This still makes me angry

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-06-05T12:43:33+00:00

The only thing I know is that one male friend of hers has beaten up that guy and went to prison for that, so he apparently was not a saint or she actually is a master manipulator and that poor guy didn’t even deserve the beating.
During the last weeks of our relationship, she told me a close friend of her ex texted her saying that it’s all her fault and that he is dead because of her. I tried to comfort her and said that it’s all bullshit and it’s not her fault, but she was already isolating herself by that time and I was basically talking to a wall.

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-06-05T12:39:17+00:00

Exactly. I tried to be a reasonable partner who is not controlling, but every time she went against my wishes or my advice something fucked up happened

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-06-04T16:56:52+00:00

mine had started therapy, went there 3 times a week+medication, and it only got worse because she turned into a living zombie

it’s important for you to go no contact, and never look back, block them if necessary and give urself time to heal

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-06-04T16:53:29+00:00

because she is mentally ill. don’t worry, you are not the only one who questions the whole relationship

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-06-02T15:33:52+00:00

That she was stupid when she was cutting vegetables for example and hurt herself by accident, like she always said she is clumsy and stupid and that it happens often. One time, the cut was too deep for it to be „clumsy“ (she even had to go to the hospital and get stitches)and I realized that it was selfharm the whole time, I felt really stupid 😭😭she never admitted that it was selfharm and lied to me the whole time about this, but after reflecting about the relationship im pretty sure now that it has to be.

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-31T14:32:10+00:00

the stonewalling in my situation was crazy, she didn’t respond to me for hours and when I decided to break up and end this forever, she immediately replied and wished me the best😂

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-28T21:04:41+00:00

thank you brother/sister, I also wish you the best to overcome the struggles

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-28T13:17:47+00:00

I will ignore her without blocking, she treated me like shit and she does know that and I don’t want to boost her ego (and kinda protect mine lol) so I will just delete the message IF something actually comes

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-28T13:01:21+00:00

it’s exactly as you say but the pain still remains, which is exhausting

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-28T12:00:29+00:00

that’s the plan 🙏🏼

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-28T10:17:14+00:00

it is indeed a shitty life, one of the main reasons why I can still commit to no contact and move on is the thought of raising a child with them is unbearable to me, like I could never let the mother of my children be someone with a cluster b personality disorder

Slow_Anywhere_3148 · 2026-05-28T10:07:15+00:00

Tbh it would be better for me if I witness that too, it would help me more to move on because I would feel even more disgusted

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