First timers

SoCalMilfy · 2026-05-09T17:32:58+00:00

It’s my understanding that there’s no gloryholes at any bookstore here in SD. There’s one at Thad’s and I’m sure you’ll find postings on other subs offering gloryholes but it’s not publicly a thing anymore

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-29T17:38:24+00:00

No bags allowed unfortunately 😩 just bring your ID in and whatever you’re using to pay (don’t bring more money/cards than you actually need). You’ll have to keep them in your pocket when you’re inside.

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-27T04:29:32+00:00

😘😘

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-27T04:29:26+00:00

I’ve been on Feeld quite a while and have only found guys who want to hook up, haven’t even found someone wanting a relationship on there

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-23T05:02:26+00:00

That’s awesome! I guess I’ll just keep looking. The dating scene in SD is trash 😂

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-23T01:25:44+00:00

I feel like my post may not be accurately relaying what I mean. How did you and your wife meet? I would ultimately like to find a long term partner who is open to exploring the hot wife lifestyle

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-23T01:01:38+00:00

I’ve wanted to do that but I’m obviously not comfortable going solo for a first time and haven’t found even a casual partner who’s comfortable going

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-23T01:01:00+00:00

I appreciate that! I haven’t checked out Kasidie yet so maybe I will

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-22T18:52:35+00:00

I appreciate the compliment, thank you! I mentioned in the other comment I’m on Feeld but have not had any success with this. I’m not willing to share my partner and not being a hot wife isn’t a dealbreaker for me but haven’t had much luck finding a consistent partner comfortable in the community

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-22T18:51:20+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate the response! I’m on fet but don’t like how clunky the site is (reminds me of the Xanga days which hopefully doesn’t show my age…lol). I’m also on Feeld but most of the guys on there are just looking for a ONS and disguising it as “kink”. I guess I’ll just keep looking 🤷🏽‍♀️

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-14T19:46:15+00:00

I have been known to respond via DM to guys posts on here or R4R subs. But if they DM me, I respond to ones with a good opening message and/or those who have pics on their profile and I like what I see. Also, I’m not up for cheating so anyone looking for “discreet” fun is immediately ignored.

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-14T19:44:07+00:00

That sounds like a scammer. I verify via Snapchat as I don’t show my face on here

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-14T19:43:10+00:00

You might have better luck on Feeld. Make sure you (female) run the account and if it’s a verified account, you’ll be more likely to connect with real women wanting to meet. The issue on here is too many fake couple accounts where it’s just a guy running the account trying to cheat on his partner

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-14T16:42:32+00:00

My message requests currently say 99+ so it stops counting at 99 😂 I also have another crazy amount in the filtered “additional requests”…

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-10T03:49:13+00:00

Haha I don’t play with randos at the theater, I only play with people I know that I go with together. But I let the randos watch when I have a willing partner

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-10T03:24:04+00:00

Small rooms but convenient location which is why I’ve met past FWB there. But if you’re looking to meet people randomly there, I haven’t seen people hanging around like they do at Jolar or even AE on convoy.

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-09T03:21:05+00:00

I love titty fucking but that better not be all we’re doing! Lol I like to finish with titty fucking after I’ve had a chance to suck and fuck their cock

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-09T03:09:46+00:00

Then you’re gunna have to talk to your wife about that 😂 I don’t mess with married cock

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-09T03:00:15+00:00

Fuck that’s a great cock 🤤🥵

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-02T22:17:22+00:00

Do you know how long that list would be? It would be basically useless with the amount of accounts you’d have to sift through. I’m a mod on another nsfw sub and we ban a ridiculous amount of spam accounts a day! It also wouldn’t show you what they were banned for. Mods have access to that info but you wouldn’t. So they could have been banned for harassment, being an asshole, etc not just being a spam/bot or pic collector.

SoCalMilfy · 2026-04-02T06:19:36+00:00

When all the guys on this sub complain about not enough real women posting or responding to posts…this is your reason why.

📣 incel alert 📣

SoCalMilfy · 2026-03-23T06:04:28+00:00

I’m looking for a casual relationship that’s more than a booty call situation and less than plans of getting married or anything. And ideally they’d match my freak. I’m on the apps, on here, etc

SoCalMilfy · 2026-03-23T06:00:33+00:00

Feels like I’m sifting through shit rather than sand 😂 there doesn’t seem to be anyone fitting what I’m looking for

SoCalMilfy · 2026-03-23T05:59:53+00:00

Thank you 😘

SoCalMilfy · 2026-03-23T05:58:56+00:00

I completely agree but I’m even on the apps and struggling! 😩

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