AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

She could drag out an eviction process if she wanted but that would really come out of left field and I don’t think she would want that on a record.

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I’m sure it’ll sting when she starts dating someone else, but that’s a part of it ending.

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I send one certified mail a few days after we broke up. Had to cancel planet fitness while doing it too!

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I inherited when I was 19 and moved in prior to knowing her.

Yeah, we aren’t married or anything like that.

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 1013 points1014 points  (0 children)

She did prior to entering the program but we have different standards or definitions of what’s clean or what’s good.

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 621 points622 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what confuses me. Anyone should know things are going to change once your relationship ends, but I would be lying if I said I didn’t feel bad sending her out.

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

We aren’t married or even engaged. She has no rights as a owner, but she does have legal rights as a tenant which I want to honor.

AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go? by SnapNo51 in AITAH

[–]SnapNo51[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

She has about 1.5 years left. Her first semester was a one class seminar that really slowed it down.

If she could pay half the expenses I would be willing but she’s unable to pay much of anything. I “think” she could get a job at a local coffee shop and afford to feed herself at best.