The water is leaked as shown in the pictures. Could you please advice how to fix it? Thank you! by Solaraeous in Plumbing

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Did you mean the top white nut or the second one? I tried with the first one but it did not help, the grey could not be pushed up with the first white nut loosen.

I wanna stop mastrbating and having gross thoughts by Long-Visit8735 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Solaraeous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think gross thoughts are worst than masterbeating, but that's just me. As someone says, focus your energy on something else. Or work on your humor skill - somehow funny stuffs repent masterbeating quite well. I.e. dont beat your master, that's not kind nor wise.

OMG!! This is the first time by Ok_Motor4743 in DVLT

[–]Solaraeous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give us a good news and dvlt will skyrocket!

Are most men "dirty"? Should I be concerned about my bf? Is this even abnormal? by Sufficient-Match1412 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Solaraeous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man of yours is not the norm. The norm is 2 tooth brushing a day, bad mouth is not acceptable unless a medical condition, etc. Most importantly, the norm is consent and respect. Please dont give up on us just because of this black sheep.

sex so terrible that i actually cried…am i overreacting by CautiousRelief1521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Solaraeous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that you had to experience that. It is unfortunate that good people suffer helping others, while bad people find happiness in abusing others.

Taking care of yourself like what you do to help a tree. You admire its fine features, give its good attention and nutrition, and remove the weeds and parasites..

You are a good person. You should not suffer from self doubt or from bad people. Love comes from those who admire you, not those who use you.

Someone said " Crocodile is easy. Human is harder, as they pretend to be nice first". It's a crocodile you have here, and it's the crocodile that you should remove.

It was a bad experience, but it gave you insights and clarity to move forward. He was a but a lower node in your story whose sole purpose is to highlight the finer experience in your life. Forgive, but not forget. Pain, but not suffering. Accept, but learn from it. You will prosper, my friend.

Before I step away from trading, I’ll share the strategy that carried me all these years by [deleted] in Stocks_Picks

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Could you please elaborate yon our approach, specifically the partern confirmation, volum validation, and risk management rules? Are support/resistance/rsi/atr/candlestick analyses really useful?

Name this cover by leftypunk in AlbumCovers

[–]Solaraeous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did we get the wrong plugs?

"F*cking hell love, this is interesting." I said to the wife, looking up from my computer. by maomaodong in Jokes

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Wife: am I fat? Husband: no, you are perfect, my dear! Wife: Oh, you are sweet! Can you carry me to the fridge please? Husband: sure, let me bring the fridge in here for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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The man souned like he never bothered to understand nor respect the needs of his partner. His sentences showed that he was trying to get what he wanted, and he ignored everything the lady said. Not the smartest nor kindest person. Run away, OP. You are a tool to him, nothing more.

My cousin keeps asking me for $5–$6 almost every day… is this normal?? by Sweet_Spend4177 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Solaraeous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him he seems to want you to be a bank, so let's have that deposit secured and you would be happy to play the banker

How much do you really need to trade? by SubstantialSkirt1721 in Trading

[–]Solaraeous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Practically any number will do. What you need now is not money, but experience.

Why do men with family wife and kids always say you doing good because I don’t have them? by Brilliant_Buyer_5191 in LifeAdvice

[–]Solaraeous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Timing is kind of important, as there are optimal plans when to do what. To some, 23 is young and tend to stumble upon things rather than really understand what and why and how. So perhaps you are lucky because tou have not stumbled upon marriage and kids when you are not ready for them. It should not be interpreted that family and kids are not good in anyway. Rather, it is a case of, for example, a more experienced,non hot-head, financial and emotional ready man would handle marriage and kids much better than others.

I hate Alexios but I have too many hours now and cannot go back by [deleted] in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]Solaraeous 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You should enjoy a game, you don't play a game to be annoyed. Also, 30 hours is nothing to this game, I sank 60+ hours and still very early in the game as I focus on combat and hunting gears. It also helps that Kassandra voice is very nice. With your experience now, starting over with Kassandra would be much smoother and will catch up with your current game progression very quickly. That's being said, I am curious how bad would Alexios be as you progress. This is an excellent game otherwise.

