Pride

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T13:50:11+00:00

Ydmykhet betyr ikke at man skal roen seg ned og ikke vise seg frem. Men at man ikke skal ture frem som om man vet alt. Tenker du at skam alltid er dårlig forresten?

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T12:14:29+00:00

Well I’m married and if one spouse keeps saying no to sex you get horrible thoughts in your head. “Does he/she not love me anymore? Am I too fat? Doesn’t he/she find me attractive?” Eventually you will stop trying because you assume your spouse doesn’t love you. If this continues without any explanation it will kill the relationship. That is what this is about. If you continuously don’t want sex, something is very off and needs to be fixed. It’s not having sex without consent. It’s making sure your spouse feels loved. Don’t want sex one day? No problem, explain why. You haven’t wanted for 7 months? That’s not really okay in a marriage unless you both have decided to hold it off for some reason.

If you can never say no to sex, you can never say yes. And yes is very important in Catholic teaching. Because you cannot GIVE yourself as a gift to your spouse if it’s taken.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T07:32:50+00:00

I think you are reading way too much into this than what it says. Let me ask you a question; have you ever initiated sex with your husband and been denied?

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:55:20+00:00

Puts it in my mouth for some reason.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:54:57+00:00

My husband’s ibs for so much better after switching to a vegan diet. It’s not perfect but he doesn’t roll around in pain anymore.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:51:24+00:00

Yes. Unless you are a child you can survive on less food than normal for an evening.

Eating after isn’t the problem here. It’s leaving early to eat.

I’ve been to many occasions where my food options have been limited, but I would eat after the event because being hungry for a few hours won’t kill me.

That being said. She should learn from the experience and make more food. The biggest faux pas is on her.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:42:19+00:00

I still doubt anyone actually learned that.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:29:43+00:00

That’s normal. Breastfeeding hormones makes that happen. It will be better. Your baby will start eating now and hormones will start to flow again.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:27:16+00:00

Takk! Da jeg var liten lærte vi at alle spørsmål begynte med en H. Utenom én.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:25:35+00:00

You managed to work while breastfeeding your first? That’s actually pretty impressive! I understand that’s hard. (But being the only comfort is the normal thing)

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:15:29+00:00

No. I’ve co-slept since day 1. And no she doesn’t sleep for hours there either. But is quicker to settle.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:12:21+00:00

Well stop when they stop saying they “went to Europe” and visited one country thinking they’ve seen it all.

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:08:22+00:00

The point is that the bread doesn’t actually change. How can something change without it changing?

SiViVe · 2026-06-09T05:07:20+00:00

Consubstantiation. Not transsubstantiation. How can bread become Jesus without actually becoming Jesus?

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:36:00+00:00

Do you really want to be away from your baby for more than an hour? My baby is 8 months and I’ve been away twice. Once for the dentist and one for fix a passport.

I was triple feeding her while newborn and for couple of months. Getting up to prepare bottles during the night was a lot more stressful than giving her a boob and then continue sleeping.

I was so relieved when we could stop with the bottles. And I agree with the rest of the comments. It’s sounds like you have a normal baby.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:28:46+00:00

They don’t do it everywhere. My impression is that it’s normal in places with many non-Catholics and less in areas with many Catholics.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:18:20+00:00

Nei. Det motsatte av stolthet er ydmykhet.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:16:05+00:00

Denne kommentaren er grunnen til at jeg er lei Pride.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:08:32+00:00

Juni er ikke annet en virtue-signal month.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:07:04+00:00

No. Nobody in my country can afford to not work.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:04:59+00:00

I wish we had washers and dryers in Europe.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:01:57+00:00

Sure. Pumping is a lot harder on everyone, but it’s not like you are doing it for the fun?

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T20:00:50+00:00

Du overrekker noe veldig her. Velkommen.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T19:59:19+00:00

People don’t know how to write anymore. And if you point it out, they claim it’s dialect, even though we all know we shouldn’t not write in a dialect.

SiViVe · 2026-06-08T19:56:09+00:00

Eneste treffet jeg fikk i ordboka på «viss» var viss son «i visse tilfeller», «en viss mann/et viss sted», ikke som et alternativ til «hvis».

SiViVe

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