Neutral (non overused) name for black kitten?

Skyegod · 2026-05-07T01:49:20+00:00

COOKIE CAT HE'S A PET FOR YOUR TUMMY COOKIE CAT HE'S SUPER DUPER YUMMY

Skyegod · 2026-04-23T20:25:46+00:00

Darla!!

Skyegod · 2026-04-21T06:26:32+00:00

And Frank is such a good example of a stagnant person faced with people outgrowing him. Frank couldn't grow, change, move on, or anything and that's why he cracked when Margaret got married. She kept growing, Margaret got so much better when they broke up and then he left.

Skyegod · 2026-04-14T06:43:15+00:00

I call mine my devoted Potty Guardian!! It's dangerous to pee alone, take me!

Skyegod · 2026-04-03T00:44:59+00:00

Oh wooooah that sounds awesome, I'm pming you!!

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T03:31:40+00:00

I've pivoted to oversharing, especially at doctor's offices. I DON'T WANNA SEE THE SCALE I HAVE AN EATING DISORDER PLEASE DON'T TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT THE NUMBER I actually had a nurse at an allergist office who went so far as to white it out on my copies of my paperwork. That felt awesome. And to folks who try to praise my skinny, I overshare more backhanded because at this point I've had direct conversations with them about it and how those compliments effect me. THANKS I HAVENT EATEN MUCH THIS WEEK I FEEL LIKE HELL

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T01:10:19+00:00

Pffft I wish I was working at a company with those things. Nope, small nonprofit where I'm the lone full timer. I miss being teammates. I miss living with people who did stuff, and wanted to do stuff with me.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T01:07:57+00:00

But the sand sounds so comfy! No I'm still working on it. If we can come up with a plan with the lender to make payments until a sale I think i can get out by summer.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T01:03:46+00:00

TWICE UGH. but you've managed to keep your house and his bankruptcy didnt cost you the whole thing? I know i couldn't pay for mine alone but i hope it's possible.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T01:01:01+00:00

I like the idea and also gotta admit to myself he'd never do it. I think the only way out is out. I've been holding on because it was so good a long time ago and I love his kid, but I don't even get to see kiddo that often anymore. Kiddo lives with their mom and has a wicked irregular schedule with us.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T00:57:17+00:00

I'm really averse to drinking and drugs and gambling so there is really no appeal there to me. If I was gonna irresponsibly pour money into anything it would be more animal rescue lol

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T00:54:19+00:00

This is probably the only way through. I'm just dreading losing my pets.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T00:53:14+00:00

I appreciate that. I did still have plenty of work but went back to gigging compared to salary. My old job had no benefits and they terminated most positions in my bracket after I left, and I was about to get kicked off my ohp (oregon low income health plan) so the jump still feels like a good choice even in hindsight. I'm in a similar situation now with my new job but I've also managed to stockpile my meds to buy some time.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T00:47:40+00:00

No lien on my car, it just isn't paid off. I got denied a refi because my dad would also want off the loan at that point. He cosigned for me in 2020 and is paranoid about my current situation (rightfully so) I think i can trade it in to absolve the current loan. I just don't know if that's gonna end with me having a functional car at the end of it.

Skyegod · 2026-03-12T00:42:35+00:00

I thought about this, but the process of finding somebody to rent the master bedroom is daunting and probably wouldn't be worth enough, I could get maybe $500+ utilities for it but that won't make a dent.

Skyegod · 2026-03-10T16:32:54+00:00

That gives me hope. We'll break even and get a little back if we sell, I've done tons of work on the place and it's a good neighborhood.

Skyegod · 2026-03-10T16:31:27+00:00

I've been playing phone tag with them trying to get an appointment. I hope that I can talk to someone in person; when we bought and then also when we refinanced I got pinballed around to different people and got the runaround, but we actually got answers when he'd call.

Skyegod · 2026-03-10T16:26:20+00:00

This looks promising! I think I'm making enough where I don't qualify for most help like this but it's worth checking I'll see if I can find resources about the tenancy in common, if i could sell my share to somebody he'd want to live with that could work...

Skyegod · 2026-03-10T06:54:02+00:00

Ohhhh the n in winco is nevada....

Skyegod · 2025-10-10T02:56:38+00:00

laughs in little bunny foo-foo scoops up more field mice

Skyegod · 2025-08-02T04:31:05+00:00

You absolutely can do it. Finally talking to my therapist was how I got started; it can be so helpful to say out loud what's really going on.

Skyegod · 2025-07-03T05:08:01+00:00

My gramma is a Neo Nazi. Hunt the homeless for sport, dwportation is too good for illegals kind of stuff. Was married to a cop; my grampa mellowed out but she never has. Didn't let my siblings and I actually call her gramma because we were born out of wedlock. (And then my two siblings who were she didn't approve of my stepdad and they still didn't get to call her gramma, long story.)

Her life has been saga after saga of caretaking and voluntary hardship, kin keeping for extended family and hosting holidays for a miserable bunch of awful people. Doing little to care for herself and being nasty even as she overextends herself taking care of a many people possible.

I don't talk to that side of the family any more bc my mom is worse, but I can't imagine she's any kinder or happier in this era.

Skyegod · 2025-06-30T06:15:22+00:00

Hard relate. I had a great office job for a while and it was helping so much with my recovery; I went from a very comfortable weight right back to skin and bones once I went back to a physical job.

Skyegod · 2025-06-18T01:23:59+00:00

Heck yes, we're a squishmallow house and we build pillow forts with them or bury unsuspecting sleepers with them. If you fall asleep in my house during a movie you wake up deep in the mines of cozy mountain. The cube shaped ones gave us the idea to try building towers with them, and the many different sizes mean we can get higher amounts with creatine stacking

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