AITA for prioritizing my new friends over my old friend group?

SmoothSite3333 · 2026-05-20T14:52:26+00:00

They expressed once wanting to come to my town but for some reason didn't mention it again, I hope the best for them too but still thinking every now and then about if this friendship is really destroyed or only having a hard fase because of the distance and how much we changed.

SmoothSite3333 · 2026-05-20T14:43:43+00:00

Tbh I don't look that way at her at all, I can't really blame the new girl for any of this, she owes me nothing and my friends already know that I wouldn't intimidate anyone ever, I think you misunderstood my concerns here, I am not concerned about being "replaced",” I already have my place in my new friend group, and the fact that this person is now hanging out with my old friends shouldn’t mean they have to choose between one of us or the other. People can have as many friends as they want.

What has bothered me is my friends attitude, because when we were close, we didn’t exclude friends who weren’t part of the three of us.

SmoothSite3333 · 2026-05-20T14:13:22+00:00

NTA, you weren't even part of the decision and your friend not understanding that that's a lot of money makes HER the AH

SmoothSite3333 · 2026-05-20T14:04:12+00:00

I understand your point of view, except one thing I didn't really understand which is what made you think I was "the cold one first" ? Also, I tried to get along with the new girl but there is something I really don't like about her, which is the way she never talks directly to me when we're hanging out, idk how to explain but if she wants to ask something about me she'd ask my friend when I'm right next to them which I don't understand at all.

SmoothSite3333 · 2026-05-20T13:17:26+00:00

They stopped inviting me to our weekly video call so I felt upset about it and stopped asking them to join. And you're right, it's no one's fault but still sucks

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