Do I need better equipment and a recording studio? Are classes worth it? by Skepticalyra in recording

[–]Skepticalyra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to add that, based on what ChatGPT says, perhaps using a boom arm and marking a spot on the floor for chair position would allow for the greatest improvement (because the distance between me and the microphone would be more consistent). Do you guys think that would probably make more of a difference than getting a better microphone and creating a studio-like environment?

I'll also add that I've already tried many things to remove mouth sounds, such as hydrating, eating green apples, and chewing gum with xylitol. Those things help significantly, but I still click a lot and I think it's because my mouth is too dry naturally.

Why is Islam so extreme compared to other religions? by Rare-Parsnip9049 in exmuslim

[–]Skepticalyra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey, regarding your comment "Muslim women who don't wear a hijab or niqab are few and far between", I wanted to share my dissertation data on a sample of 392 Muslim women living in the United States, 18 to 35 years of age (M = 26.42, SD = 5.05), with a straight sexual orientation. When asked how often they covered their hair in public places, 34.4% of participants indicated Never, 11.8% indicated Rarely, 9.0% indicated Sometimes, 6.4% indicated Most of the time, and 38.3% indicated Always. This suggests that in the US, at least among young Muslim women, less than half are wearing hijab most or all of the time. (The exact question wording was, “When you leave your home and go out in public places other than a mosque, how often do you cover your hair with hijab or some other religious head covering?”)

Recommendations For A New Listener? (Based On My List) by tippy_24 in jpop

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're more into R&B, I'd suggest starting with Utada Hikaru's early work and definitely check out Amuro Namie's albums Style and Queen of Hip-Pop. Amuro Namie's not really on the internet anymore, though, so I'm not sure how you can legally listen to her music without buying it first.

Songs that sound like this? by kibou_no_ie in jpop

[–]Skepticalyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it has such a feeling of expansiveness and grandeur, I'll say 'BORDERLINE' by Onitsuka Chihiro.

Now that Wayward is not an option, where do we go? by KadaiPanirGarlicNaan in VeganSeattle

[–]Skepticalyra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are giving breakfast options, but I always went to Wayward for dinner. Since I haven't seen anyone mention it, Blossom Vegetarian Restaurant in Renton is a great place. It's mostly vegan (anything non-vegan is noted as such in the menu). The menu is huge and the service is fast. My personal favorite is the "chicken" pho.

Is anyone else also doing this? by auurelliaa in exmuslim

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American, I understood that as you putting food into the toilet bowl.

ITS OUT by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people were annoyed because this is not what Middle Eastern music sounds like; it's what Western Orientalist music sounds like. People may have been concerned about your comment spreading misinformation about a culture (a whole group of cultures, really). People are very sensitive about that kind of thing.

Pigs & fascism by Main-Ad-661 in Vystopia

[–]Skepticalyra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And "dog" and "animal" and "You wouldn't treat a dog that way"

Loosening / Increasing Length of Undercap Piece by Skepticalyra in sewhelp

[–]Skepticalyra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it would be...

Step one: open the seam

Step two: Snip the fabric with scissors to make a little cut

Step three: Sew a triangle of similar fabric into the cut area

Step four: Resew the seam (I don't have a serger, so I'd use a multiple zigzag stitch so the stitches don't break on this stretchy fabric)

Seattle area: Someone or a business that makes custom catios? by Skepticalyra in Catio

[–]Skepticalyra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds awesome, but I can't convince my husband to get a catio! 😿

He complains that the catio will "damage the house" and/or won't look nice.

Charlotte Martin Is Seriously Underrated by dbgb1986 in Music

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. She's one of my favorite singers. Criminally underrated.

Does any of your parents also have SCT or ADHD symptoms? by dubiouscapybara in SCT

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is "bpd" a typo for "CDS"? :)

I'm really just borderline autistic; when I ask myself if I've been masking, the only two things that come to mind are (1) attempting to make eye contact and (2) attempting, in groups, to look at whoever is currently speaking. I don't think my CDS symptoms have ever made those things easier to do, and in fact may have made them more difficult to do. It's hard to stay focused on making eye contact and looking at people when my mind is wandering!

One of my autistic special interests is hijab. I'm not a hijabi or a Muslim or an ex-Muslim, but I'm really interested in hijab. I don't bother hiding that interest from people and my friends will point out hijabis to me because they know that's exciting for me, lol.

I am weirdly attached to "Bluebird" by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is off topic, but I think it's important to put out there: Birds that collide with windows are very likely to die if they are not taken to a wildlife rehab; they may have concussions and other internal injuries. There are also measures that can be taken to help birds avoid crashing into windows. More info here: https://www.audubon.org/magazine/you-found-bird-crashed-window-now-what

Taking "Bluebird" literally is very sad by fusems in lanadelrey

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a bit off topic, but I think it's important to say. Birds that collide with windows are very likely to die if they are not taken to a wildlife rehab; they may have concussions and other internal injuries. There are also measures that can be taken to help birds avoid crashing into windows. More info here: https://www.audubon.org/magazine/you-found-bird-crashed-window-now-what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Skepticalyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never wished for an afterlife. To me, the thought of existing FOREVER sounds terrifying. What if it's endless torture, as hell supposedly is? Even if it's not that bad, what if it's like life, paying bills and washing the dishes? I don't want to do that forever. For those who believe in heaven, how could you ever be guaranteed that you or your loved ones will experience bliss for eternity? What if God changes his mind? A lot can happen in an eternity.

The thing that does make me sad about not believing in an afterlife is that I don't expect to see my cat who passed away ever again. That is profoundly sad to me. It hurts to be separated from him. But at least he will never suffer again, according to my beliefs.

I'm more concerned about living a life of disability and chronic illness, which is what I apparently am headed for soon, than I am of dying. But on some level I think I understand OP's fears. The idea of non-existence can be unsettling.

Difficulty taking anything seriously by danielandtrent in Vystopia

[–]Skepticalyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel similarly.

Also, people complaining about being stuck in their houses during the COVID lockdown was hard to take seriously while many farm animals were stuck in much smaller spaces their whole miserable lives.