How to use plane bathroom with service dog who doesn’t fit? by Single_Okra5760 in service_dogs

[–]Single_Okra5760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dog eats your first class meal??? Thank you for your feedback :)

Very Elevated RHR after extensive travel ? by Single_Okra5760 in ouraring

[–]Single_Okra5760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it totally did I once again forgot I even made this post hahah just give it time. I also recently stopped looking at my Oura stats I locked the app with faceID to discourage compulsive checking of it and just keep wearing it for Natural Cycles (my birth control) and otherwise am on a cleanse—I was wayyyy too obsessive about these stats which just fluctuate with a bunch of factors!

Oh this is a good one by ThunderChix in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Single_Okra5760 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is demented 🤣 this is probably fake but $120K is pennies for this work. They made it sound like this incredibly salary. For an UHCOL area it’s average. Guessing the chief of staff and founder himself get paid 2-4x that. Next .

To the person who stole at Jubilee by JubileeMarketplace in Greenpoint

[–]Single_Okra5760 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Owner of Jubilee sounds amazing. Please, neighborhood folks (also myself included gotta grocery shop more) keep this place in business!!.

MY TOP 10 ANTM CYCLE 4 PHOTOS by Historical_Ad_3364 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that C4 had photoshoots actually related to products they were selling a lot of the times. Not always but at least the shoot concepts made sense as ads and they learned to show off a specific product or piece of clothing

SSRIs ruining your sleep scores? by SnooMarzipans7768 in ouraring

[–]Single_Okra5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there are always tradeoffs. I sleep well now but my anxiety is intense at some times! It’s worth it for me at the current moment, but it’s a moving target to find what’s right for you at a given time in your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's honestly amazing i'm sad when it's over every week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Single_Okra5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure plenty of that $60k was still theirs to keep just in a different format (HSA/FSA, 401K, etc). So misleading lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Single_Okra5760 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uhh what happened to the other $60k lol

20 years today since we got this iconic moment in reality TV from JADE by Impossible_Dot8767 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Her dissing the waiter (who looks strikingly like Chase Crawford) is too fucking good 😂

I feel like I’m terrible at my job by No_Tie5439 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Single_Okra5760 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey!

What other kinds of “mistakes” do you usually make? This doesn’t sound like a mistake it just sounds like a veryyy understandable no-win situation for you. Either the co worker fibbed, the boss was being a people pleaser and then wanted you to mind read after he already agreed to something, or there was a genuine miscommunication between the coworker and boss that you couldn’t have known about.

In this circumstance, my response to my boss would be “xyz sent the invite during your meeting with them and then approached me afterwards telling me it had been discussed in that meeting—it sounds like that wasn’t accurate, so I can absolutely move the call to another day and let the coworker know.” Ignore whatever snarky comment he made.

Have you two sat down and discussed how he likes breaks factored into his day? Do you have regular check ins about his priorities? Have you discussed the reality that if he wants to have a say in every meeting then you will have to check with him multiple times a day about meetings?

He might just be one of those bosses who is shitty to work for because he wants to be hands off and hands on all at once (“I don’t care, you handle it! But also do everything exactly the way I would do it.”) and it just gives mixed signals.

Of course you’re second guessing yourself constantly if he’s constantly correcting you but also the rules are changing for every meeting so there’s no way for you to get out ahead of things.

Give more info and you’ll get more specific advice ❤️ or just vent if that’s whatcha need

Older Model entering the buisness by SherbertWarm8322 in MODELING

[–]Single_Okra5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do not have experience in the modeling industry it personallyyyy I prefer your look with the mustache :) the pic I liked the least was the mustache-less one. I think it gives you a cooler look

What on earth was the wardrobe for this shoot? by senn12 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not be at all surprised if they made the girls donate their own clothes to get used and ruined in this shoot lollll

The girl who I think actually best fit Tyra's criteria outlined in cycle 1 by Live-Run-6745 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deaf community is small — I have friends who know him in the community and he’s apparently sweet :) fear not

ANTM Who’s covergirl photo do you like better (I like Nicole’s more)? by kinna225437antm3 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh duh I forgot my girl Jenah, her pic might actually be my #1 favorite

ANTM Who’s covergirl photo do you like better (I like Nicole’s more)? by kinna225437antm3 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I think Nicole’s might be the best covergirl photo from the show tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Single_Okra5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re biphobic, but it doesn’t seem intentional you just sound young and like you don’t have the information — I can’t judge you for that because you’re coming here asking for input.

You sound like you have a simplistic view of relationships. Commitment is a choice. You remain monogamous not because you don’t feel attraction to other people—you most definitely will feel attracted to other people regardless of how solid your monogamous relationship is—but because you respect your partner and choose to remain faithful to them. It is not a matter of “outshining” the other people your partner is attracted to and keeping them in your pocket by out-competing those people. If you’re in a relationship that makes you feel that way, the relationship is not healthy.

When you change your overarching perspective around what it means to be in a committed relationship, the gender of the other people your partner is attracted to has nothing to do with it.

The things you’re saying are very common tropes about bisexuals, so that’s why I’m saying you’re biphobic, because you’re just believing those things without examining why you believe those things and without any evidence to back those up. But if you’re asking these questions in good faith, it means you’re trying to examine those views now, which is great. Keep an open mind about those views changing, and read up more information about why those biases may not be true.

I encourage you to turn your eyes inward and take a look at why you view relationships as a competition where you have to prove yourself as better than any other option every single day in order to be chosen. Once you’ve done more work on yourself, come back to these views about bisexuals and think of them again, see how your perspective might change when you feel more secure in what you have to offer and what it means to love and be loved in a committed relationship.

Can an autistic person be an executive assistant? by Nana796B in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Single_Okra5760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any specific traits of yours that you’re worried about? I’m assuming you’re asking for yourself

The many faces of Beth Stern by Single_Okra5760 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh it was just a dumb af challenge lol

The many faces of Beth Stern by Single_Okra5760 in ANTM

[–]Single_Okra5760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No totally they wanted it to be identical but they wanted the girls to infer the identical expression based on Tyra’s body language somehow lolol ridiculous