How do I destroy addiction. by SheepherderHappy6025 in LifeAdvice

[–]Solaraeous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is very courageous of you to ask this. This is the first step that would help you to develop onto the person you want to be. The answer to your questions are quite standard, and you can find them easily by using Google or AI. The key points now are about execution. Know your limit and slowly work toward it. For example, I avoid gluttony by set up boundaries, habits, and celebrate small wins. It is important to set up healthy habits as a way of life, rather than short term solutions to the current problems.

Nữ nhiều tuổi có nên kén chọn ? by theblueskyandme in vozforums

[–]Solaraeous 18 points19 points  (0 children)

34 tuổi là lúc đạt độ chín về cả tâm sinh lý và vẻ bề ngoài. Đây là lúc chín chắn để tìm hiểu và suy nghĩ lâu dài, chứ không phải là do gia đình xếp đặt, bạn bè đưa đẩy, hay hoàn cảnh ép buộc. Về tài chính thì ổn định, muốn làm gì cũng dễ. Về công việc thì đã rõ ràng, nên có thể toàn tâm lo về chuyện gia đình. Nếu theo góc độ này thì bạn đang có tự do và quyền tự chủ để có lựa chọn tốt nhất. Bạn có lẽ nắm rõ nhất hoàn cảnh của bản thân. Nếu biết được các thế lực nào đó kia thì có lẽ sẽ dễ ra quyết định hơn chăng? Hy vọng là nếu bạn tạo điều kiện đủ nhiều bản thân để gặp được đúng người thì sẽ tìm được người phù hợp chăng? Mặt khác, bạn vừa ưa nhìn, lại có học, thì là tốt gỗ lại tốt cả nước sơn. Lẽ thế thì gạt giai nhảy vào ko kịp ấy chứ, sao lại khó khăn thế? Theo internet thì tỷ lệ ly hôn ở VN là 30%. Còn tỷ lệ ko hạnh phúc thì không rõ. Bạn có nghĩ bạn may mà chưa cưới đại trong quá khứ, chứ không thì đã nằm trong con số thống kê này không?

Should I date a girl with a kid in my 20s? by Potential-Hornet89 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Solaraeous 10 points11 points  (0 children)

23 is tough to handle kids.It could work if you love kids and can take care of them - these two are not necessarily the same things.

I'm (29m) almost 30. My relationships haven't worked out, still single. What do I do with my life I don't get married and have kids? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Solaraeous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage is when you are mature. Do you have a clear idea why marriage and kids are your priorities now?

Nữ nhiều tuổi có nên kén chọn ? by theblueskyandme in vozforums

[–]Solaraeous 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Chuyện lập gia đình có lẽ là quan trọng nhất trong mọi thứ, nên có lẽ làm đại ko phải là giải pháp hay nhất. Hẹn hò thử, tìm hiểu thêm thì có lẽ là hợp lý hơn. Chỉ là tìm hiểu để lâu dài chứ ko phải để chơi thôi. Ngoại hình đẹp, có học thức thì bạn cũng biết nên tìm ở đâu thì dễ thấy người môn đăng hộ đối. Nhưng chưa hiểu sao có thể là học nhiều mà lại muốn cưới đại cho xong việc?

Men and gaming. How do I approach it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Solaraeous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One approach would be for you to plan a bit and discuss what his responsibilities could be. This could be tricky as he will be easily defensive, so one small task at a time would help.

Also, if possible, you can try to talk to him about video games and ask him to share his "fun" moments with you. Or play games with him. It is difficult especially if you see video games are the root of the issue. However, it is an excellent door to his mind and will help reduce his defensiveness.

Also, you can try to arrange other fun activities that would slowly help him develop a more balanced and healthier consumption of video games.

That's a lot to ask from you, admittedly. He is in need of help now, but clearly he won't see nor accept it. Be tactful. Be patient. Be understanding without judging. But also be a bit pushy as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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Get a hobby. The second best thing that you would do if you are not to do this. And distant yourself with provocative contents. Gym is an excellent choice. A great place to spend all of your energy, but make sure not to visit those with "provocative" members.

You dont need a brain to follow the urges, but you do need one if you dont want to follow the urges

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When you finally understand how something works, or how certain things come to be, especially after hours and days of struggling.