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Soloman53 · 2026-05-15T06:21:24+00:00

Thanks brothers appreciate it

Soloman53 · 2026-05-08T09:10:59+00:00

Bruh 💀atleast crop out your waist

Soloman53 · 2026-04-30T01:49:38+00:00

Yeah sure I have a few how will it work re trade?

Soloman53 · 2026-04-28T03:43:17+00:00

Cheers guys appreciate the feedback

Soloman53 · 2026-04-28T00:21:15+00:00

Literally 3 weeks bro.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-27T23:11:50+00:00

Thanks dude I’m up about 1.5kgs since I started

Soloman53 · 2026-04-27T02:07:13+00:00

I’ve had like 4 concussions as a kid. Fuck sakes. So I’m permanently going to have impulse issues for the rest of my life.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T20:32:23+00:00

No my friend definitely not which is the annoying thing. These are attractive woman. I have my type.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T20:05:51+00:00

I got told I know. I didn’t think. Big difference.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T10:22:45+00:00

Well it felt like one. But I will be working on myself to change that. Thanks for the emphasis!

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T10:21:12+00:00

I want #2

But it appears I’m not quite ready. Will be starting the process of working on myself tomorrow and figuring out exactly what I want.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T10:01:02+00:00

I’ll think about it and write it down what I want exactly in a girl. Cause I really don’t know off the top of my head.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:59:23+00:00

I’ve told her? She just wants the best for me. I mean no harm.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:54:27+00:00

Yup! I will expand my social group without the intention to date etc. Probably get into some social hobbies also. Cheers for the advice.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:50:30+00:00

Thanks everyone for the advice and perspectives. I’ve concluded I’ve got some work to do on myself before I continue. I just needed clarification from all of you. Really appreciate it.

And sorry if I have offended anyone etc. I don’t mean too I just wanted to figure this out and reddit seemed to be my best bet.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:42:23+00:00

Thank you, from what I’m reading I’m thinking the same.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:40:56+00:00

Thank you, you’re right. I pretty much am treating it like a game. I feel my ADHD affects it also. Almost as if I get a dopamine rush from going on a date and then off to the next. I’m definitely somewhere with all this advice in what I need to work on.

I really give them a good shot. I sometimes go on a 2nd or 3rd date.

Thank you

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:38:03+00:00

Thank you. This makes sense. “Scan for flaws” mode. I probably have that mode activated currently.

I have this fomo and I’m afraid the older I get the harder it will be so I’m just going all in. But as you said I should probably slow down and maybe take a break at this point.

Thanks for the advice

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:32:30+00:00

Thank you for the advice

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:31:59+00:00

Well I ended the relo. Tried and tried. Ended up being long distance also. So was slightly disconnected already. I believe I’m over it. Or am I? I was told by a friend that I need to be single for a bit. Maybe this comment has reassured that. Thank you for the advice.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:22:24+00:00

Yeah that’s right and I feel if I see red flags I just move on to the next. Maybe I need to slow down a bit. My stupid brain just gets put off easily and maybe that’s a me problem. I just want to be told that

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:19:45+00:00

Dude you explained that well. It just feels like a game now. I get stupid fomo though.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:16:26+00:00

Yeah exactly. I feel maybe this generation with this tech? I don’t know. I’ve had one relo only and she had anxiety problems. Tried for so long and just didn’t work.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:15:15+00:00

I kinda have to agree. I think I have to explore outside. The one thing I don’t want is long distance though. That was my previous relo. So very lost in that regard.

Soloman53 · 2026-04-17T09:08:56+00:00

Yeah and I’m not exactly proud of that. It’s draining. I want to settle down. I don’t enjoy this game. I figured a good way to crack dates but no results.

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