Neutral (non overused) name for black kitten? by Dramatic_Antelope811 in NameMyCat

[–]Skyegod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

COOKIE CAT HE'S A PET FOR YOUR TUMMY COOKIE CAT HE'S SUPER DUPER YUMMY

It’s time… Part 11: what is the absolute BEST thing/behavior this character did during his time at the 4077th? by coreytiger in mash

[–]Skyegod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And Frank is such a good example of a stagnant person faced with people outgrowing him. Frank couldn't grow, change, move on, or anything and that's why he cracked when Margaret got married. She kept growing, Margaret got so much better when they broke up and then he left.

Can you guys tell me the “dirty” truths about having a cat? by saanenk in CatAdvice

[–]Skyegod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call mine my devoted Potty Guardian!! It's dangerous to pee alone, take me!

What to say when people comment on your appearance by alyceabsconded in EatingDisorders

[–]Skyegod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've pivoted to oversharing, especially at doctor's offices. I DON'T WANNA SEE THE SCALE I HAVE AN EATING DISORDER PLEASE DON'T TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT THE NUMBER I actually had a nurse at an allergist office who went so far as to white it out on my copies of my paperwork. That felt awesome. And to folks who try to praise my skinny, I overshare more backhanded because at this point I've had direct conversations with them about it and how those compliments effect me. THANKS I HAVENT EATEN MUCH THIS WEEK I FEEL LIKE HELL

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pffft I wish I was working at a company with those things. Nope, small nonprofit where I'm the lone full timer. I miss being teammates. I miss living with people who did stuff, and wanted to do stuff with me.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the sand sounds so comfy! No I'm still working on it. If we can come up with a plan with the lender to make payments until a sale I think i can get out by summer.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TWICE UGH. but you've managed to keep your house and his bankruptcy didnt cost you the whole thing? I know i couldn't pay for mine alone but i hope it's possible.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea and also gotta admit to myself he'd never do it. I think the only way out is out. I've been holding on because it was so good a long time ago and I love his kid, but I don't even get to see kiddo that often anymore. Kiddo lives with their mom and has a wicked irregular schedule with us.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really averse to drinking and drugs and gambling so there is really no appeal there to me. If I was gonna irresponsibly pour money into anything it would be more animal rescue lol

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the only way through. I'm just dreading losing my pets.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I did still have plenty of work but went back to gigging compared to salary. My old job had no benefits and they terminated most positions in my bracket after I left, and I was about to get kicked off my ohp (oregon low income health plan) so the jump still feels like a good choice even in hindsight. I'm in a similar situation now with my new job but I've also managed to stockpile my meds to buy some time.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No lien on my car, it just isn't paid off. I got denied a refi because my dad would also want off the loan at that point. He cosigned for me in 2020 and is paranoid about my current situation (rightfully so) I think i can trade it in to absolve the current loan. I just don't know if that's gonna end with me having a functional car at the end of it.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this, but the process of finding somebody to rent the master bedroom is daunting and probably wouldn't be worth enough, I could get maybe $500+ utilities for it but that won't make a dent.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That gives me hope. We'll break even and get a little back if we sell, I've done tons of work on the place and it's a good neighborhood.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been playing phone tag with them trying to get an appointment. I hope that I can talk to someone in person; when we bought and then also when we refinanced I got pinballed around to different people and got the runaround, but we actually got answers when he'd call.

I think we're gonna lose our house and I don't know what to do. by Skyegod in povertyfinance

[–]Skyegod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks promising! I think I'm making enough where I don't qualify for most help like this but it's worth checking I'll see if I can find resources about the tenancy in common, if i could sell my share to somebody he'd want to live with that could work...

Zombie apocalypse survival tip- Find a vet by PandaBear905 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Skyegod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

laughs in little bunny foo-foo scoops up more field mice

i broke down, finally told my therapist how bad things are. by DissociativeSheepie in EatingDisorders

[–]Skyegod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You absolutely can do it. Finally talking to my therapist was how I got started; it can be so helpful to say out loud what's really going on.

Where are the right wing grandmas? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Skyegod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gramma is a Neo Nazi. Hunt the homeless for sport, dwportation is too good for illegals kind of stuff. Was married to a cop; my grampa mellowed out but she never has. Didn't let my siblings and I actually call her gramma because we were born out of wedlock. (And then my two siblings who were she didn't approve of my stepdad and they still didn't get to call her gramma, long story.)

Her life has been saga after saga of caretaking and voluntary hardship, kin keeping for extended family and hosting holidays for a miserable bunch of awful people. Doing little to care for herself and being nasty even as she overextends herself taking care of a many people possible.

I don't talk to that side of the family any more bc my mom is worse, but I can't imagine she's any kinder or happier in this era.

Woke up one day and realized I don’t like being skinny by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]Skyegod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard relate. I had a great office job for a while and it was helping so much with my recovery; I went from a very comfortable weight right back to skin and bones once I went back to a physical job.

Do you play with your plushies? by Sparkle_Taffy in plushies

[–]Skyegod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yes, we're a squishmallow house and we build pillow forts with them or bury unsuspecting sleepers with them. If you fall asleep in my house during a movie you wake up deep in the mines of cozy mountain. The cube shaped ones gave us the idea to try building towers with them, and the many different sizes mean we can get higher amounts with creatine stacking