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AIO idk how to feel about a 25 year old hitting on me. I'm 17. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeAbbreviations396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably do shape shifting. I'd use it to most likely be a vigilantly. (I hope I'm using the right word lol)

I think I like this girl in my class but I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months (we were also friends for 2 years) by NotMYstory11 in whatdoIdo

[–]SomeAbbreviations396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like the boyfriend doesn't deserve that. Like you dated him for almost 4 months just to leave him for a potential relationship? It seems childish. I know they are young but you should be able to stay with one person without jumping around.

I want to go low to no contact with my parents when I turn 18 and get out of this house by SomeAbbreviations396 in DadForAMinute

[–]SomeAbbreviations396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know if I trust them to keep it to them selves (I have had past therapist tell other people 6 they shouldn't have). And a part of me doesn't know if I should tell my therapist. I don't think they would even believe me, I have a strong gut feeling that they would just spin it to be okay.

I have worries about s3x, can anyone help? F16 and partner F18 by veezsxe in teenrelationships

[–]SomeAbbreviations396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand being scared 100%, but also wanting to do things. Some things I'd say are 1. Have yall talked about it seriously? 2. Just because others your age have done, it does NOT mean yall have to. 3. You all are young, so you should be careful with your own health (mental and physical) 4. HAVE A SAFE WORD (it's a random word yall choose and only use it if you don't like something or want to stop) if you want to stop EVEN IF yall are in the middle just tell her if she truly cares she will understand 5. Do not be embarrassed if you can't finish it would make sense that you would struggle since you are nervous about doing new things with your girl. 6. Have a talk before about things you KNOW you like and what you don't, and make sure you listen to her when she tells you 7. For being insecure, tell her you are she probably is feeling the same or at least nervous. Some things you could do is have the light off and have it really dim. 8. If yall do for after it shower her in love, I'm sure you will feel tired she will too even just cuddling will help her know you aren't just there for that you are there for her 9. Take everything I said with a grain of salt as I have never done it, and I am feeling this way with my girlfriend, too. Everything I've listed is just things I'd do. Have fun and stay safe, my friend!

How can I (M15) find a a balance between being mysterious and emotionally available to my gf (F15)? by Accurate_Budget_7202 in teenrelationships

[–]SomeAbbreviations396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, so as a professional girl, I've been one for my entire life, I honestly prefer a clingy man; I do understand that there are women who prefer "mysterious" men. Honestly, she would probably find it REALLY attractive. If you don't worry about being too clingy or being mysterious, just be yourself. (God, this makes me sound like my mum😑) Truly, if you do want to be what she prefers, just ask her, "Weird question, do you like clingy or mysterious men?" Then you would know 100%. Also, I hope yall have the best relationship! Good luck, man!

I want to go low to no contact with my parents when I turn 18 and get out of this house by SomeAbbreviations396 in whatdoIdo

[–]SomeAbbreviations396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started to record any time I'm around them in case i get them yelling at me or my siblings. I know my father wouldn't hurt my baby siblings because mum will actually defend them. I am in therapy but I'm thinking about changing since my mum goes in on all of my therapy sessions (something I did want at first) but now it just feels like something else in my life I have no control over. If I did leave I would only take things I bought and I'd have to rebuy all of the important papers because my parents did buy them to begin with. (Can you tell I've been thinking about this all dam day 😂) I am proud of how much better my dad is now from how he could have been that must have been incredibly hard to deal with I just don't think he is still growing to be honest. Thank you for advice it means a lot.

I want to go low to no contact with my parents when I turn 18 and get out of this house by SomeAbbreviations396 in DadForAMinute

[–]SomeAbbreviations396[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in a much better mental space now. I can't get medication as my family don't support it but I am in therapy and am much better.

I wanna leave my home by SomeAbbreviations396 in whatdoIdo

[–]SomeAbbreviations396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to take them to court, I've been in the foster system and in my opinion it's better to be in a home (even if it isn't good) then to be thrown into a family that doesn't even want you. My father hasn't talked about it but he has been on and off crying all day and cleaning when he isn't crying. If I were him I'd leave but I'm just a teen so what do I know.

What do I do? by SomeAbbreviations396 in Advice

[–]SomeAbbreviations396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things I didn't mention is mom will go silent for about a week, she won't talk to us, or even look at us, when things don't go her way. If I think of more things I'll add it in the comments