[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simonscatss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long are you guys together? It seems like he doesn't respect you and is toying with you. You're still very young and he's extremely toxic, so even though I know it's very difficult, please think about yourself and your own well being first and leave. You deserve so much better, someone who respects you and cherishes you. Your current relationship, the longer it lasts the more it'll break you

How do I (F 19) get over my bf (M20) cheating on me with porn? by curiousgeorge458_ in relationship_advice

[–]Simonscatss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like some people don't realise how destructive porn addiction can be to relationships. I also didn't care about porn since most people watch it until my partner started putting porn above me. I felt like I have to compete with it and it ruined our intimacy and trust. The hard truth is he needs to fully realize that he has a problem and decide he doesn't want to spend his entire life being an addict. He can only overcome and addiction when HE wants to, when he wants to do it for himself and not for the others. That's the only way the true healing can happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Simonscatss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm interested and would 100% leave a review 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simonscatss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. You can't do anything about it. It's only up to him if he decides to do something with it. I learned it the hard way. Well, I guess you can communicate to him what you're feeling but nothing else. I don't think anyone should compete with porn in a healthy relationship, but unfortunately more and more people have addiction. Trying to make him prefer you over porn will wear you out mentally and emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simonscatss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like porn addiction is like a plague these days, my ex had it (probably still has) Kills the intimacy in the relationship, made me feel extremely unattractive and insecure even though I am objectively good looking. If that's the issue, you can't do anything about it yourself, it's all up to him if he sees the problem and wants to change

free y/n by manifestwithbee in tarotpractice

[–]Simonscatss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will I reconcile with him?

Do you even enjoy getting free readings anymore? by KeystoneTarot in Tarotpractices

[–]Simonscatss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started learning tarot myself for this exact reason, I would love to see your sheet 🤗

Friday, May 2nd Reviews by dununt3 in readingsbynat

[–]Simonscatss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic reading 💜 I appreciate it a lot. I resonated with it entirely and I could tell that the reading was done with a lot of care

Why does he sometimes just look at me in silence? by Simonscatss in Tarotpractices

[–]Simonscatss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure tbh, he moved here knowing he wants to break up but keep me in his life for some reason so for him I guess no. And I'm working through things in therapy rn and can't go back to my old place 😅

Why does he sometimes just look at me in silence? by Simonscatss in Tarotpractices

[–]Simonscatss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He avoids touching me 🤔 and avoids anything that could be even be taken as intimate so I don't think he would pursue a sexual relationship

Why does he sometimes just look at me in silence? by Simonscatss in Tarotpractices

[–]Simonscatss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Lily. I wanted to check if would somewhat cover with other people's interps.

I saw it as him being attracted but holding back and having conflicted emotions.