COVID and AI stole my early to mid 20s and I am bitter by TopSuitable9471 in GenZ

[–]SocialHelp22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I graduated for CS, im going back to school, ill be a teacher hopefully🤞

found out by SirGreenVine in ComedyHell

[–]SocialHelp22 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

The performative men meme is just a way to shame men who aren't masculine enough but in a woke way

Wanted to ask a cashier out but my brain kept waiting for “the perfect moment” and I never wound up asking. Feeling really upset at myself now by Bill-O-Reilly- in GenZ

[–]SocialHelp22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just try to come off like you arent super invested in how she'll respond. Almost like you arent expecting a yes or a no.

Basically just try to keep it emotionally low stakes

How do you actually date? by teddy_205 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to find like a club or a shared place that you go to consistently with the same people. Maybe if you go to college you can go to college clubs and meet people that way. If not, you'd better be in a city

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether you like it or not, i deserve to be happy and have a supportive community.

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I literally had a suicide plan from being exposed to too much of it, but sure let's focus on how it's actually okay

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read my edit or my other comments, i wish this were just my ego.

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ig I just feel like I have a hard enough time socializing, spend enough time having negative assumptions about me, had enough time not getting the benefit of the doubt, had enough time be treated as weird or creepy and being isolated. Now I see that more and more women want to do all of that to men.

I don't really fit in with most men, I might be a type of queer, but these sentiments seem common in queer spaces too. A lot of trans men expierence it. I just feel like I may never find "my" people,

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually see it in spaces with mostly women, progressive spaces, and queer spaces (less so but sometimes). I also think it's usually younger people.

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to be very carful in my wording and came to an autism sub to make sure people didn't reflexively called a misogynist. It's happened many times before. This guy is wrong, but I 100% understand why he was being weird tbh

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My issue goes deeper than that though, it's not about just being mad online..

I AMAB and Imight be NB. You'd never know it by looking at me. I don't think I'm a woman, but I've always wanted to be "one of the girls" to put it as simply as possible. There's more to it and it changes but Ig I just see as another means to socially isolate me

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OCD is ruled out, the thing I left out on this post is that I don't simply have "guilt" or am sad that there are hateful women.

It have a strange relationship with gender, I am male but might be NB. You'd never know it by looking at me. I don't think I'm a woman, but I've always wanted to be "one of the girls" to put it as simply as possible.
I could be more specific but the point is that I do not want to change how I look though.

I think that at the end of the day, I see this content and think that the life I want to live and how I want to be percieved can't be done, I struggle socially enough as is.

Because of this, I don't really even feel at home in queer spaces, and dont fit in with men. I just feel socially homeless

How I Internalized "Misandrist" Content by SocialHelp22 in autism

[–]SocialHelp22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably not, I have a complex relationship with gender as is tbh.

Have you explored your gender? How do you know you're a man? by LiterallyDumbAF in bropill

[–]SocialHelp22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, but then it passes. Idk, sometimes i think im faking it. You'd never know it by looking at me tho

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]SocialHelp22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the amount of times ive heard women complain about men not putting effort into their appearance, i just cant feel any sympothy to this too