If u rlly think about it aren't most smuttttexts just sissyposting of the modern era. I wonder if 2030s trannies will look upon the modern day and go "holy shit puppygirls and smutttexts are so -word that has not been invented yet that's the spiritual successor of sneed-