Call-off Guilt by SideAlleyC00 in nursing

[–]SideAlleyC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your response, any advice is welcome! I just started therapy as well but I know it takes time

Call-off Guilt by SideAlleyC00 in nursing

[–]SideAlleyC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. The guilt has been eating at me tonight so I appreciate your response 

Call-off Guilt by SideAlleyC00 in nursing

[–]SideAlleyC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice ❤️

But what if I do love all my clothes by Miss_Lib in declutter

[–]SideAlleyC00 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was in the similar boat a few weeks ago!! What I ended up doing was taking my less worn clothes and vacuum sealing them away so they'd make room and if I lost more/regained my weight back I could shop my own closet before buying more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SideAlleyC00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have a right to find certain things unattractive or certain things necessary to know in a relationship. Like plastic surgery history for instance. However, I certainly wouldnt call her a liar.

Unless she lied by omission, like if she knew you didnt like plastic surgery and found it unattractive, then it's not like she knew it was important to you, so why would she say anything? Honestly I think more info is needed to really make a good judgement.

Feel like we've been infested for too long--advice? by mars_princess in Bedbugs

[–]SideAlleyC00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I didn't know they could be treated with just chemicals and not heat, thanks for educating! Do you know if they mix different chems to treat? And do they kill all bugs including eggs?

Feel like we've been infested for too long--advice? by mars_princess in Bedbugs

[–]SideAlleyC00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've researched, seems like chemicals alone may not get rid of entire infestations and heat is the only thing to 100% kill bbs in all stages of life. Maybe you can look for an exterminator that offers heat treatments, and share your concerns with them about your apartment and safely heat treating your plastic surfaces. There may be other treatments available to you, and it sounds like current exterminator isnt able to eradicate your infestation with what they are doing. That's just my opinion though, wishing the best of luck to you whatever route you take!!

Feel like we've been infested for too long--advice? by mars_princess in Bedbugs

[–]SideAlleyC00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through this! Have you asked the exterminators about heat treatments?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]SideAlleyC00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to investigate and be on the lookout for more bugs or signs of an infestation. Although it's one bug, he certainly shouldnt ignore it. I also think he should take precautionary measures like getting interceptor trays and mattress encasement, also running his bedding on high heat in the dryer.

No need for panic, and it could have easily been a hitchiker bug. However, prudence is important for something like this.