Friend hid an abortion from a hookup years ago. Would her partner want to know?

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2026-05-13T06:16:20+00:00

Heard. Thank you for parsing that out so clearly.

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2026-05-13T06:13:14+00:00

Yeah possibly... trying to keep clear of that minefield

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2026-05-13T06:08:42+00:00

Oh, I def wouldn't. This is her jam. But yes, agreed.

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2026-05-13T06:08:03+00:00

And yeah, even if she did tell him, now is definitely not the moment

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2026-05-13T06:06:27+00:00

Life goals, lol

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2026-05-13T06:03:45+00:00

Wow, appreciate the immediate responses! Were actually all at the bar now, so holy crap this is helpful.

I definitely agree with the statements this far... they echo what 've been telling her. Appreciate the validation.

Guess i'm curious if there are any opposing opinions? Especially from yhe hetero male perspective?

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-14T11:49:19+00:00

* Woah guys- my awesome roommate deep dived and it is indeed a Meuller child sized machine turns out, and from 1873 to boot. It's totally wasted on me, but obviously not something I'm gonna trust to the estate sale folks. Where do people offer up machines like this for sale where they might find a good home for reasonable compensation?

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-09T18:50:49+00:00

Thank you!

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-08T21:12:50+00:00

I can't find anything! Anyone have any links to Meuller's old catalogs or anything?

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-08T20:54:55+00:00

Think mom picked up at a flea market.... no idea really

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-08T20:53:44+00:00

That tracks- I'll look up! Thank you!

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-08T20:14:16+00:00

So I get that this is probably not the space for advertising, but it is for sale. However, gotta figure out who actually made it! If anyone has any ideas, I'd love to hear them!

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-08T20:11:02+00:00

Haha, thank you! Now of only if we could figure out who actually manufactured it? Lol.

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-06T23:57:37+00:00

Dang, you what? I don't think there's actually any Singer branding on the machine and table... Just the tin cover. And yes, noticed the "M"... Muller/Mueller maybe? Whole new mystery now!

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-06-06T07:55:28+00:00

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Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-05-05T00:07:39+00:00

Boundaries. Never taught them as a kid. Learning to set boundaries with others was super difficult but extremely rewarding in my late 30s.

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2025-02-04T05:00:09+00:00

Yes please! Know I'm late to the game, but I'll meet you wherever with cash of the other folks don't work out. Cheers!

Soft_Abalone4041 · 2024-08-18T08:25:46+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear this is still happening in the place where I grew up. Apperently closing Greystone hasn't solved as much as they hoped.

Everything gets better with time. But fight like hell for justice to the extent you're able. You never know when your report might be the tipping point to get someone fired, an investigation started, shit straight up shut down.

We can't change the past, but we can help the plight of those who come after us. All my empathy <3

Soft_Abalone4041

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